Two Ribs
Bang Handi my husband..
Handi Trilaksana his father's name was my children. Bang Handi is the third of five children with two mothers. When Bang Handi was in the fifth grade of Elementary School, her mother died. Bang Handi the last son of the first mother. Because her mother died, then Bang Handi and her two brothers used to do their own homework until their Abah married again one year later.
From Abah's second marriage, he had two children. So little Bang Handi was used to homework because he had to help his mother keep them looking after two sisters.
When she graduated High School, it was Abah's turn to leave them all behind. Since then Bang Handi started looking for work and not thinking about his studies anymore. Bang Handi was afraid of burdening her and her eldest brother. Because there are still two more sisters who still need school fees.
I was looking for work at the time. But the name is young soul, the money can only be used for its own pleasure. I never thought about saving for the future. Fortunately, during the national sports week representing the province, Bang Handi won the gold medal and received bonus money and a house from the government. The bonus money was used to buy a car and the house is still there until now, while the car was sold when we were getting married.
Bang Handi was also given the opportunity to become an honorary power in the sports ministry.
Actually the life of his family Bang Handi is quite. His late brother owned a ship and palm oil business. The whole business was inherited by their oldest brother who was married at the time. Bang Handi is the type who is indifferent to treasure, he never fought over the treasure left by their Abah. Never asked for anything. His brother's business at that time was already managed by the brother before Abah died and increased forward. Bang Handi just according to whatever the brother said.
"Give me the money, not give me silence. But I won't put my hand down"
Bang Handi always said so if there are people who become stoves to demand their right to Abah's business.
"Usaha Abah came forward because of Brother Hanif. Not because of me. Grateful we are still given every year before Eid al-Fitr"
That's what he told me if I started bringing up Abah's efforts. I also went back to silence.
That's my husband.
Once upon a time, Bang Handi was tricked by his coworkers. Some money was in capital for business but the money was carried away when I was pregnant with a third child.
When I was angry that the money could make my delivery, Bang Handi just smiled as he said
"Maybe he needs the money more, ma'am"
I immediately opened my eyes.
Do you think I don't need money??
I can only breathe in irritatedly.
The only thing that made Bang Handi angry was if anyone disturbed his family. Bang Handi never meddled in other people's affairs, so if other people were talking about me and the children, then Bang Handi would be angry.
At that time the neighbors were talking about my extramarital pregnancy. Bang Handi immediately sat down with the gossip mothers.
"Mom-mother, what's in it for all the mothers discussing Yanti's pregnancy?is there any benefit? it adds to sins."
"Who are you?"
Our neighbors did not know Bang Handi.
Bang Handi stood up and introduced himself.
"I am Handi, her husband Yanti. Yanti and I made a mistake. We bear his sins. Why do mothers struggle to take sins with us? mothers should make this mistake of ours to keep the children of mothers all at home not to sin like us. Thank you for your attention to us."
Bang Handi bowed like a Japanese salute, and immediately left the mothers who returned to add to their gossip due to the actions of Bang Handi earlier.
Bang Handi is rare. The loss of her mother as a child made her love me and our son Azwa so much. We're both at home like goddesses if there's Bang Handi.
The mistakes before the wedding we made made made us realize that not everything can be done in an instant way. But sometimes there is something that does require an instant way.
"If you don't get pregnant, will we get married? It's an instant way to get your parents' blessing"
While laughing Bang Handi often bothers me with memories of the past. Again I can only respond to it by giving a punch or pinch in his stomach.
Bang Handi is not a perfect man but to me Bang Handi is a perfect husband.
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