My husband became my sister-in-law
Episode 65's
A week later Zinia has returned to her house, with Baby twins, the whole family is very happy to welcome the arrival of Zenia and her two children.
“Welcome back dear” Zahran told his wife.
Zenia smiled, she was happy now that she could gather with her family at home, Zahran brought his wife and two children directly to the room, and it turned out that their room had been conjured by Zahran, the room next to it was broken down by Zahran until it was directly integrated into their room, there was already a embrace of twins, two beds that Zenia had chosen at that time.
“By this is all byby that make ??” zenia asked as she was already inside their room.
“Not byby but builder” denies Zahran while poking.
“Iih mean Nia must be byby right who told them to do this ??”
“Hehe yes dear, How ?? you like no ??” Zahran asked again.
“Like By, let alone twins room directly fused into our room, continue it make sleep who ??” point at Zenia when you see a bed that is in the twin room.
“Make his brother twins, so in this room we will sleep together, same you, brother King, brother Arda and grandpa Adel” explained Zahran, and it managed to make Zinia endlessly smile.
Not long after the sound of the door knocking stopped their laughter.
“Assalamualakum Son ??” umi said when the door was opened by Zahran.
“Walaikum greetings Umi, what's up ??” ask Zahran.
“No nak Umi just want to deliver a meal for Nia”
“Then just log in Umi”
Umi went inside and put food on the table, she approached her two grandchildren who were currently asleep in the baby's Bok.
“Nia eat first yes, it's already Umi make porridge” pinta Umi but her view still remains focused on her grandchild.
“Iya Umi thank you” reply Zenia politely.
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2 Days later Zahran held an aqiqah for his two children.
aqiqah means to break and perforate. In a general sense, aqiqah is the worship activity of slaughtering animals in the form of goats as a form of gratitude for the birth of a child.
The law of worship is different based on the opinion of scholars. Some say that worship aqiqah law is mandatory, some say sunnah mu’ad and others say sunnah.
Of all the opinions that exist, the most shahih is the opinion that says that the law of aqiqah is a mu’akad sunnah. This means that this is a worship that is indeed recommended to be carried out.
All the families seemed busy preparing the road Aqiqah, goat slaughter was done.
“Rasululllah shallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam ordered them, for boys akikah with two goats and girls with one ekorkambing.” (CHR. Tirmidhi).
“Fah tomorrow Anta only yes who is the speaker !!” zahran
“Good Ustadz with pleasure” reply Fahri.
Not long Zaidan came with the King, apparently he had just accompanied the King to buy ice cream.
“Baba's son kok ice cream tomb hold ?? later his teeth perforated loh” said Zahran gently.
“Sorry Ba” said The three-year-old feels guilty, Zahran did allow the King to do what he likes as long as not to overdo it, and if it is excessive then Zahran will reprimand him with a sentence so soft, so that the King easily understands.
“Sorry, isn't that true ?? later mala ask again the same Om Zidan his?” ask Zahran.
“Truly Ba, King Promise will not ask for ice cream again” said Nya while forming a V shape with his index finger and middle finger.
“Smart child, now King wash his hands equally wash his mouth yes, ask for the same cementin Onty Ra, keep King Mother at room” pinta Zahran.
The king also said, but before he gave respect like a soldier, Zahran, Fahri and Zaidan chuckled with his behavior, apparently the King's desire to become a soldier is still very attached to his soul.
“King wants to be a soldier like bang” Zaidan said after the King left them.
“Iya, but the mother does not respond” replied Zahran as it is.
“Why ?? not his being a soldier that's a good job ??” this time Fahri asked.
“Entahlah, he said if the King became a soldier then the King will often go far, and Nia does not want it” explained Zahran.
“What if your own brother is ??” ask Zaidan.
“If you are up to the children who want to be what will be so as long as it does not deviate from the teachings of our religion, want him to be an army brother who supports it, only, but yes the King remains with his obligations as a Muslim”
“The king is a smart child Bang, now only he has memorized short letters” said Zaidan again because indeed he is now assigned Zahran to test the King's shipment once a week.
Zahran was proud of his first child, although King was not his biological son but Zahran loved him wholeheartedly.
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To the next morning is Aqiqah day for baby twins, Zahran and Zenia wearing Muslim couple clothes, Raja also wearing sturdy clothes that match Zahran.
Downstairs the guests were already in attendance, Zahran and Zenia came down while holding their babies.
After the Guest attended, the Host immediately conveyed the arrangement of the Aqiqah event to his two children Zahran and Zinia.
“The next event is the delivery of a word from Ustadz Fahri, to him we send” said the host.
Fahri also stood up and went forward, he looked handsome with a sturdy Navy suit prepared by his wife.
“Assalamu’alaikum warohmatulli..
اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّهِ رَبِّ اْلعَاَلَمِيْنَ . وَبِهِ نَسْتَعِيْنُ عَلَي أُمُوْرِا لدُّ نْيَا وَا لد يْنٍ . وَعَلَيْ آ لِهٍ وَأَصْحَابِهِ أَجْمَعِيْنَ
"ALHAMDU LILLAHI RABBIL'ALAMIN WABIHI NASTA'INU'ALA SENAHID DUNYA WADDIN WA'ALA ALII WASHAHBIHI AJMA'IN"
Happy gentlemen and invited ladies and gentlemen!
There is not a word that should be said to start the event except tahmid and tasyakur Allah SWT. Because only the abundance of mercy, Hidayah and His inayah so that we can all step our feet to go and gather here a place to meet the invitation of the father of shohibul hajat,namely the father of Zahran family in the event malimah ‘aqiqah.
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
today we received an award, honor and mandate from Mr. Zahran to convey a word two in this ‘aqiqah event.
