Married The Second

Aqiqah the twins

Before giving birth to the twins, Farid and Aisyah had been confused looking for the right name for the baby.

However, through the USG process that Aisyah did several times, they already know the gender of her two children, the process of finding a name also makes them disagree which ended in intimacy and laughter. Today they are still confused to give a suitable name for both of their hearts.

"Our mother named our baby girl Zahrana Bilqis huh? Zahra means flower. While Bilqis in Qur’an Surat An-Naml verses 41 and 42 means beautiful. The name means pretty flower. Hope for our daughter to be a beautiful flower, which can give color to our family." said Aisyah still stroking the hair of her baby daughter who is now in her arms

Thank God after a few days he ate a variety of foods that are suitable to increase breast milk production, now he can breastfeed his two twins, she said, sometimes she breastfeeds alternately and sometimes simultaneously with the help of her husband

"Good too, dear, if our son's name is what if we name him Muhammad Abhizar Albirru, which means Muhammad is taken from the name of the Prophet in the hope that later our hero has a personality like the Prophet. Abhizar has a spreading meaning and Alibru means goodness. So that the name contains prayers and hopes that later our children can be children who always spread goodness as well as our Prophet Muhammad SAW." said Farid while staring at the tiny face of his son, who is also a child, both of his eyes looked watery, how happy it was to have a complete family.

"Subhanallah is a very good name mas, hopefully our two children will become shale and sholeh yes mas"

"Getter"

Farid held his son close to his wife, lovingly kissing Aisyah's forehead while holding her little hero

Name is a gift that is pinned for life on the baby. In the teachings of Islam, giving a name to the baby also means giving prayer and hope throughout his life. How do you name a child according to Islam?

Apparently giving the name of the baby can not be just the origin. There are some suggestions according to Sharia, you know.

Not only is his name beautiful as a nickname, the name can also be a companion prayer throughout his life. Therefore, giving a beautiful name with a good meaning is one of the things that are important for both parents

Giving a name with good meaning is important as a prayer to achieve happiness and prosperity in the world to the next. Allah SWT said about the obligation of parents to put a good name for their sons and daughters.

Keep in mind, giving a name to the baby is also one of the obligations of parents to the baby. Especially for a father, giving a name is the responsibility of a father, which is no less important than other duties as a head of the household and a good priest

“Kids have three rights over their father. The first is that they are given a good name. The second, they are given a good education; and lastly, they help them choose a good partner,” (H.R Ibn Najjar). 

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aqiqah was with some orphans from Bu Yati orphanage and also invited all the neighbors of the residential complex where he lived. Not to forget Abi Thalib also invited Kyai from the boarding school near his home in the village. Where is the boarding school that was once the place where Aisyah demanded religious knowledge

The atmosphere of the house is so crowded but soothing, the beautiful sholawat chants of the santriwan and santriwati began to spread throughout the room, very melodious and clear square, really, it makes anyone who hears it seem unbearable to wipe away his tears. The longer the square makes the heart calm and peaceful.

In the sholawat groove, Farid and Abi were walking in the middle of the event, they both carried the twins into the crowd, in the crowd there are only Pak kyai and also the invitations are male. The entire family is preparing for a hair shaving and naming event, led by Kyai's close friend Abi Thalib. Kyai Abdul began to say prayers, after which he carefully cut the hair of the two tiny and adorable twins.

Before naming her twins, Farid handed the kyai a piece of paper, containing the names of her two children

Baby girl name :

Azizah Zahrana Bilqis

When she was about to pin a name to her baby daughter, Farid remembered the last request of the late Azizah when she would meet her death, if Aisyah gave birth to a daughter she wanted her name pinned to her baby.

Alhamdulillah twins born with different sex, so in accordance with his promise, he and Aisyah agreed to include the name Azizah in the first name of her daughter.

For baby names :

Muhammad Abhizar Albirru

The name of Farid's gift, in accordance with the meaning of happiness of a name they gave, may one day his two sons always be in the direction of the Prophet.

Mr. Kyai loudly pronounces both the names of the babies in front of the invited guests and also the santriwan and santriwati, after the completion of the naming event ended with a solemn prayer and added the sholawat that returned they all said.

Truly enjoying the gratitude that God has given is one form of his love for Rasullullah, the families also distribute all cooked goat meat offered to invited guests, not to forget Farid also distributed alms money to orphans and people in need. All invited guests also get souvernir aqiqah in the form of prayer equipment from starting sarongs and skullcaps for male guests, souvenirs of Mukena and veils for female guests. And for children in addition to getting souvernir prayer equipment, they also get snacks, toys, and also a thick towel bearing the name of the twins.