Married The Second

Procession to khitbah

That night in the room of the boarding house Aisyah could not start her sleep, her heart was restless, she was still thinking about her ta'aruf with Farid, will reap the results that ma'ruf up to the khitbah (Invigoration)

She saw the reflection of her face in the mirror, in the middle of the night she opened her veil and then she combed her long hair. Then tie it back up.

From the reflection of the mirror, he realized that he who has so many flaws should be grateful that there is a man who really sincerely loves him.

Moreover, Abi and Umi also support their ta'aruf relationship. Actually the decision was entirely in Aisyah's hands, all the family parties both had also approved them both.

After pondering for a while, in silence he found the answer to his concern. His hand grabbed his phone on his mattress, he opened the green app on his phone.

With mixed feelings he dared himself to send a message to Farid, he knew the time had shown midnight, maybe Farid had rested. But Aisyah could not wait until tomorrow, as she feared her decision could change again.

"Mas Farid's... I choose you, may you be a good priest for me and our children"

After sending that message, Aisyah's heart was completely calm. He believes Farid can make himself happy, he also believes that the feeling of love will surely come over time.

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Patience is sweet.

That word is suitable for the struggle Farid pursue love Aisyah.

Her feelings mixed happily as she read the message from Aisyah. A taste that cannot be described with words. So happy he jumped like a child who won in a game.

"Yeah... Praise be to Allah... You finally granted my prayer.

Alhamdulillahot... Thank goodness...!"

With unrelenting excitement Farid stopped expressing his gratitude.

From outside the door Fina heard her brother's scream

"Sister... What the hell is it, brother?" Fina asked from behind her sister's slightly open door

"Aisha Fin... Aisyah... He accepted my proposal" Farid explained with a twinkle of happiness on his handsome face.

"What's really big brother? Akh kak Farid must be joking" apparently Fina is still in doubt with his brother's words, for him this can not be trusted because he knows very well that Aisyah has not been able to move on from Anwar

"Not Fin... Take a look at this, this is a message from Aisyah" said Farid reassured her sister by showing her phone screen.

Fina read the writing carefully, she still could not believe it, then she repeated it three times, the last time she saw a photo of Aisyah from the top left corner on Farid's phone screen

"Yes... Congratulations sister, my most handsome brother finally got married too" with the glee of Fina jumping into her brother's body, he hugged her brother's nape violently.

"Damn... It's heavy Fin, your body is so fat" said Farid mocked his sister, but his hands instead hugged his sister happily. They seem to share their happiness with each other

Fina slumped from her brother's body

"Finally Farid's brother did as well, I think brother would win the award of rich man but weathered bujang.... Hahaha" Fina replied to her brother's taunts

"I will definitely miss my sister, after my sister is married, of course, sister will not have time to ngomelin me, pay attention to me again" from the look of happiness was tucked away also sadness to release her brother.

"Aisyah is unlikely to let her sister-in-law grieve, you should be grateful, added one more person who will be chatty with you" 

"Yes, too, sister, Aisyah is a very kind, gentle and caring woman. Surely fun... From best friend to sister-in-law... Huh can't wait to carry a nephew" said Fina carried away with her dreams

"Amen... Amens... Just pray after marriage we quickly have a momongan"

"Yes definitely dong sak"

For the presence of the baby, Farid passed it on to the divine. I do not want to demand Aisha, because it is the will of the creator. Although he later did not have children as Anwar feared. He will be sincere, as long as he can age with the woman he loves.

We as his people can only pray and try, God will grant our prayers that we often pray. Moreover, we want to take the time to pray tahajud, insyaallah our prayers will be granted by Him. 

Moreover, the sickened sunna prayer also has many benefits that multiply. 

***May we all always be in his protection... Amin***

Married is the sunnah of the Prophet of SAW which is highly recommended for his people. By getting married, it is as if the religion of a Muslim and a Muslim woman is perfect.

The process to the sermon must be maintained interaction and communication. If you open communication, talk as needed only. And better yet, there are people who are poured into mediating those who want to get married.

In this case Farid asked for help from the leading clerics in his city. In accordance with that, he along with Fina and also from his family also participated in his application event. All the offerings he has fulfilled according to customs and traditions in the village of Aisyah.

All the family members before leaving for Aisyah village, they were all invited to pray first. Because of all actions, work in Islam must be started by praying that later brings blessings to himself and others.

"Allah is the All-Destined One, and I am not the Destiny One. And You are Knowing what I do not know. You are Knowing the unseen. So if you see the goodness between me and Aisha for my religion and my afterlife, then do not make me with her." The prayer Farid prayed before leaving to propose to Aisyah.

All the family members were ready to leave, there were about three cars driving the show, the whole car was filled with family, children and close friends Farid. 

The trip took all day, in fact Farid planned to come using a private plane. But Aisha forbade it. He wants the sermon procession to be carried out as simply as possible. She did not want the process to be too flashy in her village, because she did not want some residents to know her future husband was a rich and respected person.