There's No Saying Dear

Hanging out

Still on the same day. The clock shows at half twelve noon. All the office employees are on break. The man, who was already the father, entered the elevator pressing buttons three and one.

Elevator up. The man walked into the finance director's room. Open the door without permission.

"Well... " The man closed the door violently.

The young man who was focusing on the financial statements, raised his head. Whoever comes into his room has no manners.

"I'm crazy there's no brother-in-law, I'm targeted." The man was Hazel who was sitting in the front seat of her sister-in-law.

The sky stared at a glance, then focused on the numbers listed in the files in his hand, the other hand he used holding a muse.

"I can't stand it if it's eyed, continue to judge." Hazel grabbed her hair in frustration.

"When are you back home?" ask Hazel again.

"Maybe it's night." The sky answered, while closing the yellow file, and continued to close the laptop.

On the first floor the man was walking towards the elevator. Everything that was there, his eyes were fixed on the man.

With the man's leisure, eat a lick while walking. His right hand holds a peck. The left hand holds the plastic.

"Jo Jiang!" greet the woman who passed Jo.

But Jo did not answer, the man was more cool eating lilok. Jo got in the elevator somewhere.

The elevator opened and the man walked towards the door and knocked on the door.

"Come in" said from the inside.

"It just so happens to be Mr. Hazel!" Jo closes the door and stands next to Hazel.

"What do you want to say, use all coincidences." Hazel glanced at Jo.

"More." Jo thrusting a peck at Hazel.

"It just so happens, hungry again!" Hazel received a plastic bag containing two lilok packs. Hazel put the other one on the Sky's desk.

"Layak, still single, the people of the treaty are just a peck" Hazel sneered.

The sky that saw it, immediately took the peek that was on his desk and ate it.

"Let's who can accept what it is is difficult sir!" Jo ate while talking.

"Si Jo, look for something like Sayyidah Fatimah! Zel!" chirp the Sky that enjoyed the lick.

"If you want to find something like Sayyidah Fatimah, you have to be like Imam Ali!" hazel laughed.

"I find out what can be difficult sir! Romantic sir!" I just slipped back into Jo's mouth.

The sky that heard that, was silent, reluctant to respond. Let Hazel respond.

"Where's the hard roman-tis Jo."

"If it is difficult to eat a plate together, drink on the lips of the wife. Not playing sir! If you are rich, you can rarely do that. Most of his wife soto her husband sate many choices" Jo shook his head.

"Yes, it's good to have a wife. Well that's it... " Hazel pointed at Jo with the corner of his eye.

Jo smiled stiffly, while Sky only shook his head.

"Just ask the president, if you don't believe." Hazel said again.

"Sweet Jo!" The sky is not aware of it.

"What's sweet sir?" Jo wants to know what sweet is.

"Tick it." The sky answered a lie.

Actually the young man, was thinking about the moment of lip contact with his wife.

"Mana ade Lang, this is a sore peek kok .. said sweet."

"Maybe have Mr. Sky, given sugar with the same Akang traders." Jo talk ngawur.

"There on out, lu Zel's job ..don't because his son Mr. Commissioner so nice."

We're shifting to Agam Ariaja's house. As planned, they will conduct the study. The three women were ready to go to the mosque.

"We just walk, because it's only fifteen minutes, all day sports." Agam Ariaja's wife started the conversation first.

"okay... " The round-faced girl replied.

They walked together until they reached the mosque. The three entered looking for the front seat, so as to hear the lecture more clearly. Looks like the diploma has come and the study that afternoon will begin soon.

"Assalamu'alaikum warohmatulohi wabarakatuh." The Ustadzah said hello.

"Wa'alaikumussalam warohmatulohi wabarakatuh." Everyone in the mosque answered the greeting.

"Wall's presence. The blessed presence of Allah SWT. On this sunny day we are Alhamdulillah can still be reunited, after a month of not seeing each other. Okey discussion this afternoon we take a simple theme, yes ma'am?Our theme today is ...Step to be a sholehah wife according to the view of Islam. What's our theme this afternoon, ma'am?" The Ustadzah asked the mothers who participated in the lecture.

"THE STEP OF BEING A WIFE THAT IS SHOLEH ACCORDING TO ISLAMIC VIEWS." Everyone who attended the meeting that afternoon was very excited.

"God, in the spirit of the Mothers. Must be before here her husband gives monthly money huh Mom? " The Ustadzah made everyone laugh.

"Ma, it's the moon money, Papa love excess because Mama today participated taklim .. really what true Mothers who are blessed by Allah SWT." The Ustazah tries to interact with the mothers.

