There's No Saying Dear

Learning to Understand What's Inside Our Children...

The young man began to gas, the black car in front of him had already left him far away.

We're moving into Archer's car.

"Where's Kang Mas? Why isn't there either?" Archer scratched his head at the window.

"So, it wasn't in the back of our car." Jo speaking.

The black car, long awaited the silver car behind it.

"Come on, let me call you first." Archer wanted to take his phone out of his pants pocket. But it didn't, because of the horn from behind.

The silver car that Sky drove past the black car that belonged to the twins.

"Ah... Come on Brother Jo let's tap the gasssss!" Archer gave the order.

Jo immediately stepped on the gas, so as not to be left far from the silver color car.

Inside the silver car, the young man occasionally glanced at his wife. The light felt if her husband was glancing at her.

"Focused nyetir." The light rebuked her husband.

Both cars parked on the side of the road. The sky and his wife got out of the car. And followed by Jo and Archer. Brother Arche did not come, because he still had to rest first.

"We're just in." Sky talking. They also agreed with the young man.

The light pressed against the bell on the left side of the door.

After waiting for almost a minute the door opened. The figure of a man holding a little girl told them to come in.

"Let's go in, Ale says you're going here Ay!" Her husband Alexa smiled, extending his hand to the Light.

"Thank you, brother!" The light received a helping hand from Al.

"His husband?" Al dressingan shook hands, Sky.

"Yes, Mom!" The sky smiled thinly.

Sky appreciates her husband Alexa the proof alone, the young man does not call names. Ah—iya forgot to know.

"Al!" Her husband Alexa smiled.

The sky nodded slowly and smiled faintly.

Archer was told to kiss the man's hand.

"Let's go in, Ale had prepared food for his best friend" he said." Al told his guests to come in.

They're already in the dining room. Alexa smiled happily because her best friend came.

"Yep!" Ale Gaje's soul came back again like a year ago. Alexa shouted, making Light close his ears.

"Le, don't be like a bar-bar college kid, remember to be a mom." Light speaks as it is without any limitations.

The sky looked at his wife not like. The light lowered her head, as it stared at her husband like that. Al, who was beside the sky, smiled before saying. "It's common for them to be like that."

The sky just understood.

They've been sitting in tidy circles around the dining table.

"Assalamu'alaikum." A greeting came from the dining room door.

"Wa'alaikumussalam." All answered in unison.

"Have you gone home, son?" Al asked his son.

Kenzi walked to the dining table. The frown on his forehead was clearly visible, when he saw the back of a long-haired woman. Kenzi continued walking until, his eyes perfectly rounded staring at the long-haired woman.

The sky looked at Kenzi, who was in shock from seeing his sister there.

"Sit Kid! We eat together." Al told his son to sit down.

Archer ignored Kenzi's arrival.

The eighteen-year-old was more cool to eat banana pudding made by Alexa. Kenzi sat in front of Archer and looked at Jo dislike.

"Sister Ale, the pudding is really good. I couldn't stop eating" Archer praised Alexa's banana pudding.

"Ah.. You could have made me big head." Archer smiled.

The sky and the light coded each other, as they looked at Kezi's face.

Kenzi's eyes stared dislikefully, as the person he loved returned a smile from another man.

"Oh. Yeah Cher! How was Kenzi at school?" Alexa asked.

"You're a school?" Al asked enthusiastically.

Archer swallowed his saliva, the eighteen-year-old virgin did not know what to answer.

"Ehem" The sky cleared.

"Good!" Archer replied short, very lazy when discussing starch kanji.

Kenzi knows very well that Archer won't talk about him.

"It used to be when I was my age that your age was so much fun. Especially when my boyfriend loves my boyfriend. The guy always scolds the girl. Anyway it's not saggy love, now there's still no ngecengin girls until it can." Alexa spoke, while putting food in her mouth.

Archer was silent and would not answer.

"After pecengin, it has been overtaken by our friends who we often curhatin. It hurts a lot." Jo replied.

Jo's answer made Kenzi flinch.

Alexa and her husband laughed as Jo spoke.

"Good steps in acquaintance, the term is through matchmaking. More afdol so not deviated, from Islamic sharia law." Sky sounds.

Kenzi glanced at the Sky, the guy gulped his saliva violently, upon seeing the flat face of Heaven.

"And certainly his age is also qualified, to build a household. Isn't that so Mas Al?" ask Sky.

"Of course, I totally agree with your words. Now young people are proud to have a boyfriend. He felt like he was selling and someone wanted to. Later if the breakup of his childish nature appears. Desperate, some choose to end their lives."

"That's why none of our families are dating, my sister is married to my best friend. And me." The sky looked at his wife for a moment, before continuing. "Married to my wife, because she is the granddaughter of her best friend Mbah! So you could say it's our family tradition." The sky spoke, like that I don't know what it meant.

