MARRIED DUREN ANSA

MARRIED DUREN ANSA
A Devoted Child



"Mother doesn't want you to marry a widow. Even if you're a widower with one child, but you're still young, you can still get a virgin!" said Ms. Warni when they were in the dorm.


"Ary is a virgin too, Mom!" answer Agam.


"Where do you know she's a virgin? Have you tried it?! Not yet?!" ask Miss Warni.


"Mom can't believe there's a widow who's a virgin! Don't lie to mom, if you just want to get blessing from mom. I don't want to have a widow's daughter-in-law. Point!" continue ms. Warni.


"Why Ma'am?" ask Agam.


"Because your mother and father-in-law have prepared a future wife for you" replied Ms. Warni.


"What?!" Agam was surprised to hear the reason his mother did not approve him if applying for Ary.


"Mother can't be so dong, as alone! Glamour is an adult, mother! Agam has been able to determine the best for himself and his family" said Agam while pushing his hair back.


Agam's emotions have reached their peak. He always obeyed his mother's wishes. Agam just wanted to make his choice, without meddling with his mother.


"Mom hope you can be a dutiful child. Don't be rude to you to your mother! Only you can fulfill your mother's wishes. You're the only child of the mother, there's no way the mother would ask anyone else to realize the mother's wishes." Mum Warni moved on from her seat.


Ms. Warni held Fani to bed, because it was time to take a nap. Every angry lady always leaves Agam alone. Because he could not survive if Agam persuaded him continuously.


Only by leaving Agam alone will Warni retain her will. Actually Miss Warni really loves her son, only she was too afraid to lose Agam. Bu Warni is afraid that if Agam later married a person who is not his choice, Agam will prefer his wife compared to his mother.


Miss Warni does not want to lose her only treasure, Agam. By choosing Agam wife, Miss Warni hopes Agam and his wife will not abandon him. Bu Warni is afraid, Agam will be controlled by his wife so that she forgets her mother. Letting her mother age alone.


Actually, Warni's fear is not a taboo anymore. All parents must be afraid if the parents later their children leave him alone without friends. The natural fear that is commonly felt by parents.


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I started thinking about her mother's words. Just now that she was about to find her preferred heart patch, the mother had already chosen a soul mate for her. Agam actually wanted to oppose his mother, but he did not want to be labeled as an unfilial child.


That afternoon was sitting under a mango tree in the courtyard of the codim. Rival and Joseph share a story.


"Where, Ndan? Already shot yet, don't be late aiming?!" joseph asked Agam.


"What is to be targeted? Weapons alone don't exist." replied Agam limp.


"Don't give up yet, not yet the war has lost its spirit!'' said Rival.


"Nyokap has the red light on!" replied Agam while smiling wryly.


"Red lights can still be broken through if the streets are deserted! Forward terooosss!" joseph said he encouraged Agam.


"If you go through a red light, there's a violation of the rules. The consequences are complicated! You see PANGDAM JAYA who installed the red light." replied Agam.


"Yahaha...!!!" Rival and Joseph laughed at Agam who was too obedient to his mother.


"Truly a devoted child to parents!" said Rival brandishing his two thumbs while laughing.


"Eitz! Make no mistake even though this is so disobedient, I still love the family! Because family is number one." Rival defended himself.


"These two of you are indeed children of family pride. It's not like I'm always fighting the old man. Because I don't like to be driven by people, who live me so that makes my own choices" said Joseph.


"Yes, who lives this life by himself. But there is no harm in pleasing parents, because it is one form of return. Because we'll never be able to repay all of mom's kindness. Even though we carry mothers around the world, until our feet bleed and pus even." replied Agam while explaining the reason always obey his mother's wishes.


"It's not that I don't want to repay my mother's kindness, it's just that I don't like being forced. Especially until marriage with a woman of choice mama, big no! Getting married is once in a lifetime, so have to be a real fit or not at all." Joseph expressed his opinion.


"Are you saying trisna jalaran saka kulina? Or at least never heard of it." asked Agam shortly after they fell silent.


(Growing love because of habituation)


"Have you heard, but what's the connection?" ask Rival.


"The relationship, there is no harm in following the wishes of parents. At first we had to, but because we are used to it then by itself we will like it." replied Agam.


"What if it's been a while but still can't like it too?" ask Joseph.


"Now I ask you, when your education never grumbled? Because of poor sleep, strenuous exercise in or what you feel during education and training!" ask Agam.


The three of them were silent for a moment considering when they were undergoing initial education to enter the TNI.


"Yes, ever! Very heavy at first, but because it's used to being light." replied Rival enthusiastically.


"So does the life partner! We never know who made us fall in love and made it the last option to dock. Someone we've liked for a long time and we always pray for him, it could just be a story and a memory."


"While it is a stranger or a person we do not expect his presence, instead comes and manages to win our hearts. It breaks our hearts and we give love to it. It is the person who ultimately becomes the most important person in our lives and becomes our soulmate. All because we are used to his presence. Therefore, love grows because it is used to it is true." Agam explained at length.


"That's all if we live life sincerely, everything is lived because it is solely for worship. That's if I think yes!" agam.


"It's a great fit for you to be Mr. Ustadz!" answer Rival.


"You're fit to be a marriage counselor!" chirped Joseph.


"Aseeem!" reply Agam while punching Joseph's arm.


" Finally, that advice is for you. If we choose our own partner. But your advice may be, I'll think about it later." replied Joseph.


"But you know what Agam said. Older people, marry because of arranged marriages but they are happy. While today, many choose their own partner finally divorced" said Rival confirmed the words Agam earlier.


Sorry if it's crisp, less healthy.


Sorry also for being late up, because the floating network arises only.


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