
At home, Mas Ray wants to do a Vaginal Toucher (VT) check but Lisa refuses. She did not want to be examined by her husband. He was also reluctant to rush to the clinic fearing the opening was still a latent phase. Enjoy the wave of love at home. When I really couldn't take it anymore, I went to the clinic.
Lisa made various moves to speed up the opening. Start climbing up and down stairs, walk squatting, or walk by lifting one leg up. Mas Ray with mom and mom accompanied. They always massage Lisa's back every time the contractions come. Reminds Lisa to regulate breathing. Dad and Papa get the job of looking after Arumi.
"Honey, pee anterin," Lisa told Mas Ray who had just entered the room after filling a hot water bag from the kitchen. He was not good to ask for help from mom and dad.
"Why not talk to mom or mom. Pakek waiting for Ray," said mother.
Lisa smile.
"Let's go mas anter," said Mas Ray holding Lisa's hand.
After marriage, Lisa was always grateful to get Mas Ray back. He won't waste it anymore. A handsome husband, patient, and always love him sincerely.
"Mas" call Lisa from the bathroom.
"What's wrong?"
"Come in" said Lisa.
Ray went into the bathroom.
"What is that?" lisa asked to see that her pants had blood.
"Father dong. It's a sign of giving birth."
"Mas VT is. I wonder how many openings."
Ray smiled, "Okay."
Lisa put her body in bed. Her upper thigh hinhga body was covered in a blanket. The right hand holds the mother and the left hand holds the mother.
"Slowly, yes" Lisa told Mas Ray, who was wearing a handscoon.
"Believe in your husband, son" said the mother.
"Believe in bun. But, the doctors said the clinic people if VT like to nyakitin patients."
"Let's go to the clinic if you don't want the VT."
"Well, there's mom and mom, son. Don't be afraid" said my mother.
Lisa clasped the hand of her mother-in-law and her mother, two hours home from the wedding. Contracts are coming more and more often and are long gone.
"Where?" ask Mas Ray as the contractions subside.
"breed. The hunt hurts again" Lisa said.
Ray inserted his index and middle fingers slowly. Lisa screams in pain. Husband ignored. Keep looking for Lisa's cervix.
"Udah opening 3," he said pulled out two fingers.
"Is this sick man still three mas?"
"Do you want to cry, son?" ask mama.
"Have you got that? The more the opening the more pain."
"No way," said Lisa during a contraction.
At 16.00 WIB, Lisa's face was swollen and it was getting harder to control the pain. Every time the contractions came he shed tears. He who used to take a nap today cannot fall asleep. The baby struggles to find a birth canal. He struggles against the pain of the wave of love present.
Ray kept holding his hand. Gave a word of encouragement that Lisa was able to get through this. Mother massaged her legs. Massaging his back. Arumi and her two grandfathers occasionally entered the room to warm her up.
"Go to the clinic now?" mas Ray said, rubbing Lisa's head.
"Everything's in the car, right?" ask Lisa.
"Udah entered papa earlier son," said mama.
"Do you want your own way or your own way?" ask Mas Ray.
"Go alone."
Ray helped her up and led her into the car. Father and mother will come to the clinic even though father will not enter the delivery room. While papa and mama at home accompany Arumi. Her prayers and family support made Lisa strong. The happy news he and his sister Arumi survived is the most beautiful gift at the beginning of this year.
Arriving at the clinic Lisa immediately get initial treatment such as fetal heart rate examination, blood pressure, fetal position, and VT. Be thankful for entering the active phase. Midwife checks Lisa's been opening 6.
"Ahh," cried Lisa felt a strong semkain contraction while tightly grasping her husband's hand.
"Which, don't shout later you run out of energy to push. Breathe out through your mouth" said Mas Ray rubbing Lisa's face full of sweat.
"It's not strong, though" Lisa said.
"The spirit of my son, will soon meet adek," said the mother who rubbed Lisa's back.
Lisa felt pain again. Ray guides his wife to control her breath. Lisa clasped her husband's hand. Not having the heart to catch and so forth.
"Mas penggeden," said Lisa while controlling her breath.
