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Bited by Mosquitoes



"Andea .. ," Melisa immediately approached and held her child who was crying from itching, there were two red circles on her cheeks.


"I'm sorry, I forgot I didn't wear Dea mosquito nets." Rehan


"Yes, gapapa Mas." Melissa


The woman put on a bit of telon oil carefully, just a little for fear that it will hurt to the eyes later.


Indeed, if it is still a baby, the mosquito bite marks will redden widened and make the baby fussy, and the marks will be long lost with a slightly blackened mark.


Melisa cuddles her child to fall asleep again, indeed if the new age of 3 weeks baby sleeps a lot rather than playing.


Rehan picks up the phone and he starts playing the game after getting tired of his activities from the morning.


Melisa let her husband me time, if playing games all day, then the woman will protest with her indifference and silence that can last up to 3 days.


"Mas, Andea want to be held thanksgivings Mas, will fit 40 days?, there is a haircut event that, dibotakin." Melissa


"Emm, look at the Deck later, if there is sustenance and thanksgiving as well as aqiqah, if there is no thanksgiving first, the 40 days of Andea."


"Yes, yeah.." Melissa


Melisa put her baby who is now asleep again, not forgetting she covered her body with a mosquito net so that there are no more mosquito bites.


In the past when Melisa worked in this city in a state of being a regional child, she even collected some of her salary for aqqah, he realized that his parents had not been able to teach him let alone have his younger siblings who need school fees.


Then he took the time to go back to City B and perform aqiqah in his hometown. Although aqiqah is the obligation of parents, but if it has enough sustenance why not aqiqah alone? The woman did not want to burden her parents. That's what the woman thought.


Melisa sat on the floor and gave her baby a pacifier, next door neighbor greeted her.


"Mel, the baby's getting fatter. Hehe.." Nirmala


"Yes, thank God, but my son has diarrhea for 2 days, confused because he is still a baby." Melissa


"Maybe it does not match the milk formula, try to replace Mel with another brand!" Nirmala


"Oh, is that it?" Melissa


"Yes, my son is that, if it is not suitable tuh no one is pulling, there are babies who refuse to drink, there are allergic bentol, a lot of deh, you just look at the google map!" Nirmala


"I'll change the milk later." Melissa


Since the chat Melisa told Rehan to buy formula milk with different brands, after drinking 4 days it turns out the baby is still pulling, milk that had not been used up before, but he bought new brand milk again.


"Emm this one is too smelly wicker Mas," Melisa complained after brewing milk with a brand new and this the 3rd time replaced.


"More than we should buy again? What other brands Deck, have bought from cheap to expensive as well" complained Rehan


"But the word Nirmala is that, if you take, the rich bentol-bentol gatel means not suitable, oh yes replace the same soy milk can be that brand loh Mas on TV yesterday." Melissa


Melisa as a new mother is more worried about the condition of her child, but it is too excessive according to Rehan. But whatever her husband's power was unwilling to raise the lion which would later lead to a small exaggerated debate, the man tried to succumb.


The next day Rehan dried up Andea again, taking her for a walk around the front of the house with only her arms with no cloth.


But Melisa was shocked when her husband laughed out loud while approaching her.


"Hahaha.Dek try to see this!" Rehan


"What's up, Mom?" asked Melisa who came from inside the house.


"It's the Deck, Mas is given the same gift Andea." Rehan


"Astagfirulloh, Andea BAB and her diaper shifted Mas, so hit your hands deh dirt, how dong Mas?" asked Melisa who was a little panicked.


"Yes, yes gapapa, just stay clean, you bring Andea trus cleanin! I want to clean my hands too." Rehan


Jeez can-can be Andea dirt everywhere, fortunately the mood of Mas Rehan again good. Inner Melisa


Yes, indeed babies of that age usually do not wear disposable diapers, only using cloth diapers that are tied. Because Rehan cradles with frequent shifts and changes the position of the baby, making the diaper position of the cloth was sideways, until it looks slit and untidy.


"Dea, next time you don't do that, fuck your dad, good thing he's not mad at you, hmm.." Melissa


But the baby just blinked his eyes, for Melisa it was the yes answer from her child. 


40 Days of thanksgiving and hair cutting will be done soon. But the woman instead cried at night making Rehan confused himself.


"Udah Dek, don't be so sad..!" Rehan


What happened to Melisa?


You can read it in the next chapter!:)


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In the Muslim tradition, the birth of a child is usually celebrated with the event of aqiqahan. Aqiqah event is held with the aim to express happiness and give thanks to Allah SWT. Aqiqah ceremonies are usually performed by slaughtering processions of livestock such as goats, which are then distributed to families and neighbors.


Linguistically, aqiqah means “cut” derived from arabic “al-qath'u”. There is also another definition of aqiqah which is “the name of the newborn baby's hair”. According to the term, aqiqah is the process of slaughtering livestock on the seventh day after the baby is born. This is done as a form of gratitude to Allah SWT.


Aqiqah is usually performed on the 7th, 14th, or 21st day after the birth of a child. For boys, to carry out aqiqah it is mandatory to cut two goats while the daughter one goat only.


Sunnah, the law of aqiqah is the sunnah of muekkad, or sunnah that must take precedence. That is, if a Muslim is able to carry it out (because it has enough wealth) then he is encouraged to do aqiqah for his child when the child is still a baby. While for people who are less or unable, the implementation of aqiqah can be eliminated.


Mandatorily, according to Ahmad's historical hadith which reads “The children were pawned (resistant) with his aqiqah, slaughtered animals for him on the seventh day, shaved his head and named.” (HR Ahmad), aqiqah is mandatory. Based on the hadith above, the scholars interpret that a child cannot intercede for his parents if he has not been a qiqah. However, this opinion is still inferior to the opinion that aqiqah is sunnah so it is rejected by many scholars.


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