Quickie Marriages
QM 13's
"Where's the deck stomach?" ask Arka while rubbing
the wife's stomach. It used to be when the beginning of marriage maybe they were both together
awkward, but not anymore. Farah who still has an easy soul
sometimes dressed like a Korean artist in the room, especially with
hair that has changed color becomes red.
Arka initially disagreed with
strange behavior that the wife who wants to change the color red, but because of the paint
the beginning of the wife's hair is not good so Arka allows it.
Sometimes Mother Ririn feels weird
with his son and ex. Even Arka also followed the coloring with
color red. Mother Ririn understood all actions as long as she did not oppose
islamic law, Arka has convinced Mother and Father that hair paint
the ones he uses are halal and contain no harmful substances and are colorless
blacker.
When I decided to
dyed hair, Mother Ririn has confirmed that it should not be changed
with black and Arka undertakes it. He let the color
lost on his own or when his hair has started to be long he will
cut it.
The Prophet of the Holy Word
غَيِّرُوا هَذَا بِشَيْءٍ وَاجْتَنِبُوا
السَّوَادَ
“Change this gray hair with
something, but avoid black.” (CHR. Muslim). From the hadith
it is very clear that the Prophet allowed hair coloring as long as
not black color. Then the great Shafi scholars’iyah explained that the color
it is recommended to color gray hair, namely hamroh (red), shofroh (yellow) and haram
using black color.
But there are also
makruh tanzih. But we should avoid using
black color because the Prophet said that avoid the color
blacker. Keep in mind that there are threats to people who dye their hair
or gray with black color. The threat reads as follows.
يَكُونُ قَوْمٌ يَخْضِبُونَ فِي
آخِرِ الزَّمَانِ بِالسَّوَادِ كَحَوَاصِلِ الْحَمَامِ لَا يَرِيحُونَ رَائِحَةَ
الْجَنَّةِ
“At the end of time it will be
there appeared a people who glimmered in black like a cache
the dove. They it will not smell heaven.” (CHR. Abu
David, An Nasa’i, Ibn Hibban in his shahih, and Al Hakim).
"Udah Enakan Mas, Udah
what time is it?" ask Farah curiously. He felt it was too
long asleep.
"Hour 1 night deck"Clearly
Carcass. He rubbed the head of his wife.
"Mas Adek Ma -"
Arka pants exposed to liquid
out of Farah's mouth. He knew it was vomit. Arcs
actually disgusted, but he did not want to make the wife sad with
his guilt.
"Oh Allah I'm sorry
hiks, I'm sorry mas" Farah was crying roaring like an abis
scolded when Arka was not angry at all. The arka even cleans up
"It's okay deck, though,
not crying at night" persuaded Arka softly. He's not possible
yelling or even scolding the wife who still looks limp.
"Maafin Adek Mas
huaaaaa, Adek does not know himself gini. Don't come near, Mommy,
it's true said adek carrier shit" said Farah.
Arka was silent to hear the words
the wife. He did not like the words that Farah said.
"Don't be this, I'm not
anything at all. Don't talk about it, I don't like it"
"A-So-Soved Mas,
huaaaa sorryin adek" repeatedly Arka held back her emotions not to
implode. However, the rest of his fatigue worked this afternoon not yet
lost, coupled with the wife's sudden strange behavior due to
be ill.
"Hey, honey, yes"
Arka left his wife
to clean yourself in the bathroom. He could not have hugged her
wife with vomit still attached to her.
Arka momentarily noticed his ears
against the cry of the wife, she hurriedly changed clothes before the occupants
the house woke up because of Farah.
"Don't ya baby, Come on
sleeping again" pinta Arka after finishing changing clothes.
"The angry hix is the same
Ducklings. Huaaa. It was adek ninggalin"
Small blows landed
on the chest of the Ark field.
"Huss, I'm just changing
clothes Sweetheart. Yes, I am not angry. Let's go to sleep now"
Arka again persuaded his wife.
He repeatedly massaged
his head felt like it was going to break. After a few minutes of crying, Farah
closed his eyes that felt heavy.
"Don't worry
again, Dream yes Lovely dear" said Arka slowly. She kissed
the wife's forehead and lips.
A pretty night makes Arka
troubled, he repeatedly tested his patience. This is how one
husband, however the wife's behavior do not even yell or play
hand. If the wife is wrong then rebuke her in the right way,
not when emotions are at their peak but when things are calm
so that chatting becomes good. But if the husband is very fast
playing hands or snapping, that attitude will never be forgotten
by his wife for the rest of his life.
Women are like glass,
when the glass is broken, it is very difficult to combine to perfect
revert. When his heart hurts, he will forgive but not
could forget. Be a good husband, for example, the Prophet
how to be a husband.
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