
"Begini Pit, Rasulullah shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam.he once said,
أَحْبِبْ حَبِيبَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ بَغِيْضَكَ يَوْمًا مَا، وَأَبْغِضْ بَغِيْضَكَ هَوْنًا مَا عَسَى أَنْ يَكُونَ حَبِيبَكَ يَوْمًا مَا
“Love the person you love just, it could be that one day he will be the person you hate the most. And hate the person you hate just the bus so one day he becomes the one you love”[2]
From Aslam that Umar ibn Khaththab radhiallahu anhu said,
لاَ يَكُنْ حُبُّكَ كَلَفًا وَلاَ بَغُضُكَ تَلَفًا فَقُلْتُ كَيْفَ ذَاكَ ؟ قَالَ إِذَا أَحْبَبْتَ كَلِفْتَ كَلَفَ الصَّبِيِّ وَإِذَا أَبْغَضْتَ أَحْبَبْتَ لِصَاحِبِكَ التَّلَف
“Don't your love make an exaggeration for you, nor does your hatred cause destruction for you.
Allah ‘Azza wa Jalla says,
وَكَذَلِكَ جَعَلْنَاكُمْ أُمَّةً وَسَطًا لِّتَكُونُوا شُهَدَاءَ عَلَى النَّاسِ وَيَكُونَ الرَّسُولُ عَلَيْكُمْ شَهِيدًا
“And so (after all) We have made you (people of Islam), middle and chosen people that you may bear witness to (deeds) of men and that the Apostle (Muhammad) may bear witness to (deeds) you.” (QS. Al Baqara: 143)
So if the pipit loves someone, it should be in the middle of it, only, maybe at the beginning of the pipit also felt hatred in men who were willing to propose a pipit because it might indeed be a pipit did not know at that time, so when finally the pipit tau its depth, so when finally,good nature and good habits, so that even the cheek turned upside down to love it, even love it, love it,and for the problem of the pipit is not married maybe it's one of God's reprimands for the big family to be a more patient lgi, lgi,because those who get a reprimand from Allah are those whom Allah loves, Allah wants his servant to be patient and If he graduates will Allah raise his rank as the story of the Prophet Ayyub alaihisalam,he was the most patient man, at that time God tested all the wealth until the wife of the prophet Ayyub left her, The trials of the prophet Ayyub Alaihisalam were very hard, but because of his patience, his fear of Allah, and his fear of Allah, Allah raise his rank until the lost treasure is returned again to Prophet Job as, so if you must be patient pit I am sure surely Allah will give a good man for you,I think you should forget the man who used to propose to you, and try to be sincere, surely your path will be good, Allah will always help the Muslims because of the sincerity of some of these people. Nabi shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda, which means :
“God will help this people because of the poor, because do’a the poor, because of their prayers and because of their sincerity in charity"
"MasyaAllah thank ya ustazah, pipit so much better if it's been told directly on ustazah"
"Same pit, if mae doesn't want anything??"ilmi
Mae smiled "Bingung ustazah want what, so it's a little mae there is no thought of marriage that hehe" said the 12-year-old child
Ilmii smiled "Alright, kalo is done, you immediately rest in each room, do not forget ablution first, and pray seroka'at or two roka'at, and go to sleep immediately,tomorrow will have to pay dawn not until late" said ilmi reminded
"Na'am ustazah, shukron, we're in advance if it's ustazah, Assalamualaikum"
"Girishal"
And coincidentally umar came to pick up the scientist Dimasjid, the business of disantriwan is finished, staying to pick up the science and go home.
But before going from the inn santriwati, there are still many santri who are still wandering in the field, this color is already night, umar reminded first to immediately enter the room.
"Write"Call umar
"Assalamualaikum Na'am ustad, what's the matter??"
"Waalaikumsalam, please write yes you say sm santriwati to immediately enter each room to immediately sleep, this color is almost 11" said umar
"Of ustad,th ilmi, I am Assalamualaikum first"
"Yes,Waalaikumsalam"
Finally umar was calm to go home, the whole boarding school was safe, the color was locked tightly to the front gate, and also the rear gate, and more safely, there was a 24-hour guard
Homehouse...
Umar and ilmi are already in the room, karna below is still crowded, there is still a mother, th husna and father who are still watching television together, but ilmi and umar decided to take a break
Ilmi immediately cleaned himself from changing clothes with long-sleeved negligee, and followed by taking ablution water and performing prayer witir and prayer repentance to each other two raka'at.
"Come"cap ilmi
"Why dear" said umar directly turned the body that also just finished doing sunah witir prayer
"I love sm kmu haha" said ilmi
"What si?I also know you love me, I also love you" said umar while laying down his body in the field of science
"Ydh, haha"scriptan
"Darling, I will ever ask God for prayer when praying in a benediction, I slip a short prayer to the longest, you know my prayer is rich?"
"What's tuch?"
"Gini,"Yes Allah make me and my family into righteous and righteous people, and I beg you, to be a husband who can bring you and my family into heaven,I also ask that you may always be happy under any circumstances, and I ask Allah that you may be given more guidance"
"Hopefully my prayer and family prayer may be answered"
"Amin, and all I need to know is that, wanting to have a child takes effort, his efforts by praying and doing one of the sunbathe" said umar while ending with laughter
Ilmi smiled as she covered her two faces with both hands.
"You want that g??g will lama ko yang, promise" said umar
"Sholat prayers, rush the" ilmi said while releasing both of her hands from her face
"You want that??Alhamdulilah" said umar
Umar and ilmi also immediately perform sunah prayers that want to do intercourse.
After the completion of the prayer, umar immediately remove the clothes of ilmi one by one and before that umar turn off the lights and lock the door of the room tightly.
Hadiths
When one of you has intercourse with his wife, do not be naked, as a naked donkey
Saying Faith Khatab, "And let the people of the congregation always use a cover
for himself and his wife, whether when facing the Qibla or not.
Umar kissed to leave some marks in the body of science.
Umar bought ilmi kissed and continued stroking the wife so that the scientist could enjoy the sense of worldly pleasure which is also a big price to enter heaven.