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When Deteriorated

After Melisa came home from the midwife, she could only lie weak, it turned out that the process of giving birth yesterday made her urinary tract not smooth, she had to use a catheter according to the instructions of the midwife.

Her tiny baby began to cry of thirst and hunger, making her wake up with great difficulty and hold her baby.

"Aw .. , "feel sore when the baby sucks.

Never imagined if breastfeeding for the first time would hurt that much. The pain that spread from the tip of the foot to the tip of the head that he had to endure, he was unable to let go of the baby's suction, the baby's calm face, the baby's calm face, his eyes were closed and eagerly drank his mother's milk out of hunger.

When did mom come? I need my mom right now. Think Melisa

Yes, because now she was at her in-laws house, taking care of all her needs, food, washing, bathing the baby was her in-laws, there was a sense of awkwardness she felt, she said, he wanted to be cared for by his own mother in order to be free to reveal what he wanted.

Melisa who should get support from Rehan her husband, it turns out that the man somehow became indifferent, as if angry at his wife, should Melisa get more attention but in fact was asked not, instead Rehan slept in his mother's stall, as if away.

I really have no one here, Mas Rehan is like this, so why would I give birth if shunned by my husband? What is my fault, O God?, in Melisa.

"Mas, said the midwife that if I still have trouble urinating for two weeks, I should go to the hospital." Melissa

"Everything said mother midwife, don't this don't it tuh obedient, make it finally like this, I already have no money." Rehan

Melisa's heart screamed, like being struck by lightning, the intention of the heart wanted to convey its complaints and hope there was attention, but what was obtained, two were even blamed.

God, what happened to Mas Rehan? If it's going to be like this, I don't want to get pregnant, I don't want to give birth, I'm happier before. Melisa is crying

Since then Melisa starts not expecting the presence of her baby, a sense of despair starts to eat away at her heart.

Melissa ignored the baby.

"What did you come here for?" Melissa

"Bus with your sister." Tina's mother (the mother of Melisa)

"Oh, thank God if there is a fare, sorry mom bothers you, but you don't have to force come here..!" Melissa

Melisa tried hard in front of her mother, she did not want to tell her sadness, she did not want to burden her mother who even Melisa knew herself if her mother was experiencing a lot of problems.

But she realized something was wrong, her innocent baby should not she hate and ignore, is not the baby in the womb so anticipated? 

I need to find out what's really going on with me. Think Melisa

When he searched for information on his phone, on google he found a discussion about the baby blues.

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The process of giving birth smoothly, certainly becomes happiness for a woman. After childbirth, of course, a woman has a new role to do, which is to become a mother.

the changes that occur in women, begin to change physical and psychological changes after giving birth.

Psychological changes are also experienced by some mothers who feel stress because of their unpreparedness in living a new life. This situation of unpreparedness is called baby blues syndrome.

According to her explanation, baby blues syndrome is a form of sadness or depression experienced by mothers after giving birth. Baby blues syndrome usually appears temporarily, which is about two days to three weeks from the birth of the baby.

Baby blues are also understood to be a mild disorder syndrome that often appears within the first week after delivery and is sustained within 14 days of delivery.

Other symptoms to look out for related to baby blues syndrome are the mother has difficulty sleeping, reduced appetite, does not pay attention to the state of the child, and is afraid to touch the child.

One of the reasons a mother experiences baby blues syndrome is due to a lack of social support, both in the form of emotional support, both from the nuclear family and from the surrounding environment.

The role of husband and family has a very important role for mothers who have just given birth, both as a prevention of the occurrence of baby blues syndrome and to reduce other negative symptoms.

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Melisa felt that there was no support from her husband and family that made her like this, especially with Rehan's change of attitude. She chose to tell her mother everything, she did not want to stress about her own problems, she needed her mother's support.

Melisa cried telling me everything that happened.

"I have to how's Mah now?" Melissa

"Mama is also confused, if you get divorced and return to city B, while you can't work, it will be very difficult Mel, you also know what kind of mother's situation is, and, I can't help your expenses." Tina's Mother

"Yes ma'am I know, I'm confused too." Melissa

"You talk to your husband first, speak four eyes and have a cold head, find out why your husband can act like that..!" Tina's Mother

"But I've been feeling hurt, Mom, I don't think I have any more hope for my house, Mom.." Melissa

"Patience, look at your son, he still needs the affection of his mother and father..!" Ms. Tina

After a bit of relief from being able to tell her severe problems to Tina's mother, she began looking for ways from where she got the money to get to the Hospital to check on her condition, he didn't want to ask Raihan for money, who clearly said he didn't have money.

"Mas, if tomorrow I still don't have a good time urinating, I'll go to the hospital, my aunt gave me a loan of money." Melissa

"Hmm yes." Rehan

It turned out that the next day Melisa did not need to go to the RS, she was able to pee smoothly.

Thank God, my prayers are answered, thank God. Inner Melisa

Tina's mother finally came home, because she couldn't linger in City A. Leaving her fragile child by force.

Melisa started throwing away her ego, I have to get up, let me give in, I have to be patient..! Thought

She begins to mend her relationship with Raihan, begins to ask and be sweet to her husband, hoping for a miracle and God turns her husband's heart upside down.

"Mas, what exactly are you? Is there a problem at the factory?" Melissa

"No, nothing." Rehan

"I'm sorry, Mom.." Melissa

"Hmmm.." Rehan.

Melisa hugged her husband, she just wanted to fix everything.

I only want to get married once in my life, I also can not trouble my mother in City B, I have to survive here, let me give up, may there be happiness after this God, aamiin.... Inner Melisa

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