First we on behalf of the family of Mr. Zahran expressed thousands of thanks for the presence of the fathers who took the time to attend to meet Mr. Zahran's invitation, hopefully for the presence and sincerity of the fathers' hearts all reciprocated by Allah with a proper recompense.
The second time, we on behalf of the family in accepting the presence of the fathers is less impressive, because that is the ability of the family Zahran.
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
As an expression of his gratitude the presence of God the father of Zahran presents/inviting the fathers to enjoy some of the provision that was given to the father of Zahra is by slaughtering three goats.The slaughter of goats from the birth of a boy or girl in Islam is called AQIQAH.
In this case rasullullah said:
“AL-GHULAAMU MURYEKANUN BI’AQIIQOTHI TUDZBA-HU ‘ANHU FIL YAUMIS SAABI’ WAYUHLAQU ROKSUHU WAYUSAMMA”.
Meaning:
“the newborn child becomes sober until it is bleached for him ‘aqiqah on the seventh day of his birthday and given that too, let his hair be shaved , and named (historical Ahmad and Turmudzi)
And the word again:
“MAN AHABBA MINKUM AN YUNSAKA’AN WALADIHI FALYAF’ANIL GHULLAMI SYAATAANI MUKAAFA-ATAANI WA’ANIL JAARIYATI SYAATUN”.
Meaning:
Whoever among you wishes to worship about his son should be made (slaughtered) for the boy 2 goats of his age, and for the woman a goat”. (history of Ahmad, Hadith,Abu Daud and Nasa’i).
And on the other hand, he said:
”’AN’AAA-ISYATA QOOLAT AMARONAA ROSUULOO HI SAW. AN NU’IQQO ‘ANIL GHULLAMI BISYAATTAINI WA-‘ANIL JAARIYATI BISYAATIN”.
Meaning:
“aisyah r.a. says: rosulluloh saw. Have told us to slaughter ‘aqiqah for a boy of two goats and for a daughter of a goat “. (history of turmudzi and ibn Majah).
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
The animal slaughtered on this ‘aqiqah is the same as the state of the animal slaughtered at the time of sacrifice, both its age and unblemished. The beast that slaughtered two tails for a man, if not capable of one is also sufficient. And circumcised cooked first, then devoted to the poor. And those who make aqiqah may eat a little of the meat of the ‘aqiqah as a sacrificial animal .
Ladies and gentlemen, happy invitees!
today the son of Mr. Zahran who is at ‘aqiqah if destined to live long, more days increase physical development. Along with the development of his body, he needed education. And of course Zahra's father also other fathers yearn or aspire to the son of the sholeh and the Sholeh, the son who is devoted to God, obedient to the commandments of God, also obedient and devoted to both parents as a burdensome and caring since childhood.
On this occasion we will convey some things that must be considered to educate children, in order to become children who are sholeh, in addition to providing religious upbringing since childhood, as well as giving religious upbringing, also, the things below are no less important to note in educating children.
First: the example of both parents themselves. It means that both parents are the first to set an example for their children. If parents cannot set a good example, then do not expect to be able to guide their children to the good they expect. How can a child be good if he lives in a morally depraved family environment, a jerk and a mess? A child tends to imitate the behavior of both parents. What he observes at home from his parents the child will imitate him. There is a proverb that says: Teacher pees standing, student pees running, then the child will pee by running.
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
Amru bin’atabah once gave a handle to the educators (caregivers) his son with the word:
“LIYAKUN AWWALU ISHLAA-HIKALIWALLADI ISHLAA-HIKALINAFSIKA,FA-INNA ‘UYUUNAHUM MA’QUUDA-TUN BI’IKA, FALHASANU ‘INDAHUM MAA SHONATA WAL QOBIIHU ‘INDAHUM MAA TAROCT”.
Meaning:
“Must be the first guidance of improvement for my children, starting from your improvement of yourself. Because their eyes and attention are always tied to yours. They assume someday everything you stay away from”.
Mother's father who often quarrels every day said dirty, deceiver, liar, traitor, all of it will affect the child's soul, the child, and do not be surprised if the child will imitate the actions and behavior of both parents.
The second: the formation of behavior through the habituation of actions since childhood.
We as parents when getting used to good deeds in front of their young children, for example when entering WC read do’a as well as if out of WC, undressing, wearing clothes, wearing clothes, going to sleep and after sleeping. When eating and after meals, greet when meeting with fellow Muslims. All of that if accustomed since childhood, later if it is big the child will become accustomed to doing so as well, thus all with the sentence:
“MAN SYABBA’ALAA SAYI-IN SYAABA-ALAIHI”.
Meaning:
“goods who get used to something in his youth, then in old time it will be his habit too.
Likewise, if the habits of both parents in front of their children are bad, not in accordance with the morals of Islam, the habit will be carried by their children in the future.
Third: bring the parents. The authority of parents is very important in the education of children, especially in printing children who are sholeh and sholehah.
Fourth: wise. An education must be wise.
Fifth: do not choose love in front of their children, even if the child is disabled. Because the attitude of favoritism or bias towards one child with another child will result in feelings of sadness and resentment or hostility between one child with another child. Finally, between fellow brothers, there was a dispute and a mess.
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
That's just a word, two words of welcome from us on behalf of shohibul hajat, hopefully what we say is useful for all of us, especially for personal self.
Happy ladies and gentlemen!
We on behalf of the family of Mr. Zahran please do’a blessing from the fathers of all so that they are given patience and fortitude in educating their children to explore and practice shari’at islam properly, so that in the end they were given the title of people who muttaqin.
Thus, thank you for all your attention, apologize for all your shortcomings and loss.
End words,. Billiahi Taufik Wal Hidayah Wassalamualaikum Warahmatullahi
Everyone applauded after listening to Fahri's delivery, while Aisyah she was very proud of her husband.
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