Hiding Legal Status

CHAPTER 6 The Endeavor

After tired of shopping, I felt tired and laid my body on the narrow bed, Rehan also lay beside me.

"Capek on deck?" Rehan

"Yes, I prefer online shopping just click, just click later the goods come alone, this is looking for shoes two pairs just go home in the morning, come home in the afternoon, not all rich people bang toyib come home in the morning again, right? Haha"

"Hahahaha, really but if you shop online, you still ranting deck, say it is small, ugly, thin material is, jeez.. better a sore foot than a sore ear. Ahaha.." Rehan

"Mas.. don't sneak me.!, I'm really tired of me going to sleep first 10 minutes only."

"Yes, I'm sleeping." Rehan

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The next day Mas Rehan and I had intended to buy less home supplies, we took advantage of the time because this week we worked the night shift.

We were out huffing hoping Desi wasn't in the room.

"Gosh, everywhere people are afraid of being caught adultery, this is even afraid of being caught married is funny, we are different from the others. I feel like a second wife, right? Others fear that their marriage will be found out. Ahhaha.."

"Huss. you deck if you like to talk about it, yes wife is just one you only. Hm.." Rehan

"Yes, yes. cepet mas..!, loh ko motor you even push, the gasoline runs out?"

But Mas Rehan did not answer my question, he continued to push his bike to the front of the gate. It turns out that he was on purpose, afraid of being caught by Desi.

"Our life seems to be not calm, but we are still alive."

"You think a ghost mas who was haunting, whose death was not calm, deck .. deck.." Rehan

"Hahahaha.. hence the flattering dong general let me calm down."

"Gosh, don't die on deck.. I'm not ready to be a hidden widower." Rehan

"Mas..., you're outrageous."

"The same dong. Haha.." Rehan.

We do have the same sense of humor, although it seems from the outside I am a quiet woman, but if invited to joke, my ravenous instinct appears.

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When I wanted to pursue my goals and continue my education, I was stymied by the cost and I gave it up to work and help ease the burden on my parents, because there were still my sisters who needed my strength.

And only 3th work I decided to get married young, making me a little guilty to my sisters because after marriage I could not focus on financing them, but I married also at the instigation of my mother as well.

I'm afraid I'll date too long, and take the wrong step.

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Dating in Islam is illegal. Because in the activity of courtship almost certainly will violate all provisions/laws related to male and female interaction. Moreover, the fact proves that courtship is the beginning of prohibited adultery. Therefore there is no term and practice “dating Islami” before marriage. The Islamic courtship exists only in delusion and never exists.

Indeed, Islam does not prohibit a person to fall in love, because the feeling of love for the opposite sex is something that is fitrah in humans. It's just that the feeling has to be channeled properly. According to Islam, the correct channel for the realization of love for the opposite sex is by marriage, not courtship.

As for the Islamic way of controlling lust, such as fasting, night prayer, keeping the view etc.

It could also be by doing positive activities such as sports, avoiding alone, having principles of life etc.

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The accident came when my husband accidentally hit a pedestrian. Until Mas Rehan had to bear the treatment and also provide compensation that was even nominally agreed from the victim.

"Sir, this month Mas will not be able to give monthly rations. It's okay to use your money first?" Said Mas Rehan.

"Yes, use my money first." Answer me

On the one hand I feel sorry for him, but this month I can't transfer money to the village. My parents were hoping to get help from me.

But then, I thought maybe my parents would understand, indeed after marriage I should put my husband and my little family first. Ask for permission when I want to leave.

Shaykhul Islam Ibn Taymiyyah said: “A woman if married, then the husband is more entitled to her than both parents and obeying the husband is more obligatory than obedient parents." (Majmu’ Fatawa 32/261).

Suddenly Rehan's cell phone rang, then he picked it up and heard an answer from him,

"Ah yes, tomorrow I will."

"What's wrong?"

"Tomorrow we must visit the house of mama, there is an important thing..!" Rehan

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