
"Afwan Ukh, is anti-lab graduates of the cottage, and should also be the future husband is more knowledgeable above anti, while ana herself is only a layman"
"Afwan should not overvalue ana akh, ana is also like ordinary women who do not ma'sum, most importantly for the good religion, love the Apostle Sunnah"
"That's all?"
"Na'am, if Sunnah Sunnah Rasulnya he took care of let alone his wife" smiled
"But many people who do not understand the Sunnah the Apostle is still happy really" I turned to test it
"Na'am shohih what do you say but not for the hereafter"
"His evidence?" I returned to testing
"Al Munafiqun 63:9: O you who believe, let not your possessions and your children neglect you from remembering Allah. Whoever makes them, they are the losers"
Nurul again explained "If they are happy in the world but the Wife/Her husband had prevented her from fearing Allah azza wajalla and later in the Hereafter they would have enemies with the pretext of my wife doing this to make me forget my Lord/ My husband has neglected me from the commandment of my Lord as the word of God is said 'Abasa 34-37 On the day when man runs away from his brother, from his mother and father, from his wife and children. Every one of them on that day had enough business to keep him busy".
I who listened to him was only a mangosteen and was amazed at his answer.
"They are happy but all that is just a mirage because in the final jaumul will turn to attack each other even they will let their children, wife or husband into hell the most important he survived"
"Baarakallahu fiiki" I said
"Afwan" he answered
Then we were silent for a moment and Nurul asked again.
"Anta himself why would you want to bertaaruf with ana?, not a lot of women who are more open auratnya preferred most men today?"
"Na'am but ana wants the world's jewelry that ana has later remain only ana who knows not others or in the umbar to the public, because the woman is like a pearl in a shell and no one can see her except the owner of the pearl"
"The proposition is to try why the world's jewelry should not be in the umbar to the public" pinta Nurul
"And let you remain in your houses, and do not decorate and behave like the old Jahilites. Pray, pray and obey Allah and His Messenger. Verily, Allah intends to take away sin from you, O Lord of the temples, and to cleanse you cleanly (alahab: 33)
Sheikh Abdurrahman bin Nashir As Sa'di rahimahullah explained that the meaning of the verse (wa qarna fi buyikotunna) is to stay in your home because it is safer and more nurturing. While the meaning of the verse (wa la tabarrajna tabarrujal-jahiliyyatil-okla) is not to go out a lot with makeup or wearing perfume as is the custom of the people before Islam who do not have knowledge and religion. The order aims to prevent the emergence of evil and its causes. (See Taisir Al Karimirrahman letter Al Ahzab 33)." I replied
"Jamil jiddan(very good)" said Nurul
"Can you ask me again?" doorstep
"Tafadhol akh" he answered
"Hmmm.., women are synonymous with jewelry, shopping and basically not far from the material, well if for example Anti later married the same poor man his work is only labor, labor, tani or garbage collectors are anti-want?"
"The reality is mostly so but is happiness itself always in value with money akh?, you know why the source of happiness is located in the heart?"
I thought for a moment while stroking my beard. Because I didn't get the answer, it was just a headband I could do.
"That is the most glorious proof of Allah to His servant, try if happiness is in money or property that is most hurt is the one who does not have" he replied
"Dad. accepted aja not necessarily have played a wedding date, afwan ukh sometimes Dad likes to joke"
Nurul only smiled while bowing his gaze
"god saw his smile even though it had briefly made this heart deg ser, let alone later become her husband, the greatest gift for me" my bathin
Finally, the conversation between me and Nurul was finished too, because time had shown that the dzuhur prayer would begin.
Before returning home Nurul told about the continuation of this taaruf, he asked for 1 week to seek guidance from God for the best partner for him.
1 Week is not a short time for me, but I remain patient and pray for God's best for me, because I cannot turn back my heart, I cannot command Nurul to love me, only the owner of his heart can do that.
A week during the wait, I filled the time by continuing to worship prostrate, whining, asking for the best soul mate for me, because I do not want events like Wulan to repeat.
it was enough to be a lesson for me to be more careful to choose a life partner.
After a week, time finally arrived, but I was confused by how Nurul gave the answer yes/at least, while the phone number only I did not have, except for his father's number, his father's number, that was stored in my father's phone.
"Bee...Abee..." The call from Dad came surprising me from daydreaming
"Dad Dad" I said half yelling because my position at home while Dad was out of the house
"This time, this is a phone call from Mr. Ibrahim, he said to talk to you" while handing his phone to me
I also took my father's phone and then I said greetings "Assalamu'alaikum warrahmatullah Om"
"Wa'alaikum salam warrahmatullah, how are you doing Be?"
"Good thanks, how about yourself?"
"Alhamdulillah is good too, oia this Om want to convey a message from Nurul"
"Enggeh Om, sorry message about what?"
"Say the answer about your taaruf a week ago"
"Oh, I'm sorry if I know the answer to how?"
I wait a few minutes, impatiently waiting for the news, but up to 10 minutes passed without a sound from Mr. Ibrahim.
"Where is Be?, what did Mr Ibrahim say?" father said
Because I did not say I also saw Dad's phone and pulled my eel.
"Why Be?" father said
"Why do you want answers wong hp father dead, batre his low -_-)"
Father also shook his head due to carelessness forgetting to charge his cellphone.