
"But mother, if they are not warned, they will speak at will and accuse father and mother as they please. Then who else will rebuke the mouths of those who do not face us if not us"
Sarah tries to protest and thrash, but Mr. Soko holds her arm even stronger.
"We don't need to prove whether we are good or we are bad as they accuse Sarah. Let them be satisfied with their opinions. Without us to reprimand them, they are actually their own losses. People who are too busy taking care of other people's lives or households usually forget to take care of themselves and their families. We who they despise, they shake already at the top level, those who are busy taking care of our lives are just at that level.
We do not have to prove to humans that we are what they think we are or not. We just need to prove before God that we are not what people accuse us of. You understand what Dad means"
Sarah's starting to calm down, she's not rebelling anymore. His father's advice was right, why to rebuke them the gossip. In addition to making a row if they do not accept, also not necessarily they realize their mistakes, so it is useless to serve such humans think Sarah.
"Congratulations Jeng Luna on the marriage of her daughter, may Jeng Luna quickly become Oma," said Reni's mother when she greeted Besan bu Asih. Mrs Luna is a socialite friend of Reni's mother when she was not married to Mr. Soko. At that time, Reni's mother was still keeping her distance and did not want to hang out with people who were not at her level.
For Mother Reni, when someone hangs out and interacts, there is an exchange of energy. If our condition is in a state of happiness or positive energy and we associate with people who are in trouble or distress and he or she has negative energy then they interact with chatting or sharing, then our positive energy will be mixed. If the negative energy is so strong that it affects our positive energy then our energy will also be negative.
During this time Mother Reni means people who have problems or distress and are not happy are people who are below their level or poor. Mother Reni assumes that treasure is a source of happiness so that people who do not have the treasure of life are not happy or suffering, in the mind of mother Reni.
That's what makes Reni mother reluctant to hang out with the poor or difficult version of Reni's mother. In fact, not all rich people are happy and always happy. While the poor or difficult people are not necessarily unhappy or suffering heart.
After Reni has approved the relationship
Sekar and Gilang then hang out with Mr. Hadi, bu Asih, Leni's grandmother and other Cipaganti residents. Only then did he realize that many people are poor in wealth but rich in heart, meaning that his life is always happy because they are always grateful for the little treasure. So that whatever treasure his life has is always peaceful and peaceful.
"Thank you, Mother Reni, for being present at my daughter's wedding, long time we did not meet and talk. Now the mother never again joined the same socialite friends we. But if I see Reni's mother looks more fresh and happy, yes" said Reni's mother.
Mother Reni then introduced her husband Soko sir to the lady Luna and her husband. Madam Luna was more and more amazed by the style of Mother Reni at this time. He wanted to follow in the footsteps of Reni's mother with a simple lifestyle, not as sloppy as his friends. Mrs Luna also wanted to leave the world behind the socialites to focus on making her husband happy and increasing worship to God.
"Thank you besan, already want to come, even though the distance of the city of Kedesa is far away. How healthy is it. Oh yes Sarah do not be sad again yes, always make your mother happy so that your mother is always healthy," said Asih mother when Reni mother and her family approached the Asih mom and her husband sat down.
"Yes, I'm both Besan"
They shake hands with each other, as well as Sarah, Eve and Pak Soko. Then they descend from the pelaminan towards the eating-food area. Look Ivory, Sitah, Gilang kinship and also Leni's grandmother. Reni's mother's family also greet them one by one and then join in enjoying the dish while chatting lightly and occasionally they joke.
Time passed, all the villagers of Cipaganti have attended Guntur wedding reception. Bu Asih and Mr. Hadi feel very grateful because the event went smoothly.
Two weeks later, the change at home Miss Tarni looks so crowded. Residents flocked to help Ms. Tarni prepare for the wedding and all the Ivory and Sitah receptions.
"Why the budget funds for your show and Ivory really small, so the show is so simple like this Sitah. Though you will know that Ivory works in a bona fide company and you too. Especially if you ask Gilang for help to ask for additional funds for the reception. So that your party can be more festive, let all the citizens of Cipaganti admire you Sitah, so the degree of our family increased son," tarni said when they were in the room dividing the budget for the wedding reception of Sitah and Gading.
"It's my decision and Ivory ma'am. Actually Ivory mas savings a lot, but he gave a choice to Sitah. Choose a simple party but we can buy a house to stay, after we get married and buy a car, or choose to hold a massive party but after marriage we live contracted and have nothing. So yes Sitah choose the show is simple. The important thing is we can stay home alone and have a car to transport us.
"Mas Gading wants to hold a wedding with his own hard work. She's ashamed mom if you have to ask for help with Gilang. There has been a lot of help given to Gading, if he continues to ask for help to Mas Gilang, it is the same as not knowing yourself"
Sitah continued to give advice to his mother so that she understood how Ivory and Sitah were doing.
While in the kitchen, the mothers make various dishes and cakes, in the guest room there are busy making decorations for decoration and underwriting. While in the front yard and side the fathers were busy setting up tents.
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