"Hahaha, really Bu Ustadzah!" All those who attended the meeting answered with laughter.

"God's blessed mothers SWT ..if our husband has done his duty then we as wives should do our best for the husband. Who doesn't want to go to hell? I'm sure the mothers here are more heaven than hell. Naudzubillah yes Mothers?" Ustazah was a lecture by standing up so that all who participated could see.

"Okay, we're back to the theme this afternoon. The first way to become a sholehah wife is. Open with husband ..I want to ask the mothers who are here. About Mothers are already open not with Mom's husband?" The ustazah smiled.

"Already... " One assembly but the answer is different. The light smiled because the ustazah ma'am in front of him was very good at his lecture.

"For those who have not come home from here. try to chat with her husband open to each other ..it is very important ma'am ..can make the relationship stay good. Okey Bu...agree what agree?"

"agree... " Everyone answered with laughter.

"Okey we go back to Lep!"

"TOP!" simultaneously answered.

"HAHAHAHA!" their laughter filled the mosque.

"alright. Open with the husband ..Good communication based on trust in each other ..communication and mutual trust in each other. This is the main key, Mothers ..so in a husband-wife relationship must be open to each other no one is covered up."

"Momens can tell about ..Momens' deepest thoughts as well. Even ideas, insecurity, anxiety or happiness to her husband. Start from the new easy we level up, until here there is a question?"

Everyone shakes their heads.

"Well the second Mothers here must have done it I am very sure ..the second is to do the best in household affairs. In Islam usually homework is the duty of the wife, because the task of the husband will go looking for money.why when I say money Mothers smile?" The Ustazah smiled at the mothers.

"HAHAHAHA!! Mrs Ustazah, money is our success" said those who made the ustazah laugh. Light and wife Agam Ariaja also laughed, because of the words of the Mothers who were behind.

"However, the mothers of your origin know, that homework should not be done wife ..There are times when a wife asks for the help of her beloved husband, cooperation is one of the important points. And it should be applied in the family." The Ustazah paused for a moment, before starting to talk again.

"Rasulullah Muhammad Shallahu Alaihi Wassalam "

"Allahumma Sholli Alla." Very compact.

"The prophet also helped his wife a lot, in doing household tasks. So Buuu ..do not hesitate to ask for help husband eg...help the little one in school work ..or play."

"One more if there is still a single for the sisters who are here .. especially who want to find a husband ..recommended from me.care for a husband who can be scolded, but keep quiet, nurut, that's good. If you can not look for the angry ..how the Jofisa agree not ..I mean the fisabilillah singles, singles but still in the way of God! " The lecture was very slow.

"HAHAHAHA. "all laugh, Light just shook his head because it was funny.

"Let's not sleepy I have to be a comedian. All right, this third is...

Having fun with my husband, I often spend time alone with my husband... The blessed mothers of Allah SWT."

"Don't make ..children a barrier to quality time. Mothers with husband ..we can use once a month to date with our husband ..the children leave the neighbors alone..."

"AHA." HAHAHAHA." Everyone laughed because Ustazah was so funny.

"Jeng, may I not nitip my son for a moment. I have been one month now ..not dating my husband ..neighbor replied ..by Jeng, but tomorrow change me who tipped my son to you yes Jeng ...I have not dated my husband for a month and a half.have passed the date of Jeng ..maybe after this can be practiced."

All those who participated could not help but laugh.

"Mbak hijab lemon kok like really cool if I laugh. If you can tell me what her name is, Mommy?" The Ustadzah smiled knot.

"Light." The light answered slowly.

"Oh.. her name is good, her face is ayu. I can judge for sure Mbak Cahaya is newly married. Lalau see the auras ..we pray that the family of Mbak Cahaya will last. Amen Allah humma..."

"AMEN!!!! " Everyone said amen. Agam Ariaja's wife who was beside the Light smiled stroking Light's shoulder.

"Mbak Cahaya came home from here her husband was on a date. Mothers also do not want to lose with the Light. Take dating. Bi! cekileh calls Abi ...Bi dating yuk? After coming home from here practice. Quality time with your husband is very important. To keep the fire of love burning. Just as fun and important when doing. Activities with the children."

The roasting light smiled in embarrassment. Agam Ariaja's wife laughed.

"After that, we discuss the next mothers who are blessed by Allah SWT. Speak softly, to our husbands. It is normal for husbands to argue, to argue. After all, the heads of Mothers and husbands are not always the same. But the important thing to remember is ..make sure the tone of speech is soft ..must be able to sort and choose sentences more precisely, so as not to offend the husband and his intonation should be smooth. After all, wife heaven is husband, no matter how heated the debate is. Be sure to talk to your husband gently, don't attack and corner him."

