The Love Brings Heaven

UNFORTUNATELY A HUSBAND

THE GREAT REWARD OF MARRIAGE

From Jabir Din Abdullah Radhiyallahu anhuma, from the Prophet said, "If a husband gives. drinking water to his wife, then he is rewarded"

HR. Ahmad, no. 17195, and others, are rated shahih in Shahih Al Jami", 602

Though only a glass of water, then what if he always "drinks his wife's heart" with religious knowledge, advice, cheerfulness, and noble character.

When Allah Ta’ala destined to compare you with men who are less romantic, stiff, not “care”, and various shortcomings according to your point of view, rest assured You can still achieve happiness. Do not over-dramatize negative feelings, but try to find the gap of goodness. On the other hand, women actually have the same thing as men. This is where in the sacred institution of the household, each individual complements each other and covers or interprets the negative sides. By making the standards of morality and religion as the main barometer for household barakah.

And the true figure of the prayerful husband is the figure who provides education and teaching of the Islamic religion. As the leader of the household who guards his family from the fires of hell, invoke obedience to purify Allah Ta’ala. Allah Ta’ala says :

يَاأَيَّهَا الَّذِيْنَ أَمَنُوْا قُوْا أَنْفُسَكُمْ وَأَهْلِيْكُمْ نَارًا

“O you who believe, save yourself and your family from the fires of hell (QS. At-Tahrim :6)

The above verses are as follows :

‘Ali bin Abi Thalib radhiyallahu danhu said: “Teach religion to your family and also teach Islamic civilisations.”

Qatadah rahimahullah said: ”All your families should obey Allah, prevent them from doing mischief. Let them keep the commandments of Allah and help them. When you see them do mischief then prevent and forbid them.”

and other tafsir.

Those who marry for the purpose of maintaining purity will be given the help of Allah Ta’ala and Allah Ta’ala will uphold and strengthen the marriage that was built because of love for Him. Marrying a gentleman is a gift and a blessing to be grateful for. The ideal husband figure is the gift of Allah Ta’ala for heaven-indu women. A beautiful will for the couple: ”If a servant is married half his religion, then he should fear Allah in half.” (CHR. Ath-Thabrani in al-Ausath and al-Hakim in al-Mustadrak. Al-Albani in as-Silsilah ash-Shahihah no. 623).in al-Mustadrak. Al-Albani in as-Silsilah ash-Shahihah no. 623).

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Their food is ready, then wash their hands before eating either using a spoon or not just want to keep from all bacteria.

After that they immediately pray and eat it, when they eat they do not talk to each other because it is the sun.

after eating..

"Alhamdulilah, as well as the food, I do not want to go home klo gini" said ilmi

"We still have a few more days to enjoy the natural atmosphere here" said umar

"Owh yes, I forgot, I want to post the picture earlier deh, that's good bngt" said ilmi while taking his cellphone to post pictures of umar and he.

The caption "Love is the embodiment of the beauty of the universe, when someone is in love, then everything will look beautiful." #beloved husband

"You post the pot?It's got a stick" said umar

"Yes with papa mas, I love ko"

A second later whatsApp ilmi was flooded by comments from friends including teachers and his brother, Ilmi was so laughing because he felt this was very strange, even though it was just an ordinary photo.

"I don't know when I post this photo even so my whatsApp rame,Temn temn I like kepo with my life hihi" said ilmi

Umar can only shake his head to see the behavior of scientists like this who become super bucin.

"Mas mas, when my friend came here,"That's your boyfriend il, uh handsome bngt, met dimn?know dong sm his friend, ready to know there is a handsome guy just as rich he wkwk"..your time is praised by people s!"ilmi

"I do not like to be praised by people, the color of praise can express dislike or vice versa, but klo she emng praise me because I am handsome, thank you, even though I do not spread charm"umar

"So you're grateful or not?ih ko so strange si, surely you like to be praised handsome"cap ilmi

"Eh there is a gini comment as well"That is your husband il, it is a handsome god yes, met dimn, dijodhkan by mother yes, may Langgeng ya il, recently this kli kmu this post in story wa kmu...he's muji kmu again" said ilmi

"Thankful to say thank you"

"Yes continue, teacher I also nyaj nih banyaj nih who said hopefully lasting sm her husband, Amin, but there are also nih teachers who spend time in cht I gini "Il kmu ko pst your husband, but there are also nih nih nybelin time teacher in cht I gini "Il kmu ko pst your husband, but there are also nih nih gyebelin time teacher in cht,my heart hurts to see pictures like this hks hks, I don't know ni lecturer bucin bngt base"

"He likes you?often he cht kmu, often eat brng in the campus?"ask umar

"yes, I also know the limits I'm already married, have an amazing husband for what to look for another right"

"I believe in you" umar said

"Yaudah yu we go home I am afraid it will rain again, plus soon will be azan zuhur, the weather is already cloudy bngt ga support the same moment we are warm wk udah yu" said ilmi

"Bucin mulu, I've gone pay first you first aja deh" said umar

Seven Tips for Husbands Not to Move to Another Heart

1- Wife seriously delves into religion.

Allah Ta’ala says,

إِنَّمَا يَخْشَى اللَّهَ مِنْ عِبَادِهِ الْعُلَمَاءُ

“Verily those who fear Allah among His servants are only scholars.” (QS. Fatashir: 28).

If the wife studies religion well, she will be good, surely she will direct the husband to be more afraid of God so that his heart does not cheat to another heart.

And remember a good woman definitely gets a good man,

الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ

“Vile women are for vile men, and vile men are for vile women (after all), and good women are for good men and good men are for good women (after all).” (QS. An-Nour: 26)

2)According to the husband's invitation for bed business.

From Abu Hurairah radhiyallahu ‘anhu, Prophet shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, Nabi,

إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَجِىءَ لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ

“If a man takes his wife to bed, then the wife is reluctant to fulfill it, then the angel will curse her until the time of Shubuh.” (CHR. Bukhari, no. 5193 and Muslim, no. 1436).

3)Need to remind husband when wrong.

Allah Ta’ala says,

وَأْمُرْ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ وَانْهَ عَنِ الْمُنْكَرِ وَاصْبِرْ عَلَى مَا أَصَابَكَ إِنَّ ذَلِكَ مِنْ عَزْمِ الْأُمُورِ

“And tell (humans) to do good and prevent (them) from doing evil and be patient with what befalls you. Verily such is the things which are obligated (by Allah).” (QS. Luqman: 17)

But remember because the husband who is advised certainly remains in a subtle way. From ‘Aisyah radhiyallahu ‘anha, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda,

إِنَّ الرِّفْقَ لاَ يَكُونُ فِى شَىْءٍ إِلاَّ زَانَهُ وَلاَ يُنْزَعُ مِنْ شَىْءٍ إِلاَّ شَانَهُ

“Any attitude of tenderness that is on something, will surely decorate it. And he is not deprived of anything, unless it aggravates it. (CHR. Muslims, no. 2594)

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