Giving Birth at the Home of In-Law

Malu

#Birth_in_Home_Life

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This morning, as much as possible I tried not to meet Mom. Still ashamed of last night. When Mom was in the TV room, I hid in the room, when Mom went to the room, I did my job in the kitchen. When Mom went to the kitchen, I hurriedly entered the bathroom, with no clear purpose.

I held the bathroom door close my ears to the wall and heard Mom step away from the kitchen. I hurriedly came out, afraid that the tempe that I was frying had become charred.

"Fiuhhh .." cape is also the cat-cat of the same mother.

"Fi, your wife why is it rich? Stick it up here!" ketus Mom.

Haduuuhhh .. It turns out that Mom caught my strange girly. I peeked out from behind the kitchen wall, Bang Rafi saw me, she grinned. I wanted to throw the rice pitcher I was holding but I didn't dare. Afraid of my mother's back who was behind me. Can run its business.

After having breakfast together without talking to each other, Mother and Bang Rafi went to where they were looking for their own sustenance. I actually salute your hard work. He can be financially independent without depending on others.

If Mom wanted to take me, I would help her keep the stall, or promote her merchandise through social media. But, now that I have no HP, let alone see the nature of Mother who is still ketus when talking to me, that hope feels thin.

When other people spend a lot of time in cyberspace to just unwind, I can not do it. As a real housewife, my job is just around the house and Marisa.

At this age Marisa is still a henchman and not too worried when I stay to wash, cook or clean up. Simply laid in bed or bouncher, safe.

If hungry he will code by making a shrill cry. I will also immediately go to him and stop all activities that I do. Marisa is a priority.

"Astagfirst ...." I forgot something important. Marisa has not been circumcised. It's 41 days a little late but it can still be done. Why don't Mamah and Yayu remind me of such an important matter?

In the syafi'i imam madzhab which is embraced by most Indonesians, circumcision for boys and girls is equally mandatory. Although the purpose of the two is different.

In women, circumcision is not related to uncleanness, but to orgasm. It is said that women who are not circumcised will be more aggressive and difficult to control their orgasm.

If giving birth in a child shaman, they certainly provide khitan package service. They understand the law and the purpose of circumcision in girls.

In midwives, I know little. Later I try to ask the Midwife who helped me deliver. Hopefully he can help me. "Or did I just go to Mak Piyah?" I muttered to myself.

After the homework was done I decided to meet Mak Piyah, I don't know where the house is. But, when I ordered him he came on foot, most likely his house is not far from here.

I picked up the purple jar, and carried it in the traditional way. I've seen the artists on TV holding the baby in front of the chest with the position of the legs to form the letter M, I have not dared to, given the age of Marisa has not even two months. He looks quite comfortable with the sling position as Mamah used to do.

I grabbed an umbrella behind the fridge, wrote a message and put it on the table, afraid I'd go home first. I turned the handle of the key twice, making sure everything was safe before going to walk towards Mak Piyah's house.

"Where are you going, Ning?" Miss Suparti greeted me.

"You go to Mak Piyah's house, Mom. But, Ning blm knows where the house is," I replied.

"Your son wants to be sorted?"

"No, ma'am, you want to be circumcised."

"If you want to circumcise a baby girl, to Bu Midwife, it is common," said Bu Suparti. "Come, Mother inter, all of you want to go ahead to send the cake order," added Bu Suparti while walking in front of me.

Along the way I chatted with Ms. Suparti. As it turns out, everyday she likes to take orders for pastries and wet pastries. I am interested in helping him while studying, who knows, it can be a source of sustenance for me. I'd like to ask Bang Rafi for permission.

Ms. Suparti and I separated at the maternity clinic and the home of the Midwife where I gave birth to Marisa. The door is open, hopefully Midwife is at home. "Natalogue ...."