"Prophet Muhammad said to his wife Sayyidah Aisha. 'Look meekly, because if you find something to meek, it beautifies and when removed from anything it damages it."

"There question? If there is none I proceed to the next chapter. Time to end this." The Ustazah asked, but all shook their heads.

"Nothing so we're next. Okey Mothers who are blessed by Allah SWT We are in discussion. TKSPS know not?" Ustazah was playing guess.

All shook his head, but not Agam Ariaja's wife.

"Looks like Miss Walsall knows, let's give her microphone to Miss Walsall!" The Ustazah sent a woman.

The microphone is already in the hands of Agam Ariaja's wife.

"Come on, don't be afraid of being wrong." Ustazah said.

"Show love to your husband!"Agam Ariaja's wife is embarrassed to fear the answer is wrong.

"Wah .. This is very true, thank you Ms. Walsall. Because we told our partner who was here. " The wife of Agam Ariaja nods a smile towards the wife of Agam Ariaja.

"All right, let's talk a little bit about this. TKSPS is also one way to be a good wife in Islam. For wives, do not be ashamed to start first and conduct assertive behavior honestly. Without offending each other, for example with sentences. 'I love you' that most women are ashamed to start, right?"

"NO!!!"

"I mean no wrong Mothers. " The Ustazah laughed.

"Okey Mothers, I only have thirty minutes, then we continue. PPKS show attention to husband— Husband works every day, making money, to meet the needs must be very tiring. Husbands rarely show their fatigue. Because he understood very well that his wife was also very tired. Even so, give appreciation. Of course it's very important. Appreciate saying 'Thank you my husband' or giving a light massage on the shoulder. Little jal like that, can make ..happy husband happy."

"The last one, actually there are still many but the time is short again ashar so I'm short. Maybe next time, well this last one, enjoy some intimacy together. Undeniably, **** is a necessity when married ..in the marriage bond, **** is considered a good deed in Islam."

"Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gives full blessing .. when doing so, it is necessary to remember that ..sexual activism is not solely for happiness and enjoyment ...this is also an act of worship bringing many rewards from Allah SWT!"

"Where is the question, but there is still time. " The Ustazah asked.

"My body wants to ask." One of the people who asked.

"Good."

"What is the sin of a wife refusing intimate relations with her husband?" ask the guy.

"Well, I think fifty percent of the mothers who are here almost know ..then for the uninitiated we can learn. Fan for those who know can add more knowledge. Bismillah! Rasulullah. 'If a husband takes his wife to his bed (to be listened to) then the wife does not meet his invitation, then the husband sleeps in a state of anger against his wife then the angel cursed the wife until dawn' (HR Al-Bukhari no 3237 and Muslim no 1436) Hayo here if anyone still does that, do not do it again. " The Ustazah answers the question.

The light that heard that his body shook. Because she can't be a good wife. His originally carefree face became sad.

"There's another hadith Mothers. 'If a woman sleeps leaving her husband's bed (i.e., not accompanying her husband) then the angel accuses her until morning' (HR Muslim no 1436). In other narrations 'the angel accuses her until she returns (to her husband)' But the first mothers mean of this hadith is the wronged woman if she refuses without udzur syari, not merely refusing to be cursed by angels. Between udzur syari."

"There's another question? if it's not there, then I'll close it, because three more minutes into the ashar prayer." The Ustazah looked at the clock that was coiling in his hand.

"None of them? One more thing I want to say, the hadith of the Prophet who advised his daughter Siti Fatimah, that a wife who took the initiative to have sex with her husband will be given a great reward by Allah SWT."

"Hadith the Prophet, one of them in Adabun Nisa juz 1 page 292, namely: 'When a wife kisses her husband sincerely then she is like khatam 12 times. Not only that, but Allah records every verse as 50 good things. And every wife's kiss will be made a kingdom in heaven'"

"One of the companions asked the Prophet Shallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. 'Yes Allah's Messenger (o Prophet), those who are rich in merit will certainly exceed us, he fasts, hajj, and also hajj and they have the privilege to give alms. How are we poor?' The Prophet answered the questions of the Companions.

'Has not Allah made what you do gain reward. Each prayer bequest is alms-value and in ********you are also alms' Well we end this study by saying Alhamdulillah."

"Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wb. All the attention of the audience in hearing my speech is an award and I say thank you, maybe I feel enough, he said, what I say more or less I apologize Billiahi Taufik Walhidayah Wassalamu'alaikum Wr. Wg."

"Waalaikumsalam Warahmatullahi Westarakatuh." Everyone there answered.

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