Two Ribs

#24

In living a household, the name of conflict is common.

This is the philosophy of mothers who like to sit in vegetable stalls.

If the household was adem ayem aja not da quarrel. Not exciting ! There's no spice. Long time can be bland household. Appear third person.

Didn't the third person show up first there was a fight huh?

Why do I think about the philosophy of the mother.

To me, as much as possible to avoid conflict. If there is a conflict, it must exist.

Yeah, get it done.

Uh, is my household and Bang Handi in conflict? Amit amit baby jabang (tap tap on the floor)

"Assynolajet.. Uh, it's neat, unfortunately, mom".

When I entered the house. Bang Handi and our two children had finished their baths and were sitting in front of the television.

"Youngpam. How long is the vegetable shopping? Any more hot news?"

"Diagulau.. Mother mother complex. Go home, have a chat".

"What's hot news this week?"

"Dad, hobbies also gossip"

"That's not gossip, but reality?"

"Let the children eat first. Want to see you today, right?"

I prepared the yellow rice I bought at her mother bang Handi's place this morning before going to the vegetable stall.

Yes, now my mother-in-law fills her time in the morning by selling yellow rice.

On weekdays, I always make my own breakfast for bang Handi and children.

Different on sunday.

Sunday is a free day of cooking.

So on Sundays, we started with grandma's yellow rice next to the house. Lunch at my father's house and dinner at the Kakaf cafe. Or dinner with my extended family.

And every week, is our schedule to go down the mountain (that's he said kakaf)

Every day I go down the mountain to take the kids to school.

With the passage of time, Azwa was now in the third grade of elementary school. And azka in kindergarten.

I don't think we've lived in this house for five years.

My relationship with my new wife? I was lazy to tell it.

But we're friends now. I've accepted with great courage that you have another wife.

My relationship with my father's wife is like a normal classmate at school. Will say hello when passing or meet in the canteen. But we are not two friends sharing stories.

Bang Handi said it better that way. The important thing is to respect and respect each other.

Stay as before. Harmonious and still spoiled.

The latest news only comes from Kakaf who will soon end his own time. I am the most enthusiastic and happy. I want Kakaf to have a life companion to accompany him later in his old age.

"Ade, here eat first. My brother ate".

I sat in front of the television with Azka. Soon Azwa and Bang Handi also sat in front of the television while carrying their plates

"Cock on eating in front of all tivi?"

"Mum's cartoon name, I just love it.. Isn't it sister?"

Azwa just nodded. Mouth chews food. Focusing eyes on the television.

I just shook my head. Let it be, anyway on Sunday they are free to watch television or play hape. On the school day, I set a time limit for both of them.

Including Bang Handi. If at night accompany children to study, then me or bang Handi is forbidden to play gadgets. Unless there is something important.

That's the deal we both made.

In front of the kids, focus on them. No other activities. Everything work, must be completed before our time with the children. Like this morning, there was no hape between the four of us.

"So, what's this week's hot news at the bu complex?"

"Dad, still curious"

If in front of the children, I call bang Handi with the name father.

"Let's fit the patrol duty. I know the news. Not missed"

"Emang father if you patrol gossip too huh?"

"Sometimes, if it's really good".

"Later mom story. Not in front of the kids".

"Later drop to my father's house. Mo's father went to a friend's house. Mo discussed the work. But I came down first, not long".

I just nodded.

I don't know what Bang Handi meant. Usually if it's certain, bang Handi just told me.

Since the kids started school. Bang Handi began looking for additional work with some of his friends. He said it was good, make extra child tuition. The money from the honorary in the office is only enough for the cost at home including paying for electricity and water, while the father is now old, no longer taking government project projects. Now you just build a new house and then sell it.

The cool language is Sell Buy Home

Dad's finances are not like before that automatically also affect my finances.

My biggest donor right now is Kakaf. But I know myself too. I want Kakaf to be able to save for himself.

That's why now I'm following in the footsteps of my in-laws. I made some small meals that I left every morning to my in-laws. Pretty, make money for children's snacks.

With the current state of our household, I am very grateful. Children also never ask for anything excessive. Since they were children we both tried to give understanding to children that everything must have a priority. Which one you need most, that's what you need to buy first. Thankfully, my son understands.

And my brother also supported by not pampering both of our children.

What did your mother comment on the stall if you knew about my household?