
Because for us Muslims maintain a friendship or a bond is very important as a family rope because we are all children of Adam's grandchildren and followers of the prophet Muhammad the apostle who was sent by God to preach good news to every creature, especially us humans.
When I pesantren I always try not to be separated from the sunna fast which is a fast on Monday Thursday that is often done by Muslims, the reason is because when I fast there is pleasure and inner calmness that is so cool besides that we also follow the habits of the prophet, and the prophet Muhammad also carried out fasting with a certain purpose there is the reason that Monday and Thursday are the times when reported human practices to God by the angels and also the birthday of the prophet Muhammad, so the prophet Muhammad wanted it when the angels reported the prophet's practice, prophet Muhammad or his apostle God wants to be in a state of fasting (saum) because the person who fasts in earnest himself is certainly in a clean state and away from bad deeds. Because if a fasting person does things that are not good then his fast will be in vain and will not get any reward or value from God can even be void and only hold hunger and just thirsty.
Fasting is not only holding back thirst and hunger, but must be able to control yourself from passions or desires that are not good like doing prostitution, or do acts of dzolim or indecent to others, such as berating someone, hurting someone, stealing, lying, dealing with the opposite sex who is not a partner who is prohibited. There are many other things.
Actually in Islam there are many good things that can be used as a guide for people who believe in Allah and his apostle (prophet Muhammad), islam is not a religion that is cruel or famous for its terrorism, it is a good religion that is full of tenderness and affection and love that abounds in its teachings, during the time of the kurais women were treated indecently and made into slaves by the heathen, women were used as tools and slaves to satisfy the men, especially the striped men, but over time when the emergence of the prophet rosul sent by Allah, the prophet Muhammad by bringing the teachings of Islam, slowly women and slaves of the servants of perahaya one by one freed, and, women are treated well, clothed in glory and even God commands men to look after and honor her, marrying her also gives her dowry, even Islam says that heaven is at the feet of the mother. It means the ridho of your parents.Ridho your mother is the ridho of your god is god. If you disobey your mother, Allah will be angry with you.
In the days before the prophet Muhammad was adopted into a rosul a lot of injustice that occurred on this earth, especially the treatment of women, where women are not valued, in one eye, in one eye, debased there is even the story of a king who married women of more than 1000 women, not only that there are different levels of the rich and the poor, people are respected for their glory, he said, because of his possessions and throne, who did not have property and the throne was despised to be treated like a slave.
Everything slowly improved after the prophet Muhammad appeared and was made a rosullullah, when women were made slaves, our prophet, muhammad received a revelation from God, ordering him to tell him that women are a people to be respected, to be treated gently and lovingly, when you want it, you must marry it, give it a dowry and provide a guardian to witness it at the time of the wedding. In fact, there was no such thing as a dowry or guardian who was a witness in a marriage and there is no maximum limit to have or marry only 4 wives. We can see so unfortunately God to us, especially women.
Is that bias?
It is a very precious privilege, you can imagine what it would be if no woman could conceive or bear a child, perhaps the people of this earth will perish in the absence of human birth.
Do you know when women are pregnant there is a very strong inner bond between the mother and the baby candidate, in the period of the nature of the womb, attitude, attitude,the behavior and mental health characteristics of a pregnant mother greatly affect the development of the baby in the womb this can also be a beginning of the formation of baby character, which can also be the beginning of the formation of baby, so the rosulullah recommends to every pregnant woman to do a lot of good activities and also often listen to the holy verse of the Quran, for Allah imparts a miracle and a cure for man in the holy verses of the Qur'an that can make human life better and of course the main point of making human beings good, coexist loving each other, reminding in kindness so that people can live happily in the world and in the hereafter.
Before the birth of Islam on the face of the earth a lot of negative stigma addressed by the West against the teachings of Islam is, that Islam does not respect the position of women, mengasung freedom, Islam, it is unfair to make him a second-class man who is confined to the control of men and lives in humiliation. Muslim women are portrayed as backward and excluded from the dynamics of life without a real role in society. Therefore, they assume, that Islam is the main obstacle to the struggle for gender equality.
Surprisingly, some Muslims who have lost their identity are even influenced by these views. Instead of refuting, they become part of the spreader of their thoughts. Under the campaign of women's emancipation and gender equality, they want the Muslims to give up their values of self-esteem that has been maintained by Islam.