My Little Woman's

Falling in Love at First Look

Many people out there do not believe in love at first sight because they assume that love at first sight seems cliche or just fabricated. They always assume that falling in love at first sight is simply because there is a physical attraction. Maybe they think how maybe in just a few seconds, he can say that he has fallen in love with someone he does not know at all.

American psychologist Linda Blair says that love at first sight is more lust at first sight because the first thing the eye sees is appearance or appearance. So, it could be the actual physical attraction that arises. Blair also said that true love takes longer to grow. It takes time to determine whether it is love or just being physically attracted.

I personally didn't believe in falling in love at first sight but ever since I met him, I've felt so happy when I saw him and I've also felt an irregular heartbeat. Somehow I felt so sure that he was my soul mate, he was my soul mate. Although I just met but I feel I know him for a very long time maybe because half of me like being attracted towards him like a magnet.

The philosopher Plato once argued that when our souls descend from heaven to earth, they are divided so that the first encounter with a soulmate becomes a kind of reunion. However, the metaphysical explanation expressed by Plato cannot be used as a reference.

However, we do still need direct relationships and interactions to determine whether it is really our soulmate or not. Therefore, we have to admit that in fact we do not really love him at first sight. There must be a well-established relationship to love someone because love does not come automatically. Bertrand Russell, a great philosopher of the world stated that you must recognize directly before you love him, this term is called “knowledge by acquisition”.

Even though I have fallen in love with him does not mean I can immediately get close to him or caper (look for attention), flirtatious like a girl on the outside there, pretentious or steal a look. I did meet him by accident, our eyes met in a matter of seconds but I immediately lowered my gaze because I couldn't possibly stare at him for too long. He is not lawful to me and I should not stare at him unless there are important things that require me to look at him.

I do admire him even this has been said I love and love him very much but I will not show my love to him, I will behave like any other. No one knows what I feel except myself and God who will always know my heart.

Every time I pray, I always say his name hoping God will unite me and him. Yes, I know that the soul mate, soul mate, and death of someone has been arranged but it is not wrong if I often mention his name when I finish praying. I want to ask God that he immediately justify me and make me the only wife in the world and in the hereafter.