BUDUBYNSITTERS
Episode 60's
weddings in the city of Pinrang turned out to be quite complicated and use money that many customs and traditions make
people set a good price to hold a wedding. The procession of traditional marriage is a sacred thing, each stage and ritual that is lived contains different meanings and prayers. In the Bugis custom, the wedding ceremony consists of the following stages:
1. Mappasau Botting and Cemme Passih
After spreading out the wedding invitations, mappasau botting, which means taking care of the bride and groom, is the initial ritual in the wedding ceremony. The event takes place for three consecutive days before H day. During these three days the bride and groom undergo traditional treatments such as steam bath and use black powder from a mixture of glutinous rice, tamarind and lime and that is where the mumu work begins. some salons usually also provide for this ritual, in the tribe of Bugis called Cemme Passih while in this modern era, people know him by calling "siraman".
Cemme passih is considered to be and must be done before approaching H day which is with the aim to clean up also refuse balak to ask for protection
2. Mappanre Temme's
Because the majority of Bugis people embraced Islam, in the afternoon the day before the wedding day, held the event mappanre temme or khatam Quran and barzanji reading led by an imam. if even the bride-to-be has done the completion of the Qur'an then it will be replaced with a joint service and prayer.
in this process, salons or indo botting (bridal parties) such as mumu also take part to decorate and prepare confectionaries to look beautiful until the day H.
3. The night before the wedding\, the bride and groom do mappaci/tudammpenni activities.
This process aims to clean and purify both brides from things that are not good. Starting with the pick-up of the two brides, who then sit at the seleaminan, after which in front of them are arranged the following equipment; a pillow as a symbol of respect, seven silk sarongs as a symbol of self-esteem, and the, a banana leaf sprout as a symbol of sustainable life, seven to nine jackfruit leaves as a symbol of hope, a plate of wenno (a roasted rice) as a symbol of good development, as a symbol of good development, a lit candle as a symbol of illumination, the delicate henna leaves as a symbol of cleanliness and bekkeng (a metal place for pacci leaves) as a symbol of the union of the bride. After the equipment is placed, one by one relatives and guests will rub pacci into the palm of the hand
brides.
4. Botting Mapenre
Mappenre botting means taking the groom to the bride's house. The groom is ushered in by the motorcade without the presence of his parents. The motorcade usually consists of indo botting (the bride) and passepi (the bride's companion).
5. Madduppa Botting
After mappenre botting, done madduppa botting or welcoming the arrival of the groom. This welcoming is usually done by two welcomers (one teenage girl and one teenage boy), two pakkusu-kusu (married women), and two young men, two pallipa sabbe (parents of a middle-aged man and woman as a representative of the bride's parents) and a woman spreader of wenno.
Naturally the pinrang city wedding is very unique because when the kabul ijab has been pronounced the man is led to the room containing the bride, the bride, but before entering the room the guide or the person who is poured in the marriage must give bribes first to the doorman, after the door opener steps aside and opens access then the groom can meet his partner, does that also include a bribe?
6. Mappasikarawa /Mappasiluka
said the tribe bugis believe if who stepped on the foot of the couple first he will be more dominating in their household mmm sounds quite strange anyway but I should have used that way to tame dimas in our household. Mumu only conveyed until then although in fact there are still some rituals but have not used a salon processor.
now it's been 2 months right I'm in the city of Pinrang, although not too language and tradition pinrang city but I am grateful that family and community are very friendly to me especially when mother Lela said if I was one of her nephews, as long as I have pinrang city there are many places that I go to one of them is a sulili hot spring that is quite simple yes compared to the ancol park but really hot water that flows and enters the pool very natural.
this little town is really fun not to mention when your lovely sister named Lindah plows me
traveling to the land of Toraja where a death is used as a festive party and a tourist attraction when watching the customary event berbersik in my brain memenai dimas, should I do a big celebration to thank the damned demon..?? and when is death masssss..?? huh as far as I go dimas and his boys always haunt me.
time continued to pass until without me realizing I had started to get used to the world of your mother and life in the city of Pinrang, little by little I was able to speak bugis even though it was still difficult to pronounce it, I have been used to helping your mums to decorate brides and organize other mau work is growing ever since I helped your mums because I was very diligent in promoting it to others through
social media, well the more often I promote the denser our flight hours.
your mumu family helped me to forget my sedikh, the more we dissolved in the busyness the more often I fell asleep because of fatigue and forgot if there were three small humans who always disturbed my feelings. but heiii the more I often hang out with your mummy friends who banciees my life is more chaotic because my vocabulary and appearance is becoming more and more than ever not only that uuu the banciees also teach me how to seduce the underage castamer to become permanent customers of mumu's salon.
I still feel at home here and still want to stay here until the phone call from my aunt made me realize that I actually have another family that has already used me as a family,come back to Jakarta even though the weight of your mother and her family release me back my keasalku.mumu always said
"i've loved it since adako here my fortune is also getting smoother but remember that you're a woman, a mother who has a child who always needs me, if indeed your relationship with your husband is not good but at least do not break your blood relationship with your son" (i'm glad you are here, since you are, since you are there, my blessing is getting smoother but no matter how you are a woman, a mother who has a child who always needs you, if your relationship with your husband is no longer good at least the relationship with your child remains good, do not destroy the blood between you) your mother said wisely and reassured me.
with a heavy heart I finally will, although afraid but I do miss my children, their laughter, danggis up to the debate of twins with Apinya also complained when he was tired of facing work.
all that seemed lost when I left the city, since I used to think I was floating to the location of my children, there is a bugis saying
"peddi palao ka' uddani parewa ka" which means (pain that takes me away but longing that brings me back.
with a heavy heart finally mumu and family sent me away. aor their eyes never subsided including mother lela because for him I was like her biological child too. so happy I think I have your mom and her family as an adopted family, I don't know what I would be like if your mom didn't support me first.
the night world is hard and I admit I once walked into a filthy valley called discotheque. my body floated above the udata and after treading the earth more clearly in the jakarta my parents turned out not to change in the slightest they still expected me to be his dairy cow, inevitably I ended up working, he said, da one of the time organizers hired me on the recommendation of mumu well continue my life in Jakarta even though the distance between jakarta-bandung is very close but my ragaku always I hold so as not to move looking
siiblis and my dwarves because I really can't get a rejection from that male demon so I'm here in this part of the world, all I have to wait for is a miracle for God to bring me back at a time when I found my own happiness.
