Mystery of Love

Qobiltu

After I sat in the chair waiting for the bride and groom and greeted the guests who always adored me. They say I'm pretty and manglingi. Either it's honest from the heart or it's just the iron.

I asked the fairy to help her put a string of jasmine necklace into her neck Cak Im when she came because she told me not to wear it. But I insisted on ordering it and would make sure that she would wear it even with a little coercion and deception because I wanted to see her wearing a jasmine necklace in our wedding photos.

The living room has been called kambal and there has been attended by close family. Uncle, pakde and cousins as witnesses, Wak Mudin, pak penghulu and also my father. I then went to the living room accompanied by my bud because the marriage contract would be implemented soon.

My husband-to-be was asked a few questions by pak Penghulu. The dowry is debt or paid in cash, the contract uses what language etc. The pengghulu also asked him

"jek Joko tir a iki?" (Isn't this a step-finder still?)

"Thor" replied Cak Im and successfully made pak penghulu and the people there laughed for a moment between the sacred and tense atmosphere.

Then Cak Im was told to read a taklik sighat or vow if he left me or did not support me born and inner for three months then fell already talak one.

After Cak Im then replace me who was given some questions also to ascertain whether this marriage is because of forced or with sincerity of my own heart, how old I am, ask how much dowry and some other questions.

Pak Penghulu then asked my father, Will marriage itself or will be represented?

"Kulo deputy dateng genengan mawon" (I represent to pak pengulu only) my father told pak penghulu.

After we all read the shahadain then pak pengulu shook my future husband's hand and said the ijab in Arabic

"Ankahtuka wa zawwajtuka bi Qurrotul ainii bil mahri sab atu miati Alfi rubiyyatin ha.lan"

I heard carefully with my chest pounding. From the end of my eyes I could see him closing his eyes while answering, I could see,

"Qobiltu nikahaha wa tazwijaha bil mahril madzkur......!!!!"

"How are the witnesses?"

"legitimate... legitimate...."

Then the ruler prayed and we all guaranteed together.

After that we were asked to sign the necessary files KUA then told to shake hands.

I kissed my husband's hand with a fast beating heart because it was my first experience kissing the hand of a man who wasn't my mahrom. With both hands I clasped his hands tightly. I used my knees to stand on my feet and kissed her hands long enough because I read Al-Qodr's letter eleven times as Zain ordered when he first shook hands with his husband. While my husband put his palm on my forehead while reading a prayer.

People then stand while reading sholawat badar when they see our position like that for a long time.

I pray for the blessing of our marriage until the end, until it is resurrected and hopefully together until it reaches heaven later.

Like Fatoni said a few days ago when I called him to the school office to ask for my blessing because I was getting married. Then he prayed

Barokallahu laka wabaroka alaika wajama'a bainakuma Fi Khoir

Now my responsibilities are completely transferred from my father to my husband.

if yesterday I regretted it is still sinful but now it is halal and fair

I am now officially Lady Imron Rosadi.

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My husband ... when you say qobiltu I also close my eyes and absorb the meaning.

Then Arsy shook when he heard you take an oath before Your Lord to justify me.

The oath which is equal to the oath of the prophets and the oath which is equivalent to the oath of Moses with the Children of Israel with which he raised the hill of Tursina.

The vow is mentioned only three times in the Qur'an as mitsaqon gholidzo.