
Next Shaykh Penazham said in his Nazham: "The foreseeable future is connected with the problem which has been cleared of its meaning, to the one who asks."
That is, are problems related to marriage, adab raises the wife and others.
"Broadcasting the wife's secrets to others is forbidden, my friend, stay as far away as possible."
Shaykh Penazham explained that the husband and wife should not spread the secrets of their partner to others. Because keeping secrets is a mandate that must be maintained. Also if the secret is a blemish that must be covered. In addition, because there is a description of the hadith, that broadcasting the secret was threatened with a very severe threat.
In the book of Madkhal explained, that when a husband wants to gather with his wife, while between the two there is a secret, then the husband (wife) should not need to open the secret.
The author of the book An-Nashihah also said that a husband should not open up (tell) about his wife (spoken the words of his wife) to others. Because that is part of what fools do. Suffice it to say such a deed is very out of place
...Benefits...
Imam Tafjaruni said, that for people who worry (fear) themselves dream out seminal, then when going to sleep should he read the following prayer: ALLAAHUMMA INNII A'UUDZUBIKA MINAL IKHTILAAFI WA A'UUDZUBIKA AN YYAL'ABAS SYAITHAANU BII FIL YAQDHATI WAL MANAAMI. It means: "O Allah, I have taken refuge in You from a dream out of semen, and I have taken refuge in You from Satan's play on me while awake and asleep."
The prayer is read three times and is supplemented by reading the Ayat Kursi and the last verse of the letter of Al-Baqarah.
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It's already at set two, another azan ashar will be reverberating, all the santri disbanded from their respective classes because it's time to clean up and also prepare for the congregational ashar prayer.
ilmi just finished bathing he was at home umar at this time, after returning the santri scientists immediately rushed home to clean his big house,he came home also not alone because here there is a mother and father so they also helped clean up his house is quite spacious.
After all the homework is done, Milmi immediately rushed up to his room to prepare for this afternoon umar will teach kebandung, noah ga'uh ga's patient.
Ilmi decided to wear simple clothes.
she wears a white shirt that is up to her knees with a brown androk and a coksu-colored hijab.
After the scientist finishes changing his clothes and preparing all the needs or objects treated there the scientist will put it in a sizable bag as well.
Shortly after umar came, the sound of his roaring car was heard up, the filmmi immediately went down to the lower floor to welcome her husband.
"Assalamualaikum" said umar while pushing his door knob
"waalaikumsalam, Ooh, do we make kebandung?I don't like it when you fail"Sap ilmi
"Dear, I want to go up first to take my wallet for a while" said umar and immediately left
Ilmi decides to wait for him in the car.
Soon mas umar came out with his mother and father, and he lowered his car glass.
"Neng, my heart, how many days do you want to spend?"mother says
"Yes ma'am, it may be a few days aja si ma'am, so it's umar have a great responsibility also the son of the cottage, ga may be umar continue to take off hands so aja"Ucap umar
"Yes already gkpp, be careful or in the way do not speed speeding, God "Father mother
"Bah mother" said the scientist while waving his hand when his car was brought forward.
Skipp....
When they are still traveling precisely on the toll road cipularang arrived bright clouds turned pitch black, it looks like it will rain heavily fortunately for scientists to bring two jackets of ilmi and umar.
"It will be a test that, you wear the jacket well, continue to sleep because it is still a long way from our journey" said Umar while stroking the head of science
"Yes, fortunately I also bring a jacket for you, I know for sure klo kebandung will be cold" said ilmi while mero jacket in his bag and give it to umar
"Beloved, you sleep so that you can not cape really until there" said umar while approaching himself to science and kiss the right cheek of science.
Skippy
After arriving the rain has not subsided but the rain is even more dense, fortunately before umar until here he has booked the villa online first so after until they go straight in.
The villa was quite spacious scientists decided to sleep in the upper room and umarpun agreed to the will of science.
Their clothes are a little wet because they have to bulak back to take the goods in the car
"Would you like to eat now or later?"ask ilmi
"After a time yes, about it soon will also enter magrib time" said umar
"Yes I prepared your prayer clothes first yes, you took a shower first gih, fear of pain" said ilmi
"Yes dear" said umar and immediately rushed to the bathroom
At 17:50
azan magrib also reverberated, sudau milmi ready for congregational prayer with umar, this is the first prayer performed with umar in congregation because previously he will continue praying congregation 'ah mosque.
The law of performing the five prayers at this time is mandatory or fardu `ain, which is something that is required and binding to every individual a Muslim who has mature, healthy sense, balig (mukallaf). When this obligatory prayer is abandoned, the one who leaves it gets sin from Allah SWT.
فَإِذَا قَضَيْتُمُ الصَّلَاةَ فَاذْكُرُوا اللَّهَ قِيَامًا وَقُعُودًا وَعَلَىٰ جُنُوبِكُمْ ۚ فَإِذَا اطْمَأْنَنْتُمْ فَأَقِيمُوا الصَّلَاةَ ۚ إِنَّ الصَّلَاةَ كَانَتْ عَلَى الْمُؤْمِنِينَ كِتَابًا مَوْقُوتً
When you have finished the prayer (you), remember Allah when you stand, when you sit down and when you lie down. Then when you feel safe, establish the prayer (as always). Verily, the prayer is the time-determined fardhu of those who believe. (QS. al-Nisa’: 103).
From Abu Hurayrah, the Prophet said:
“Shalat a man with congregation than his prayer at home or in the market is more main (doubled) reward with twenty-five times. That is because if he abhors by perfecting his wudhunya and then out of his house to the mosque, he does not go out except to perform congregational prayers, he said, then there is not a single step of his steps except that one degree shall be exalted, and one of his faults shall be blotted out. When he prayed, the angel would come down to pray for him while he was still in his place of prayer, O Allah forgive him. O Allah, have mercy on him. And one of you is always counted in the state of prayer as long as he awaits the execution of the prayer.” [HR
Al-Bukhari 131 and Muslim 649].
In the sirri prayer (Dzuhur and Ashar) is 25 degrees, and in the jihri prayer (Shubuh, Maghrib and Isya) is 27 degrees, because the Shahuh , Maghrib and Isha prayers feel heavier.