Mother's Love All the Time

happy day

right in front of the fence of my yard, pak bima was waiting for me.from the balcony above my house, I saw a bima sir wearing a suit of ashes.in my heart muttered"I know this heart is happy to see him, I know,but the wound of losing my daughter is still in the depths of my heart.

"where is it??we will choose a wedding dress to prepare for our happy day later"gung pak bima to me".has been two months nia left me.when this happy moment is also in later by her, but also by her,but, honey, everything has changed.

"emmm,ana...what kind of dresses do you like?customary or international theme?ask bima sir?ee...ee...we'll see later sir.sahutku".

right now, Pak Bima knows that my mind must drift everywhere, but he tries to calm down.

In this area there is a good wedding dress designer, later ana can choose the clothes that you like the most, if I must follow all the choices ana"pak bima is indeed a man who can understand the tastes of women."yes..pak I will choose a good one."ana you do not call me father dong!while smiling at me.Call me mas.by ana!exclaim mr bima.emmmm!when we want to be husband and wife you call me father!!hehe...

It's been an hour drive we got to the wedding dress designer place."mas bima met directly with the tailor."happy afternoon sir there's something I can help you with!I'm a sovi, fashion designer here."iya mbak.iya mbak and the future wife want to order a wedding dress".but all the options I leave to ana, my wife's candidate."mas bima has left all the decisions to me. I am free to choose what clothes I like.

Alright mbak"I want a custom Javanese wedding dress".I want to make a simple but elegant kebaya.I don't want a too luxurious the most important fit I wear".how mas bima agree what not"tanyaku.iya ana, I agree."we both also fit the wedding dress and have agreed with the custom of Java.

On the way home"mas bima asked me, after getting married later to live with her in the village."ana later after marriage I want ana to stop working, after marriage,since I think all the responsibility of making a living is the duty of the husband, how?what would ana want?if I tell you to stop working!ask mas bima

Is mom heni really sincere if her son marries me?while until now mas bima still has not told about his mother's blessing.

Arriving at my house"this is a glass of warm tea"I send a glass of tea to mas bima."my brother praja join us in the living room."how did the fitting of his wedding dress sis??what's all smooth?ask praja.

Yes, one month before the wedding day, everything must be prepared.I hope everything is in order."ana just ask for a simple party with traditional Javanese clothes."mas bima explained to the king.we all chat until late at night.

in my quiet room, I just imagined if I stayed one roof with his mother.Will he get along with me?will he fit my cooking?can we be close to being a whole family

If I always remember her words and her sneers to me, this heart hurts.but I always try to be airy chest.as a mother does want the best for her child.

I don't want to fight the parents, however heaven on the soles of the feet of the mother.as bad as she is the mother.

I've had a hard time being a mother, sacrificed all my body souls.now I will embrace that happiness even though I know this struggle is still long.certainly there are still many problems to come,there is never a perfect life in this world.