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Mothers Day

After the unpleasant incident yesterday Oma Marisa immediately told Nick.

Although Khalisa advised Oma Marisa not to tell the events at the boutique to Nick and his brother but for Oma Marisa he will make calculations to anyone who has dared to disturb his family.

Nick is furious, infuriated by what ex-mother-in-law Khalisa's ex-husband did.

Of course, as a prospective husband and a man who loves his future paradise, Nick will not stay silent and will make calculations on Alvin.

It is not difficult for a Nicholas Bryan to make his opponent bend the knee, of course in a beautiful and neat way.

Nick also does not want Khalisa thought that the actions taken by Nick to defend the self-esteem of his future wife will all be done neatly without any riots.

Last night Nick contacted Khalisa but did not discuss Alvin and his mother.

But Nick asked Khalisa's cooperation to succeed Oma Marisa in the mother's day on December 22.

Nick deliberately asked for permission from Khalisa, Abah Abdullah and Ustadz Salman to hold at the residence of Kiai Abdullah at the same time the study preparation for his second marriage.

Of course, this was welcomed by Kyai Abdullah who even said he was happy and happy because he had children who were filial and loving to parents.

The lecture event also invited orphans for compensation and the students to pray for the smooth marriage of Khalisa and Nicholas who will soon be.

The name is a surprise, of course, Oma Marisa today only knows they will be attending a wedding ceremony before Nick and Khalisa without knowing there is a surprise waiting for her.

At the residence Nick looks Oma Marisa, Caca and Gusti and Nick is ready in a dress in Muslim fashion that is in the same color.

After it was felt that no one was left, everything moved towards Kyai Abdullah's house.

When he arrived at Kyai Abdullah Residence the atmosphere looked crowded and of course the Khalisa family had welcomed Nick and his family.

"Assalamualaik." Oma Marisa said hello.

"Vaalaikumsalam. Let's go, Miss Marisa." Kyai Abdullah.

Both families now seem solemn following a series of events after events that have been arranged in such a way.

Until when Kyai Abdullah was asked to go up to give his tausyi.

More or less this is the content of the tausyiah delivered by Kyai Abdullah on a happy occasion this time.

"Every year in December there is a day called Mother's Day. Almost every country in the world has Mother's Day which is celebrated on different days. Mother's Day in Indonesia is celebrated on December 22nd. In Europe and the Americas, the commemoration of Mother's Day falls on the second Sunday of May. While in Arab countries, such as, Egypt, Iraq, Saudi Arabia, and so on Mother's Day falls on March 21."

"We know that in every culture or nation, a mother is recognized to have a very important role in this life. The existence of Mother's Day around the world indicates a common awareness to recognize and appreciate the services of mothers. Long before the world set the need for Mother's Day."

"The Prophet laid the theological foundation that a mother is recognized as being very noble as affirmed in a hadith narrated from Anas bin Malik RA: Heaven is under the soles of the feet of the mother."

"Rasulullah SAW hinted that filial piety to the mother is three times greater than to the father as mentioned in a hadith narrated from Abi Hurairah RA:  

“One day a man came to the Prophet SAW. The man asked the Prophet who among the people we are most entitled to treat well. The Prophet replied, your mother. The man asked again, who else was after that. The Prophet replied, your mother. The man asked again, who else was after that. The Prophet replied, your mother. The man asked again. The Prophet then answered, then your father."

"From the above hadith we can know that the ratio of our devotion to mother and father is 3: 1 or 75 percent: 25 percent. The question that arises later, on the basis of what the Prophet Muhammad declares such a comparison. This question can be found in the letter Luqman, verse 14, where Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala said:

"And we command men to do good to their mothers; their mothers have conceived them with great difficulty and weaned them at the age of two. Be grateful to me and to your mothers. Only to Me is your return.”

"From the above verse, we can know that in relation to the process of occurrence and the birth of humans to this earth, there are 4 important phases. The first phase is a phase involving the participation of the father and mother where the role of the father is decisive. In this phase, the mother's egg cannot be fertilized without her encounter with the father. In other words, the natural task of a man or father is to fertilize a woman's egg or mother so that there is a pregnancy whose initial form is a blood clot in the Qur’an, Letter 96, Letter, verse 2 is referred to as ‘alaq as follows:

"He has created man from a clot of blood.” 

