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"I still tell you I'm kok ma'am, this is extra milk only if my child feels less." Melissa

"Where there is less, so you have to eat a lot of vegetables, drink a lot, dong Mel business!" Tuti ma'am 

"Yes, I used to after the lahiran never eat spicy, always vegetable every day and drink a lot, proved my breast milk a lot." Ms. Yusi

Melisa felt cornered by all those unpleasant words, wanting to feel like she was shouting in front of them, if she had tried her best, a mother would have wanted the best for her child.

She had tried every day to eat vegetables, but indeed she only breastfed with one PD, which made her original production only produce 50% of what it should have produced, the young mother also regretted it. Because from the beginning she only often breastfed next door.

While if now she starts breastfeeding with her two PD, her baby is already unwilling, always refusing because of impatience and no Asinya.

"I'll excuse you, ladies, it looks like my son has peed." Melissa

Still the clearest sound in his ears if the mothers are still talking, even say if he is arrogant and does not want to be advised.

The woman hurriedly came home, she did not want more heartache, indeed the tongue was boneless but if it had come out evil words, those words were able to hurt someone's heart.

 Melisa thinks that if she should not get along too much with the neighbors, let her just go out as necessary.

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That afternoon she was waiting for her husband to come home, she had already taken a bath and dressed up even though it was only powder and lipbalm, she wanted to look beautiful and fragrant, she also hoped Rehan would not ignore her anymore.

"Assalamu'alaikum." Rehan

"Waalaikumsalam, I've come home, what do you want to drink?" Melisa smiled to welcome her husband, even though his mood was not good because of the neighbor's talk this morning.

"White water on Deck." Rehan

"Alhamdulillah, " Melisa was pleased that Rehan finally called her Dek, meaning that her husband was back as usual.

"What is alhamdulillah?" Rehan

"Sir Mas, it's nothing, I'll get you some drinking water first." Melissa

It turned out that her husband was acting as usual, making Melisa happy, she did not want to discuss yesterday's important issue now everything is fine.

The next day when Rehan was off work, he washed all the clothes, cooked and cleaned the house.

What happened to Mas Rehan, tumben once? Think Melisa

Even when Andea was bathed, it was the suaminya who took the initiative to hold the baby out, drying it for a while in the morning sun.

"Let me be Mas" Melisa doesn't want her husband to be embarrassed for holding her baby like mothers.

"Father, let it be the same Mas aja, mumpung work holiday." Rehan

Melisa nodded, she prepared the food that her husband had cooked, when he wanted to hang up the clothes, Rehan took over the job, it turned out Andea had been laid in bed, the baby was asleep.

"So, let it be heavy." Rehan

"But Mas" said Melisa who could not be resolved because Rehan had passed away.

Thank God, Rehan has finally changed. Inner Melisa

Melisa saw her husband drying clothes, even the clothes that had been washed by her husband, today it feels like she was spoiled by her husband, all the work was replaced by Rehan.

Melisa saw a traveling greengrocer coming, she rushed out of the house to buy materials that were lacking in the refrigerator.

"Mel, I saw that Rehan was drying clothes, that's a woman's job, your husband is tired of work, time at home also has to work again? You're 3 weeks into labor, you should be able to wash." Ms. Ina

"Yes, spoiled is his name." Yusi's mother

"It's not spoiled anymore, but it's as brazen as men." Tuti's Mother

Astagfirullah, be patient.just what they want to say..! Because I didn't ask Mas Rehan at all, he himself would. Inner Melisa

"Kok diem aja Mel, you're really not polite the same as older people." Yusi's Mother

"He was ashamed to be counseled in a public place." Tuti's Mother

The vegetable buying event often ends like this, actually Melisa is lazy to face the mothers, but her husband's busyness makes her unable to ask for delivery just to the market, she was afraid to burden her husband and make him tired.

"My husband is like that, he said that if he got tired of doing nothing, so help me, want to go for a walk but can't because our baby hasn't even been a month." Melissa

It seems like the mothers are jealous to see the husband of people who are very attentive to his wife, even willing to dry clothes that are usually done by women.

"My hands are how many Bangs?" Melissa

"35 thousand Neng." Vegetablebrother

Arriving at Home, the woman's face turned lethargic, she thought why everything she did was always wrong in the eyes of her neighbors.

"Greetings if you go in the house!" Rehan

"Eh yes Mas, I forgot, assalamu'alaikum.." Melisa.

"Why you, baby?" Rehan

"I'm gapapa Mas, replied dong salamnya..!" said Melisa who passed away went to the kitchen, took out her groceries, washed them and kept them in the refrigerator.

"Eh, waalaikumsalam Deck." Rehan

Melisa came back to my living room and watched TV for entertainment so she could forget her sadness. 

Melisa keeps pushing the TV remote button, she gets annoyed "why all the ads anyway?"

"Be patient, wait..! Don't just move, you why the hell Dek?" Rehan

I again males the story, after all yesterday also Mas Rehan did not tell why he ignored me and Andea. Think Melisa

"Gapapa Mas." Melissa

"But how do we keep on getting so manyuns?" Rehan

"Do you want me to keep smiling?" Melissa

"Not even Dek, you'll think crazy again, hahaha." Rehan.

"Not funny." Melissa

Mas Rehan approached his wife, he massaged her shoulders, it seemed like her husband wanted to ease the woman's frustration though without knowing what the cause was.

"Not Dek?" Rehan

"It's not good for a while" Melisa protested as the hand stopped moving, stopping the massage.

"Hahaha, say it's good and want to be done..!" Rehan

"Where to go Mas?" Melissa

"If it could be a plus-plus massage and can be a plus-plus as well, hehehe.." Rehan.

"I'm still in the puerperium, how can I." Melissa

"There can be other ways, later Mas ajarin!" Rehan

How do I feel so bad, right? Think Melisa

"Emmh, so help me from morning do you want?" Melissa

Rehan smiled at his wife, began to tickle her body, making them chase each other in a room that is not so wide.

Melisa was pleased with the return of her ignorant husband, she was better to be bullied than to be left alone.

The chaos turned out to make the Andea wake up from his deep sleep.

"Mas is noisy so 'Andea bnagun." Melissa

"Well, how come you're wrong, you're yelling too." Rehan

"I wouldn't scream if I didn't tickle you.. Mas." Melissa

When they entered the room, how surprised they were when they saw the state of Andea. Makes Melisa so worried, it feels like she wants to be angry but she can not scold the new father, even with everything that her husband has done from the morning.

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There are many stories that tell about the ideal figure of Prophet Muhammad SAW who became a husband of household in Islam.

Quoted from In Islam, one of them when Ayesha was asked: “What did the Prophet do at home?” He replied, “He helped carry out his family's work.” (CHR. Bukhari).

In another hadith, Aisha says that the Prophet did not hesitate to do all kinds of household chores.

“Prophet SAW sewed her cloth, sewed her shoes, and did what women used to do in their homes.” (CHR. Ahmadis).

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The point in the household is to help each other, and cooperate.

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