
The family is the smallest unit in society. However, so many stories up to the instrumentation that occurs in the family. Not infrequently in the family grows affection naturally, but problems in the family are so diverse. That is why, before socializing with others, humans must grow and socialize in their own families, in their own homes.
"What's Shayang?" abraham asked his wife.
Marsha shook her head slowly, "No. .. need a hug from you, Mas," Marsha replied.
Abraham smiled, did not talk much, Abraham immediately clutched Marsha's body, his hands moved slowly and rubbed his back. "Yah kangen?" ask Abraham later.
"Yes, very bad," replied Marsha.
"It seems that since returning home, it has only now been embraced by you," Marsha replied with a sigh and closed her eyes slowly with her face close to her husband's chest. With her ears, Marsha could hear Abraham's heartbeat there.
"Sorry, the time is divided by Shayang .. You said, I also take care of Mira first so that Mira does not feel neglected. So, in these two days, I'm a lot with Mira" Abraham replied.
Fully Abraham also did Marsha's message to him to be able to take care of Mira well. Dividing time with Mira, and also sometimes they take turns. If Mira wants to be with her mother, then Abraham will take care of Marvel. And vice versa. So, Mira herself can understand that the affection of Mama and Papa is not reduced, only it is adjusted as well as possible because there is baby Marvel as well.
"Yes the Mas .. Maybe I'm the new one with you," Marsha replied.
She admitted that Marsha actually felt bad about her husband. Adapting to Mira and Baby Marvel inevitably makes time together with a partner less. Not infrequently mothers are immersed in household affairs and children, while fathers will be immersed in work. Therefore, not infrequently many couples feel that intimacy with their partners decreases after having children.
"Sama, I also miss, Shayang .. patient and adapt well. This is our family today" Abraham replied.
"Hem, yes . and we are growing up in this family. Our growing environment," he replied.
"True Shayang .. This is our growing environment. Mama Marsha, Papa Abraham, Mira, and Marvel. So, let's grow each other and grow each other" Abraham replied.
Marsha then nodded her head, "Totally .. This family is like a tree .. you are the root, I am the trunk, and our children are the branches. It continues to take root and grow solidly upward, and the branches will produce leaves that contain values, norms, ethics, and all the good things we give. Until finally the fruit grows in each twig," replied Marsha.
"If you need anything, just say Shayang .. I will take care of you until you recover. I read that caesarean section takes longer to recover. So I will always take care of you" Abraham replied.
"Yes Mas ..kan also has been treated and assisted many things. In particular, there was Mama Diah who was very helpful. The kitchen problem was handled full by Mama Diah, it alleviated me greatly. In Semarang there ... What did my mom do just now, Mas? Why has it been since our meeting that time, that Mama hasn't called me again?" ask Marsha later.
Yes, even though his life has been happy with his husband, children, and the existence of his mother-in-law. There was a point where Marsha felt a longing for her biological mother. The meeting in Semarang and the fact that Marsha discovered when Mama was married again, in fact did not glue the relationship between the two. Since then, her mother has never contacted her again.
"Maybe your mother was just busy Shayang" replied Abraham. Completely this answer is a mere formality because indeed Abraham was also confused to give an answer to Marsha.
"Then, when I was a kid, I thought my family was the perfect family. Beautiful mom, Papa with a good job and a good home. But all that changed. Yes, as time went on, the more stripes I could see. Harmony in my family is no more. Everything changes with hurt and sorrow. In fact, I used to feel that the growing environment in my family was ideal" Marsha later said.
"New miss Mama yah?" ask Abraham later.
Marsha also shed her tears. As a child, even though he was hurt a lot, he still misses his mother. Coincidentally, Marsha is also in labor. There is a sense of longing to be able to get the attention and affection of his own biological mother.
"Yes .. I may be missing you. I have a super good mother-in-law, but my own mother-in-law doesn't seem to put a little bit of her heart on me" Marsha replied.
Abraham rubbed Marsha's head close to her chest, and then kissed Marsha's forehead there. "Crying can .. It is important not to be too sad. Mama Diah loves you more than she loves me. At least it's also a form of goodness from God for you" Abraham replied.
"Yes, what is the love of a flocked person, has completely diverted the heart and feelings of my Mama huh Mas? And so is my father."
Marsha told me all that with a sigh that felt so heavy. Then, he broke his embrace.
"The picture of my family is not good and not perfect .. will we both make a beautiful portrait that our children can look up to adulthood?" pinta Marsha's.
"Yes can .. day by day we will be a beautiful portrait, so it will be a beautiful portrait for Mira and Marvel well ...."