
“Pa, Papa is a great figure for Mama and Mira,” he said by sleeping in his Papa's arms.
Yes, this time Mira asked to sleep with her Papa first. So much chatter between Papa and the boy. So does Mira who says that her Dad is a great person for her Mom and herself.
“Why can Mira?” abraham asked his little daughter.
“Iyah .. said Mama, Papa is great, working so Mama and Mira can eat, buy us a house so we don't get rained on. Papa who always accompanied Mama and accompanied Mira. I Love U, Pa,” he said by re-hugging his Papa.
Indeed when Marsha babysits Mira every day at home, Marsha will explain that her Papa is a great and responsible head of the household. Marsha explained in simple terms in the concrete actions her Father took, such as Abraham working to support them, a house bought to shelter from the heat and rain. Papa Abraham read Mira a book, and also helped Mama every day. All theories need to be explained in action sentences that can be understood by the child because he did see it directly.
“I Love U, My Little Girl,” Reply Abraham.
“Makanya, do not make Mama cry again ya Pa... kan Papa is the greatest for Mama,” reply Mira.
Abraham sighed and then rubbed Mira's head fondly, “Iya .. forgive Papa well. Papa was insensitive and made Mama cry. Mama was sad at that time?” ask Abraham.
“Iya, sad ... Mira who saw Mama is also sad,” reply.
Only Abraham felt that when two parents quarrelled, the child felt his sorrow. It was as if now Mira was talking from heart to heart with her Papa. Abraham was not an authoritarian Papa, but Abraham would listen to Mira's story and even Abraham did not hesitate to apologize to Mira as well.
"Later if the baby brother is born, Papa will have two children well. Me and my sister" said Mira again.
"Yes ... Mira happy not to have a baby sister?" tanyakanya.
"Seneng .. very nice Pa .. let alone baby boy. That's cute as Papa's," he replied.
Abraham smiled, and the little boy Mira could see that his father was a cute man. Until Abraham's hand moved and rubbed Mira's head.
"Important, her sister is healthy and perfect, baby. Later, Brother Mira also became a brother who loves the same sister yah," replied Abraham to Mira.
"Yes, dear dong," he replied.
Long enough Papa and the boy chatted together, the story before going to bed until finally, Mira was finally asleep. As soon as Mira was asleep, Abraham got out of bed slowly and then he went into his room, approaching Marsha who was lying on the bed.
"But booby?" tanyakanya.
"Not yet, wait for you," Marsha replied inching and took a seat still on the bed. "Sharing what was the same Mas Mira?" tanyanya.
Marsha sighed and raised a little face, then looked at her husband's face, "Cock freak .. kangen for what?"
"What a real .. You told Mira that I was a great person. What's the best for you?" ask Abraham later.
Ah, that means Abraham's sweet attitude is preceded by a story from Mira. Marsha nodded her head slowly, her hands moved and hugged Abraham's body there.
"Yes, you are the greatest person for me. I Love U, Papa Abraham" he said, closing his eyes for a moment.
"Sorry yes Darling .. I used to be very sweet to make you cry well. She said Mira, she was sad when she saw Mama and Papa fighting. I really didn't think, as small as that could already have a memory of us" replied Abraham again.
Marsha then nodded her head again, "Yes, she used to cry. Poor Mas .. maybe I used to be like Mira well .. saw my Mom and Dad quarreling, I was crying and sad. Only then was my grief not well validated. So, yes already .. I was sad myself, not pacified and validated Mama and my Papa," the story goes.
"That's it, but we don't fight, Shayang .. I'm the only one who bleeds, and you cry. Mira could already say that sad. Especially if we get to the fight and beating, of course Mira will be even more sad," he replied.
Marsha let out a long sigh and then pushed Abraham's chest for a moment, "You cook want to hit me Mas? You baga? I have been a victim of domestic violence before. Cook, you'll also hurt me in the same way as your sister?" ask Marsha.
Ah, only then did Abraham remember that Marsha had a bad past with her household first. Abraham shook his head and immediately hugged Marsha so tightly.
"No ... will not, Shayang .. will never. If I do, you can punish me" Abraham replied.
"Eat him, don't .. You're just sickened and insensitive, I've been in pain, until my cramping. If you raise your hand and do a beating it makes no difference dong you and him," Marsha replied again.
"Yes, sorry Shayang .. will not. During our marriage, I forgot about your past because I enjoyed this kind of household life with you too much."
"Eat him, do not yes Mas .. I am afraid of all forms of violence. Even diem alone is already violent loh Mas .. the name Silent Treatment silence the couple and the end can happen things that are not desirable. So, don't ... We better find a solution together," Marsha replied again.
"Yes Shayangku .. By the way, despite my imperfectness, thank you for making me a great figure for you" said Abraham, still keeping Marsha in his arms.
"Yes Mas .. thank you you for always being home for me. A house that will accept me with all your less and more. A home that gives me a sense of security and comfort. You are My Home, and I'll stay in you forever" she replied.
For Marsha, her husband is her home. A home that can accept it. With her husband, Marsha will live in it forever.
"Ah, I love u, Shayang .. You make me a great and strong man. Thank you," Abraham replied.