But when Kenzi heard that, he concluded what Archer told him about him guessing it to Heaven.

The Carib Companion is of Arabic origin. Carib or qoroba means near. Ninety-five of our languages are Arabic.

"Yes, it's much better the term strengthens friendships, raises the status that was originally only friends become relatives, and strengthens the fabric of the silahturahmi so as not to break up."

"Now that courtship knows no boundaries, a kiss in the middle of the road is proud. Hugs are common, after that, extraordinary events put families to shame." Jo also spoke.

"That's why it's so important to teach ***education to a young child, we call it thirteen. We must tell which ones can and cannot be touched. So that children know, oh. yes this part should not be touched. Means I have to take care of him, after his age rises we start surveying how the hell this kid's mindset is. More mature or unstable. And I think if you're fifteen and up, we can make a child understand the consequences of what he's doing. If he knows kayak, then example yes. Like if I steal the consequences will be crushed by people. Automatically this kid will think two to three times, to do things that will make him lose." The light breathed out slowly, because of the long talk. The woman with the shoulder-length hair was gulping down water from thirst.

All those who were there nodded no exception, Archer and Kenzi they could also take a little lesson from the speech of the shoulder-haired lady.

The sky looked at his wife in awe, the young man thought that his wife would be a good mother to his children.

"But if Kak Al, how to educate Kak Al's children. People say educating boys is hard, it's easier to educate girls. Or someone said otherwise." Light asked.

"You want the child to be a girl or a boy the same. Depending on the child, there are wayward girls there, there are also boys. It all depends on this kid. But back to us, we need to know. What our son is like. What if in snapped he was afraid and obedient, or even this child was getting stubborn and refuted. Because basically, the child wants to be treated, pampered given more attention is the term. Well, if we snapped him automatically, this child's mentality is done. And would assume if the parents do not like this child. And it could be that this child is frustrated and tells himself 'cave design is a good boy, if the cave parents just don't know what the cave wants. And why, the cave must hear what he says if he alone does not want to understand what the cave wants from him'. The point is we have to learn to understand our son first." Al spoke what was in his brain.

"And if you educate that guy, you're more like telling him to respect women." Al ended with a slow gust of a lipped.

"According to me, because now a lot of guys like to think of women as objects that should be enjoyed. We must also remember that women are human just like us. What we should appreciate, because we were born from a woman's womb. They should have thought if it was her mother or sister who thought that was how she felt." The sky is falling, said Al.

"And sometimes the guy once there is a clear direct, japri through the inbox or do not immediately comment. Say, what a beautiful thing. It's so easy you say empty talk to a girl. Later if not in reply said arrogant for mercy, pretentious blah-bla. Though we do not know what kind of girl in japri like. Perhaps, this girl limited herself by not replying to him. We cannot immediately conclude that this chick is arrogant and selling expensive." Alexa argues.

"It is possible that the girl limits herself, in such a way. In order not to get along. One day I saw people's Facebook stories. He told me if he was inboxing with a guy, it was good at first. Still in a state of asking what his name is, where his house what he likes. In this question is still within reasonable limits. But for a long time the contents of the Japanese really make it uncomfortable. Talk a little dirty, and go everywhere. This kind of thing I think can knock that girl mentally." Jo also continued, Alexa.

Everyone there nodded. It seems like the person there is one thought. It's really good to talk about one topic that clicks! Moreover, young people such as Archer and Kenzi can be introspective in order to become a better person.

"The science of religion must also be instilled from an early age. Let them also his mind is not negative mulu. If you have good religious knowledge, you can imitate how the Prophet Muhammad appreciated a woman. And how to keep a look." The light placed the spoon that was in both of his hands on the plate.

"All right, let's say Le" Light said to his friend. Alexa nodded slowly.

"Frequently play here, let the relationship of silahturahmi not be interrupted. " Al spoke, shaking the hand of Heaven. And patted the young man's shoulder.

"Thank you, for the banquet." Smiling sky.

"No problem we're happy, if we can host you for next time." Al smiled faintly.

"Can Om, if there's any pudding by Brother Ale!" Archer spoke, kissing Al's hand.

Al smiled at Archer's words. The eighteen-year-old virgin was in front of Kenzi and extended her hand, a hint of forced smile. Kenzi received a helping hand from Archer. Kenzi has got what he wants to do, bring Jo to him. Kenzi had no more room to have that eighteen-year-old virgin. His hopes were shattered, he thought Archer was lying about the matchmaking. Seeing Jo with Archer makes Kenzi sure they have a relationship. Strengthened by the words of his kang mas, Archer whose words hit his heart.

"When we meet again tomorrow at school." Archer smiled, his business with Kenzi is done.