"The above verse confirms that the initial process of human occurrence is a blood clot. It is only in this early phase that a male plays the only natural role that a female cannot replace because an egg can only be fertilized by ******. So it is understandable the devotion of a child to the father in the trade with the mother is 1:3 because in the next 3 processes a father is no longer involved. Each of these three processes is entirely done by the mother with great difficulty and full of risk. This is in no way different from the initial process or the first phase which is full of enjoyment without any meaningful risk."

"After the completion of the first process, which is the fertilization of the egg by *****, then the next or second process is pregnancy. In this process, a mother must contain the fetus in the womb for an average of 9 months. During these 9 months, there was no father participation at all because the male organ was not designed to be able to conceive a baby. Until now there is no technology that can make men participate or take over the task of conceiving. The baby tube also can not be developed in the male organ because the fact is that men do not have a uterus."

"In this pregnant phase, a mother experiences distress for the sake of distress which in the Qur’an described as a state of difficulty and weakness which from day to day is not getting lighter but getting heavier."

"After the second process is completed, followed by the third process which is the culmination of the pregnancy process, namely the birth process. Again in the process of giving birth there is no involvement of a father. A mother must fight alone to be able to give birth safely, both safe for herself and the baby she was born with. This task is high-risk because it is directly related to the salvation of the soul. We have often heard that some women die in childbirth. In the process of giving birth, the father also can not do much to ease the burden of the mother. Often it happens, the father is unable and cannot bear to watch the mother is struggling to give birth because the suffering experienced is very heavy with life as a bet. Often, the father can only cry with worry while praying that the mother can give birth safely."

"After the third process is completed, followed by the fourth process, namely breastfeeding. In the process of breastfeeding, the mother must be careful and always take care of herself as best as possible because what happens to her can have a direct impact on the baby. The mother must be able to stand guard against drowsiness, both day and night. When the baby is thirsty and hungry and needs breast milk, a mother should always be ready to give it. In this task, the father also could not do much to ease the burden of the mother. Various risks, both physical and non-physical, are also often faced by mothers who are breastfeeding."

"Al-Qur’an proclaims the time of breastfeeding is two years as the verse sounds:

“Dan weaned it at the age of two years.”

"The two-year period of breastfeeding with ASI is ideal especially for mothers who do have the opportunity for it. But for those who have certain problems, then at least for the first 6 months can work on it because as long as the ASI is exclusive. This is an international standard that is based on scientific evidence on the benefits of ASI for the baby's survival, growth, and development. ASI provides all the energy and nutrition that a baby needs during the first 6 months of his life. Provision of exclusive breast milk reduces infant mortality due to various diseases that commonly afflict children such as diarrhea and pneumonia, and accelerates recovery when sick and helps prevent birth."

"Given the severity of the task of the mother, the three important things that consist of: conceiving, giving birth and breastfeeding, namely, then it is understandable why Prophet Muhammad SAW hinted that respect and devotion to mother is greater than to father. As I explained above, the ratio is 3:1. This comparison is reasonable and fair."

After delivering his tausyi now, Nick went forward he wanted to express his gratitude to the mother who has been extraordinary until now plays a role in his life.

"For my mother, the amazing tough lady, Mama Marisa, thank you so much for everything Mom has given Nick so much and so incredibly. Forgive your son who has not been able to give you happiness and Forgive me for all my mistakes, my sincerity and attitudes and actions that if you hurt Mom to shed tears. Mom, there is nothing your son can give but a sincere prayer from the bottom of my heart. May Mom always be healthy, given a blessed age, waged everything, always in the protection of Allah SWT. I Love You Mom's. I Always Loving You, Mom!" Nick could no longer speak, his tears flowing down Nick's cheeks.

Nick approached the mother with a bouquet of flowers in his hand, while kissing the reverence of the hands of the woman who has so great to turn into this world, Mommy Marisa is a paradise for a Nicholas Bryan.

Oma Marisa has no power to hold back and gets an incredible surprise.

In the arms of the child he once bore, he was born in the east, was born while learning to walk, dressed in school uniform for the first time, circumcised, until soon his son will get married again, he said, building a household of Sakinah, mawaddah, warrahmah and trust. I think time passed so fast.

All who watched were moved and reminded of their respective mothers.