Married The Second

Birth of twins

"Ah.. pain doctor... Uh..uh.. it feels like to push yourself doc." cried Aisyah still in her position, both her hands gripped the mosquito net on both sides of her hand

Two doctors and two nurses examined him, one of the doctors giving a cue to prepare for his birth now.

The obstetrician asked Aisyah to stretch her body with both legs up and her chin attached to the chest

"Pull your breath deeply, throw it slowly and then push" the doctor's instructions

Farid helped hold his wife's head toward the chest in a half-sitting position. Then Aisyah held both her thighs very tightly while practicing the instructions from the doctor.

Aisyah endured the pain, she began to take long breaths, as hard as she could push, and finally

"Oe..uk..." 

The sound of crying baby boy and baby girl makes a break in the maternity room. Aisyah's body immediately limp, Farid was also weak again, Farid hugged his wife and kissed his wife's hand, he felt proud of his wife, it turned out this is the process of women giving birth to their babies, it's not easy, so many struggles, in seconds, minutes and hours, mean so much to him.

As a husband he witnessed a wife who struggled between life and death, fighting for a life worth fighting for. Really being a mother is a noble process, the great struggle is finally paid for by the existence of her newborn twins to the world safely.

Umi seemed to shed her tears, tears of happiness, she also unceasingly gave thanks to the divine, God has given His help.

"Welcome your twins are born healthy and normal, the baby boy is handsome, weighs 3.3 kilograms and is 50cm long. The female is also beautiful, weighing 2.9 kilograms with a length of 49cm. Congratulations sir, mother, congratulations on the birth of her twins" The two doctors held her twins, and placed them on her chest.

"Thank you doc" replied Aisyah and Farid.

Aisyah took the initiative to provide exclusive breast milk to her baby, but at that time her breasts were not able to remove breast milk.

"I want to breastfeed my baby" said Aisyah Lirih, her hands still hugging the twins who lay on their stomachs, Farid seemed to help her hold the twins who were still covered in cloth.

"No papa mother, we take the twins to the baby's room first yes, later after 6 hours then we try again to breastfeed the twins" explained the doctor with his straightforward language, the two doctors carried the twins and placed them in an incubator train, apparently hinting at the nurse to push the incubator train outside the delivery room.

Umi stood beside Aisyah, she kissed Aisyah's forehead while accompanying Aisyah in the cleaning process, while Farid, she came to the nursery with the two nurses. As a father, he could not wait to accuse his twins

It is said that the adhan is used on the ears of the baby when he is newborn, both male and female, and the adhan uses the lafadz adzan prayer. A group of our friends said, 'Destroy the right ear of the baby and observe the left ear, as the iqamat for prayer.

After the two babies were finished, Farid rushed back to the delivery room to accompany his wife

Inside the maternity room one of the doctors helped clean the blood stains in the area of his lower body, seen other doctors who were assisted by the two nurses were finished in their duties. Upon completion of all the nurses pushed Aisyah's bed to be moved to a special care VIP room.

Six hours later, two nurses arrived in a baby carriage. The twins have come, Aisyah is sitting on the side of the bed, she wants to try breastfeeding the twins again, but again her ASI has not come out, she cried to see the baby girl who was crying because she could not drink her breast milk.

"Not come out Umi" Aisyah looked at her mother's bead, she could not hold back her tears

"Patience son, we give formula milk first, later after your ASI comes out you can breastfeed the twins" said Umi while carrying her grandson.

Farid holds her baby daughter from Aisyah's hands, and a nurse gives them formula, Farid and Umi help feed the cute and cute twins a bottle of milk

"Welcome Is, you have given birth to cute twins, may you all be given health and always in the protection of God, oh yes here Umi I also want to carry the twins." said Fina approached Umi who was holding her niece who is male

"I also want to see Dede baby darling" said Hamid also approached to see his handsome nephew, then they both approached Farid who carried the beautiful. Fina kissed the beautiful cheek, and so did Hamid

"Hopefully we get infected quickly dear" said Hamid again, he was also impatient to wait for the good news of his wife's pregnancy

"Amin ya rabbal allamin" everyone guaranteed him

After a few minutes later Abi Talib came, he immediately hugged his daughter, whispered his tips, his eyes looked watery, unable to stem his tears of joy. 

Abi Thalib looked to remove the clear strands from his two eyes, he then shifted back to look at his grandchildren. With tenderness he kissed the twins in turn.

It is truly the joy of God that is second to none, having two cute twin babies, everyone also feels the happiness they feel. May both babies always be protected by Allah SWT

“Yes Allah, make him (baby) a good, pious, and intelligent person. Grow it in Islam with good growth.” Abi Talib offered prayers for his twin grandchildren

All the families seemed happy with the birth of the twins, especially Farid and Aisyah, who had now become new parents, their dream of building a complete household finally materialized as well

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As a mother who struggles to give life to her children, especially when trying to bring a baby into the world. The struggle is full of challenges while making you proud to be a perfect woman.

So deep and noble is the meaning of a Mother, with their great service, then came the expression “*sorga** is on the soles of the feet of mother”, then, which means anyone who does not bow down and respect the figure named IBU, then they will not get happiness in the world or in the hereafter. Mother is the one who loves us the most in this world. His sacrifice for us is incredible. No matter how much sacrifice we make for her, there is no comparison with the sacrifice of a mother to her child.

Mother is where we lean when we fall into this life. But sometimes when we get happiness, we forget to share it with mom. Though from a mother's do'a we are given the gift of happiness by God. Even the ustadz say, that the blessing/ridho of God depends on the blessing of parents, especially the blessing of the mother.