Fat Broken Wing

DuPers

World Marriage

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KIYARA POV

It does not feel like I have now walked 2 months of my marriage with Mas Dave, my compassionate man who has made my wings back can pack beautifully, she said, although my marriage world is not as smooth as the toll road but everything can be passed well every problem that hit.

People say five years of marriage is a year of risk of quarrel because of financial problems or because the ego is still unstable, and of course the adjustment to the couple. Moreover, his impromptu marriage like me and Mas Dave, we have not much to say at that time, moreover, one month earlier in the marriage we had to take care of Mommy who was undergoing treatment in Singapore at that time, narrowing it down

time get to know each other more closely, chat about financial issues in detail, something you like or not, how the habits at home and so on. We were just trying to carry out the role of husband and wife well, trying to understand each other and succumb and nurture with that love alone. Until, I miscarried and bedrest, Tya's problem too, followed by Mommy and Daddy's marriage back, a trip to Germany to solve the past problems, and only returned 1 week ago to Bandung, Bandung, sometimes everything I've been through is confusing.

2 Months passed, but only a few days I felt new to know the habits of Mas Dave completely when he just woke up, when at home, when he wanted to go to work, he said, or whatever it is that he did, which has been completely unnoticed by me. And seeing it every day like this makes me weird myself, not thinking

my age is only 23 years old I already have a life companion like him, he is perfect .. if said Sammy Simorangkir, he he he he.

“Hey, don't daydream ..”

“Eh, Mommy sorry Bun,” I said while grimacing shame, I today took refuge in Mother's house because Mas Dave has work from morning until later in the afternoon, I will take refuge in the house of Mommy, his office has started to operate and early on like this the presence of the main director is very important to handle the technical matters of the company before it is delegated to the trust person like Mas Dave wants, he said, even so, it still can not take off the hands just like that.

“What are you daydreaming?” ask Mommy.

“Still imagine yes, good Germany? Coming home from Germany so like to daydream gini,” said Mommy while pinching my soft cheeks.

“He he he, Germany is good, just Ara no longer daydreaming Germany, Bun. Just imagine the world of marriage, did not expect Ade had lived that world when Ade was only 23 years old, I think tea will be above 25 years before. Just realized also, the habit of the husband for one week was alone, before my attention was divided by Mommy as well, not to mention I was the one who missed the miscarriage so asana kumaha gituh Bun tea,” my word to Mommy.

“The beginning of the marriage you went through with Dave, it was an incredible ordeal. Usually at the beginning of the wedding

the young couple if not financially yes adaptation between individuals and their families are difficult, but you and Dave masyaAllah immediately given the noble task of taking care of your mother. And Mommy is proud of your child, can help her husband take care of her mother until she recovers. Mother is also proud, Mother's child

“Well, during this week it is only natural that you just know how your husband is. As you said earlier, your attention is again focused on your husband just not on the others, then how does everything that is on Dave you feel can accept everything?” ask Mother in a serious tone.

I smile. “Some don't fit a bit, Bun. No one is perfect, I am still

a lot of lack so I don't demand more Mas Dave should be like, or like I want. He accepts me as I am, and so do I. The lack of Mas Dave could be a reward field for me, Bun. This I really want a lot of Mother's time when Malem before I get married, Mother will say so

same me. ‘The lack of a husband can be a field of reward for you later, for example if you finish bathing, the towel is cul aja on the mattress you can take and put in its place, for example, if her husband salatnya still could be invited jama’ah let not help again’ it was pesen Mother first,” said I.

“Iya right, but must remember there is something that can be changed there are also difficult even can not be changed, if things like habits can still be changed, if things like habits can still be changed, but if it's already difficult nature .. so yes the only way is to accept but if it's ugly then slowly in straighten a little bit. Just have to be careful, don't

never feel right alone because the household must be mutually in the good do not mutually in the bad,” said Mother.

“Must love each other, love each other, accept each other well, love each other, and

each other, do not win each other alone, selfish is the name, mutually willing to be superior, or each other bad, each other,” again then switch to take a small glass containing the warm that I made to accompany a casual chat this morning before noon.

“Iya, Bun .. insya Allah, but so far thank God it is safe. As Mother said, we also from the beginning of marriage have loved each other, understood each other, and accepted each other's shortcomings and advantages even though sometimes there are still checks, he said, naturally according to Kiyara and indeed one week ago that feels once but we are happy to be through this all well and still hold hands to support each other. But sometimes it's funny to remember Bun, for two months married I was new

realize if Mas Dave sleep sometimes like ngigo, or sometimes if the bath likes to forget to bring a towel, jeez he really feels different from the past, he said,” my words while shadowing the handsome face of my husband and Mother just smiled anxiously looking at me.

“You it, yes yes orh .. you used to find it at most a day only 1 to 2 hours at the longest possible

5 Hours, ah now you are almost 24 hours the same husband you continue to be different oruh, the more he looked at his goodness and ugliness, his habit, his habits, his nature and attitude so visible all the original that you did not know much so know more now, now, so even you in Dave's eyes there must be a difference maybe first of all you kalem his son uh it turns out that originally not kalem at all hi hi hi hi hi hi," said Mother who end-end teasing me..

I chuckled little to hear Mother speak like that, it is true what Mother said. Be like

I used to just be able to hold his hand now I can hold the others as well all without exception, hi hi hi hi hi hi.