Life After Forty's

Episode 4 New life

Fauzans

and Amanda is a fairly successful couple betrothed by the second

their parents. At the age of 22, Amanda had just finished

his S1 lecture when his father introduced himself to Fauzan.  Fauzan was 24 years old.  Amanda's father was a senior of the parents

Fauzan was in college when they both attended Salemba.

            Fauzan had just broken up

love is so stunned by Amanda's beauty.  Plus when at the time of their first meeting Amanda very

nice to talk to.  Ungainly

they talk a lot, anything is discussed intelligently and pleasantly.  The more they relate, the more

Fauzan was comfortable near Amanda.  So, not wanting to linger in a long-distance relationship[1], Fauzan proposes to Amanda at

the 6th month they were together, and married when it was even one year from the meeting

first them.

            Amanda married at the age of 23,

he was quite young, but he was happy.  Fauzan is a very understanding and supportive man

his will.  Including his love for

science.  Before with Fauzan, Amanda

never had a lover, the principle of his life no time for love. She has been a woman who has enjoyed learning since

small-time.  Her hobbies are reading books, any book

he read, from romance novels to political books have been bulldozed.  Even so he is a supple person, his friend

many, active in many youth organizations.  Many men approached

but he always refused subtly.  Because all he knew was forbidden by religion.  He is not a religious fanatic,

just trying to avoid what is forbidden.  Just want to be safe.  Back at the beginning of her marriage, there was something

little interesting.  When Fauzan proposed to her, he,

he applied for the condition not to forbid him from returning to school.   Because Fauzan likes Amanda's intelligence

of course, that requirement was easily fulfilled.  But it's actually hard for Fauzan to take Amanda off just now

marry to Amsterdam to continue S2 because he actually wants to hurry

married because they do not want to be apart for too long, especially when Bimo has to

born in Amsterdam. Fauzan had to be round-trip Jakarta-Amsterdam because at that time

he had just a few years of work, yet dared to leave that career

he just woke up.  It's just after Amanda

finished S2 they actually live together in Jakarta.

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Subsequent to

arriving in Brisbane, Amanda, Bimo and Citra had to undergo a series of

adaptations. Adaptation is not easy, but it can be done by

all three.  When they arrived at

Brisbane, Citra was a bit confused because she had to face people who

speaking ‘Dora’ a little bit he understands but he is too shy to

practise it.  But when the mother

put him in Kindie[2] which means he has to be willing to use his Korean.  The first week of drama, the image always

crying when it comes to school, and when it has to be left behind by Amanda.  But only one week, after that it was very

loved school.  The other with

Bimo, he was so happy when the observation said he could go straight

get into 11th grade.  That means it's just

spent 6 months in 10th grade.  Bimo immediately imagined that when he returned to Jakarta, it meant him

already graduated and holding High School.

            Amanda went back to her old college.  His work this time should be intersecting

with big data.  Data that involves

10 Thousand respondents from 10 cities

largest in Indonesia.  Supervisors

recruit her in this job because Amanda is familiar with statistical data,

and more about the middle class.  Amanda's job this time is to measure the needs of the middle class at 10

big city in Indonesia.  Not much yet

researchers who focus on the middle class in Indonesia, but

the middle class is the economic driver of a region.

            After almost two months, the,

Amanda focused on her main job, and she started getting jobs

side as a tutor.  Then he

tempted by physical work.  Suddenly a friend asked her to be a janitor in the morning

mornings up to 10 a.m. into cleaning power on campus.  After that, he worked as

post-doc student.  A few weeks later, there was a vacancy

the cleaning force is also at night at 6-10 pm, Amanda took again

that opportunity.  Temptation to

raising dollars became Amanda's second issue.  Monday to Friday he was so

busy.  Got to get up at 4:30 in the morning,

after a short prayer, he

preparing all the needs of children. From breakfast to lunch

their noon.  Then go on to become

after ten o'clock, he became a post-doc student, sometimes doing tutors

at that time, in the afternoon, there was only time to prepare dinner, and

other household work.  He too

then work again as a night cleaner.  It's amazingly solid his five-day work schedule

within a week.  So the weekend he really used to

rest and give full attention to their children.

            Bimo was confused with

Amanda the sudden workaholic.  But the mother asked for Bimo's understanding.  He told her that he had to find money

that's a lot to be able to meet their needs and for their savings

after they returned to Jakarta.  Amanda also conveyed the possibility that they should buy a house

for their residence when returning to Jakarta.  Bimo understood, his mother was preparing

herself to the worst possibility that her mother would actually be a person

single old for him and his sister.

            Bimo tried to help his mother

as much as he can.  Actually he is too

want to make money.  But his mother

forbid, because he is more needed to take care of his sister.  Amanda's hope is that Bimo can adapt

with his school well, have good achievements, absorb knowledge in

here as well as possible, until when he graduated later he could go to college in a place that

good in Indonesia.

            Imagery

and Bimo grew up to be a very understanding child.  Every time Citra school comes home

with his neighbors who are also Indonesian families.  He will stay there patiently

Bimo's coming home from school.  After that, they

both will stay at home and carry out activities as usual until

the mother came home.  There is absolutely no

complaints from both when the mother had to go home in the afternoon only for a moment

and have to go back to work at night.  Sometimes, if Amanda is chased by a deadline and has to go to campus during the second weekend

the boy went to college and accompanied Amanda to work.  They're coming, because it takes the atmosphere

be different.  After that they will leave

afternoon walk.  Just playing in the park

or go to city. Although heavy for

all the.  But they live it as if

no load.

　

　

　

　

　

　

[1]

on the

at that time Amanda lived in Semarang and Fauzan in Jakarta

　

　

[2]

Equivalent

kindergarten