Quickie Marriages

QM 49's

"The recipe is not eaten?' ask Arka. Farah shook her head, she was already leaning on Arka's shoulders. They just got home about 10 p.m. The look of fatigue radiated from Farah. The two of them sat on the sofa as Farah was already very exhausted.

"Yang," call Arka softly. Farah just muttered softly, her eyes still closed.

"Just come home Ka?" ask Papa Arfan. Arka answered yes. He also offered 1 serving of rujak to his father-in-law. After chatting for a while Arka immediately carried Farah to their room. In the heart of course Arka feels pity especially the wife is still relatively young.

18 Years when Arka used to spend time with his friends to hangout or just hang out that is not clear, but the wife must spend time with him and soon become the mother of his children. Honestly Arka wanted to give the best education for his wife, but Arka knew and she really knew. His wife was different from most people, his heart was noble and Arka knew his wife well.

Arka will always try to make the wife happy, making her a figure as a place to realize all her dreams and desires. Did you ever think about what getting married young? Marriage is not as scary as her views. Marriage is a very good thing. Getting married while studying does not hurt. In Islam women are better at home to fulfill their obligations to their husbands and children.

Is the mind ancient? Obviously not, from women are born children who will bring great civilization in a country. How was born a fighter of Islamic figures, Muhammad Al-Fatih. He was born of an amazing mother. The education of his parents made him a sholeh person, tough again good. He fought to defeat the enemy in taking Constantinople. The first madrassa for the child is his mother, this verse turns out to be true especially for the family "the conqueror". Queen Valide Yumahatun Al Fatih's mother was a devout woman, a privileged mother, a mother who focused in educating her child, not branching out her feelings and heart, not branching her logic and intellect, not branching out, all are focused on giving birth to the great man, giving birth to the opening of Constantinople, giving birth to the man who later gets the promise of the prophet. Queen Valide Yumahatun put all her potential into educating Muhammad Al Fatih.

After each morning prayer, the mother took Muhammad Al Fatih to walk out, then showed from a distance the magnificent fortress of Constantinople, then he said "your name is the name of our prophet Muhammad Shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam, our prophet who once said 'the fortress is sure to be conquered' and you are the conqueror". There is a valuable lesson for the mothers of the Valide queens, the lesson is to seriously instill a great mission to the child.

Likewise his father was very extraordinary, delivering his son Muhammad al Fatih to the best place. Sulthan Muhammad Al Fatih is a learned Sulthan, a shaleh Sulthan, a great state and military leader who even got the promise of the greatness of the Prophet Muhammad shallallahu alaihi wa sallam, but did we know that long before becoming the Sulthan conqueror of Constantinople there was a history lesson far more powerful to know. Even his history can be imitated by any parent who wants to print the character of their children like the character of Sulthan Muhammad Al Fatih the conqueror of Constantinople.

Sulthan Muhammad Al Fatih rahimahullah who also holds the title Abul khairat, the seventh Sulthan in the family tree uthman, born at a time when his father needed a royal successor who could realize the great ideals of his predecessors, namely conquering Constantinople. So the choice to choose a successor to the kingdom was only given to Muhammad Al Fatih after his brother "Sulthan Alauddin" died. There is a valuable lesson for every Muslim family that parents should always think about the continuation of the charity that has been built, and it can be realized by thinking about the right education for children.

Sulthan Murad II was an intelligent and shale leader, a leader who was very close to the scholars and that closeness made him able to choose the right teacher for his son's education. But the problem is that every teacher who comes to Al Fatih to teach science and piety is always laughed at, abused and ignored. Sulthan Murad II was well aware to realize his great mission required a teacher who was able to form the character of his son. The father finally got the name of the right teacher, Sheikh Ahmad bin Ismail Al Kurani rahimahullah.

When Shaykh Ahmad came to the palace, Sulthan Murad II said to him "I will give my son's education to you" as Sulthan handed over the wood to Shaykh Ahmad and Sulthan continued his words "teach my son the knowledge that if he does not want to learn then hit him with this wood". Al Kurani immediately went to meet Muhammad Al Fatih with a wooden stick in his hand. He said, "Your father sent me to teach you. He told me to hit you if you don't want to carry out my orders."

Hearing those words, Sulthan Muhammad Al Fatih laughed. Al Maula Al Kurani also hit him very hard at the panel. This made Sulthan Muhammad Al Fatih afraid of him. Finally, he succeeded in circumcising the memorization of the Qur'an in a short time. Here there is a very expensive lesson, the lesson is to start the education of our children from the Qur'an and parents should choose the right teacher to educate children, when the teacher comes, give up the education of the child with all your heart. The next lesson is "carried". A teacher should have authority in front of students, otherwise there will be an educational apocalypse, the knowledge taught will not be useful anymore.

A Father and Mother must work together to be able to educate their children to be the best. To be the one who can bring both his parents to his Jannah God. The role of the mother is very important, therefore in Islam there is no prohibition if a woman demands knowledge even in the recommended. Women are the first madrasas for children. He must have extensive knowledge related to the times that are changing every day. Trying to create a learning method to be able to face an era full of frenzy.

Arka put his wife on the bed, he looked at every inch of the person who would accompany him to death to pick her up and God willing to be his heresy later in heaven. Aamiin, O God. He opened his wife's hijab slowly.

His hands searched for items that were commonly used for the wife to clean her face every night. Arka never demanded his wife should be like this or should be so. God willing he will accept as it is, but it is true that if the wife understands the science of religion then she will try to please the eyes of the husband.