Mas Ray checks on **** *************. "There is no sign of Kala II. Take control first." Sign kala II is usually used to find out a mother is time to give birth or not such as pushing hard, pressure on the anus, the perineum protrudes, and the vulva opens.
"Not strong. Not strong anymore" said Lisa shed tears. The pain is incredible.
"Mother believes Lisa must be strong," said mother.
"Bun sick."
"Understanding you pain. But if you do not feel pain, dedek not born-born who. Hold it first, huh? If you cringe now the birth canal is swollen, the longer it comes out and you feel the pain longer," said Mas Ray rubbed Lisa's tears.
At 18:00 Lisa couldn't stand it anymore. He forced Mas Ray to call a midwife or doctor to check the opening. Mas Ray refused because there was no 4 hours from the previous examination. Conducting internal examinations should only be done once 4 hours, the membranes rupture, or there is a sign of II. But he chose to give up. Squeeze the room bell that connects to the guard room.
"Where's Ray? Complete?" doctor Gina asked who had come to bring her troops.
"But mbak. Check it out. The wife insisted on being examined because it had been menggejan," said Mas Ray.
"Yuk Lisa's mother is stretched out" said Doctor Gina.
"Bent on doc. It hurts," Lisa said, controlling her breathing.
After the contract has subsided. Lisa also changed position from tilted to the left to be supine. Doctor Gina did an internal examination.
"Open 8 mbak. Hold it down first. Don't make it up" said Dr. Gina.
"No need to go back to your room. Afraid that you guys came for a long time when my son already wanted to buljol," said Mas Ray.
"There is a father, Doc" said Midwife Septi laughing.
"His father was his mother's prisoner. Can't help mating," said Mas Ray smiling as he rubbed the already pale Lisa.
"We're waiting for Lisa. Let's get some spirit, huh? Just a little bit more. His cervix is thinning" said Dr. Gina.
Lisa just nodded while feeling the pain that kept coming. The fight of life and death is going through.
"My grayness broke," Lisa said an hour later, feeling the liquid coming out.
Doctor Gina hurriedly checked through the internal examination. "Complete Ray. Frayed Miss Lisa," he said while bringing the device closer. Everyone who will help with the delivery is busy wearing a Personal Protective Equipment (APD).
"Ohh." The desire to be strong is getting stronger.
"Breathe in, exhale through the mouth" said Mas Ray. Lisa followed Mas Ray's direction while moving her body position to be supine.
"So" said Dr. Gina.
Lisa strained to face her stomach in favor of Mas Ray. The upper and lower teeth touch each other. Eyes open. Her hands held her husband and mother.
"hah hah," Lisa exhaled after straining.
"Still on the touch. Keep yuk," said Midwife Chika.
Lisa shook her head.
"Stop the gapapa first," said Mas Ray gave Lisa a drink.
Simply treat the tired feeling of straining by drinking water. The contract came again. "Ahh," cried Lisa. He started to push again.
"Well pinter. Keep going again" said Dr. Gina. Lisa continues to push plus the words of encouragement from her beloved husband makes her increasingly want to take out her baby.
"Let's go. Soon enough to meet us," Mas Ray whispered while wiping off Lisa's sweat.
"His head has appeared on mbak. This is a strong move, right?" doctor Gina said as her contract disappeared.
Lisa nodded. A few moments later the contractions came again. Two midwives helped lift Lisa's legs to the stomach.
"Aaahh," Lisa said as the baby's head made it out. The session officially ended.
"Huh Huh Hah" said Mas Ray helping his wife control her breath. Lisa imitates Mas Ray.
"Ahhh," cried Lisa tight as her baby made it out of her body. The male baby she had been carrying for 40 weeks managed to get out of her stomach at 19:30 WIB.
The sound of her son's crying managed to make Lisa and Mas Ray cry.
Mas Ray kissed Lisa's lips, "Thank you baby."
Mother also kissed Lisa's cheek, "Congratulations son."
Lisa just nodded. His life has not yet fully returned. He still controls his breathing while rubbing his son's head located in his stomach. Remembering the sacrifice of mama must have been as sick as this while giving birth to her. For years he had been reluctant to visit his grave because it was next to his father.