ETERNAL ENEMIES

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Putting Mistakes on the Victim. Ney and Alex hahahaha but if Alex is mending he immediately feels guilty and apologizes to Rita, different from the other one. Gaslighter is a liar, a fraud, a bully (a bully), but he can turn around accusing his victims. The victim will be made to feel guilty until he starts defending himself and finally sidetracked from the wrongdoer. Here we go! The mistake he made would be he put on Arnila or Rita and make himself safer especially Rita as a victim. Alex finally realized what Ney was ugly like, and did not believe it. Rita assures Alex that whatever Rita says about Ney is how she feels. Moreover, Ritalah suffered the most when deciding to be friends with Ney because Ney had no sense of respect and respect for him alias very selfish.

Spreading Stories That Victims Can't Trust. This happened to Rita when she was Junior High where all her friends Ney told about Rita's situation was not right. Moreover, mentioning that Rita is not equal to their status and trying to seize all her friends. Really too! If in his understanding, the perpetrator did demean about his victims, namely Rita and said things outside Rita so that they turned away from him. But alas, they all knew what the real Rita was like and instead turned to attack Ney. That's why maybe the reason until now Ney only has one friend. Because what Rita saw on her Pacebok account was that she had many tens of thousands of virtual friends but none of them, from the status she made, had a similar opinion.

Almost everyone who floated an opinion blocked him so Rita asked - why he could be so dazed as to not be able to accept the opinions of different people? And not able to humble themselves at least succumb or admit even though it does not fit his opinion. Hardly anyone replies to a status or at least gives Like on a status or a comment he or she sends. Unlike Rita, although her friends are few but all many who give advice or comment jokingly. Just live!

As if - Friendly Sports. Here it can be said that the gaslighter can pretend to be a good person, who as if - will side with the victim. The real purpose is so that the perpetrator can find out the weakness of the victim. If it has been achieved, the faults and weaknesses of the victim will continue to be remembered and called - call, this is the characteristic attached to Ney!! The last of these, the traits that fit with Ney's personality are really. Later this section will also have other stories that are not inferior to make the Author want to throw his own cellphone. But it can not because, Noveltoon application is on hpnya HUEHEHE...

The nature of gaslighting manipulation initially appears to be a minor problem but if it occurs continuously, the behavior can cause psychological stress and emotional trauma to the victim, Rita. Events that made him distrustful about his agreement helped bully him when it had made friendship points that Rita was resistant, finally exploding into rubble. At first Rita only thought sorry for Ney because from Junior High until now, her friend was just Arnila and that meant something was wrong in her way of making friends. Well, now Rita experienced it herself with a drastic drop in points. This is how Allah SWT showed what Ney really looked like, and what actions Rita should take. Okay fine! We go back to the story again....

For a moment there is no answer then Arnila menjapri Rita, with wonder Rita read it. Think this child is very happy to be a messenger? Does he have no desire to refuse? Think Rita. "Ney said you had to ask Alex about his past,"

Idiho! Really - really people! "Why do you want to be Ney's owl? Let it be Nile, the same thing about people's past!" said Rita who did not want to take a headache.

"He meant I made him tell you!" Arnila. This person simply cannot do protection or well like refusing a request to convey a message. How scary was Ney to Arnila? Anxious it feels Rita wants to scold Arnila that her attitude is what makes Ney more willing to treat her.

"Fight dong. Don't want to obey him unless you're also curious about how Alex's past is. You can also be fierce to him, just let it go! I no longer want to look down on him! Sorry I'm not her slave!

"Yes, just like me, you are always told to. Not knowing I was hit by magic the same way she always did whatever she wanted, so my groupmate also left me, Ri," Arnila said. Rita just closed her eyes which were a bit can't stand Ney and Arnila.

"Well, when Alex was in the hospital, I was blamed by his mother and even Alex. I didn't want to do that, but what Ney said. Where is he responsible for telling me to do that?" Ask Rita.

"Yes I saw it too. If I had prevented him from going away at that time, it probably wouldn't have happened that way. I know he's the one who forces when things go wrong, and he blames you too. I thought how is he? It's not that she's forcing you to just leave you alone,"

"If you understand, with what happened to me, I hope you also start to be careful with him. The problem is that you are the only one who still wants to survive with him, the others are there? I'm sure no one survives" Rita recalled to Arnila. Because Rita saw Arnila too soft and the problem because it had been following Ney for a long time was not wrong if at any time Arnila was the same. So Rita has to double be careful of them.

"Oh Arnila.. This is yes from now on, I will fight him, I am no longer interested in looking down on all the advice he thinks is very bad! Just tell me I'm not retaliating" said Rita.

"OK," 2 seconds later Arnila came back again. "He doesn't believe me, Ri. I should how?" Ask Arnila.

Yes, God can not make any other reason or do not need to be answered all! Absolutely the type of person I avoid as well because he can't decide on his own if anything - what to tell. There are people he doesn't like but doesn't feel good about having to leave him or not care about. Very jangar!

"Yes, you said that I replied like that. You just copy paste this chat until I decide I won't obey him anymore!" Arnila then copies it and sends the contents of the chat with Rita to Ney. It seemed that it was enough to slap Ney as there was no more reply from Arnila. Rita is only interested in dealing with these 2 strange people. One was too soft and one had no heart where alive either. Exams oh exams!

Returning to the group, Rita waited for more news. Rita knows exactly what Ney looks like she won't stop until she gets what she wants. Ney seems to be trying to find a way so he can find out information about Alex. How is he curious himself? And now comes up with another topic that she hopes to get answers from Rita. That coercion is the same nature as Alex.

"You didn't tell me about Alex?" Ask Ney. Oh, so now this topic is about family? Alright, Rita will always be ready to face it.

"No. Alex is my business, my mother's job is only my blessing if I find a husband later," Rita said calmly.

"But if the business is like a dilapidated Alex, your mother should also know," said Ney who felt right. Rita wondered how the hell did her parents educate her? Did he himself decide not to heed his parents' advice? Because Rita had also seen him not care about his mother's talk about friends.

"no need. My mom and the others just have to accept whoever is going to be my husband. Alex's dilapidated question is not something worth telling. I know him, I know how he is. The family doesn't need to know how negative she is" Rita explained, holding back her emotions while remaining privileged. He always remembered the words - said his psychiatrist first, many - many istighfar if he began to face this brash friend.

"If I say the mother you should know," That's why you want her to keep making trouble with Rita. A hobby that makes him a problem? What does it mean try? The author is confused.

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