I'm Fragile, Lord

Chapters. 36

Upon arriving at his home, Mr. Adi immediately searches for Talita.

Mr. Adi saw Talita sitting on his bed reading a book.

"Mas, we're home"

"Yes, how are you doing"

"It's better, ma'am"

"Even the bruise is no longer sick" boong Talita.

"Thank God"

Mr. Adi immediately went into the bathroom to clean himself up.

Talita prepared towels and clothes instead.

"Mas, here's the towel. Inside the bathroom there seemed to be no towels" cried Talita from outside the bathroom.

kreet..

The bathroom door opened, and Talita saw Mr. Adi's whole body in pure white.

Deg. deg...

Talita's heart immediately thumped, but for Mr. Adi it was ordinary.

People who suffer from masochism can only stimulate if their partner is hurt.

That's for Mr. Adi, he's as usual.

Another case with Talita, the appearance of Mr. Adi makes him nervous even become misbehaved.

"Where are the towels" slit Mr. Adi.

Mr. Adi's voice made Talita nervous, he immediately handed the towel in Mr. Adi's hand.

"It's Mas"

After that Talita immediately moved away from the bathroom door because she did not want to see the appearance of Mr. Adi who was without a thread.

Talita slowly sat on the sofa room, waiting for Mr. Adi to finish cleaning himself.

Mr. Adi approached Talita and kissed Talita on the forehead.

Talita gasped in shock at Mr. Adi's treatment.

"I'm going to the doctor tomorrow"

"Can I come, mas?"

"But, how about a bruise on your body"

"Hm.. " Talita was a bit hesitant to convey her wish.

Talita was afraid that Mr. Adi would be angry at her request.

"Tell me what you want, if I can obey it I will"

"Allow me.. allow me. hmmm"

"What a darling"

"I want to wear a veil, so that no one sees a bruise on my face"

"Racons?"

"Yes. veil. I don't want them to be prejudiced against you"

"Well, tomorrow you come with me. Wear what you want to wear"

"Can I buy it"

"Here, put this card on"

Mr. Adi took out a black card that was somehow contained.

After exiting his room, Mr. Adi immediately called Setno.

Kringg...

"Hallo boss,"

"Setno, you go to the boutiques in this city, have the game with all the veils, have the shop people bring it home, bring a variety of models, NOW!!"

"Good boss,"

Without waiting for long, employees of famous boutiques have arrived at his home Mr. Adi.

Talita is shocked by Mr. Adi's treatment again.

"Geez, did he buy the entire contents of the boutiques in this city" Batin Talita.

Talita also began to choose the right fit with his body.

"Setno, just settle the payment, okay?"

"Yes Sir"

Talita also began to take out her short clothes in place with a dress shirt.

Everyone noticed the bruise on Talita's body but no one was able to open the sound.

Finally a closet full of gamis to use Talita.

Talita also called Nanny so that clothes that are not used can be distributed to people in need.

Nanny took a short shirt and put it in a sack.

He will share with ART as well as his grandson later.

Talita also handed the black card to the boutique employees.

"It's been paid ma'am,"

"Hey, who paid for it"

"I, keep the card to yourself"

"Thank you, yes" Talita said as she wrestled spoiled in Mr. Adi's arms.

****

Talita is walking beside Mr. Adi.

They made an appointment with Dr. Donny so don't wait in line anymore.

"Assalamu"alaikum Doctor"

"Greetings, please sit down" said Doctor Donny.

"Thank you Doctor"

"Look Doctor, my husband and I would like to consult a doctor about my husband's disorder"

"Please"

"My husband has a disorder, he will not stimulate if it has not hurt his partner, even though I have made something but he can not respond. Unless my husband hurts me then he'll be eager to hook me"

Finally Doctor Donny explained what Mr. Adi was going through.

What Is Masochist?

Masochism is a sexual disorder in which a person will feel satisfied or his passion culminates if hurt or humiliated. The term is named after Chevalier Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, an Austrian who wrote extensively about the satisfaction gained by being beaten and bullied.

Masochists are part of paraphilia, a disorder of paraphilia itself associated with the drive, behavior, and desire to arouse strong sexual arousal through aberrant.

Usually, the perpetrators of this sexual disorder are often associated with sadistic behavior because most sadists are associated with masochism to get mutual sexual satisfaction. The sadist can get satisfaction by hurting his partner while a sufferer can feel satisfied when he is hurt or humiliated.

The most dangerous activity of masochism is hypoxyphilia, where the patient is sexually aroused with reduced oxygen consumption, for example by using meshes, plastic bags, chemicals, or pressure on the chest. This activity rarely leads to death.

Masochistic

The following are some of the symptoms caused by a masochist:

Having repetitive and intense sexual arousal such as being beaten, tied up, humiliated, or from other forms of torture.Having intense and repetitive sexual fantasies, sexual urges, behaviors from acts of humiliation, being beaten, being tied up, or other forms of torture, or made to suffer, such behavior for at least six months.This sexual disorder significantly results in problems in social, occupational, or other important areas of daily life.

Masochistic Causes

There is no universal theory that explains what causes this sexual perversion. However, there are several theories attempting to explain the existence of sexual paraphilia in general.

Here are some theories that may be the cause of masochism:

Traumatizing

According to theories derived from psychoanalysis suggest that childhood trauma such as sexual abuse or significant childhood experiences, can trigger these sexual deviations.

Over time, the experience may indicate a tendency for sexual deviance to indulge in the pain of sexual trauma or abuse.

Escapees

Another theory suggests that sadomasochistic behavior (sexual activity that tortures a partner) is a form of escapism. Through sexual fantasies, you will feel new and different.

Sexual Fantasy

While sexual perversion may initially be due to having illicit sexual fantasies, her passion will become stronger when suppressed. When practicing it, a person in a depressed state will be more aroused. In the case of sexual masochism, masochistic behavior becomes closely related to sexual behavior.

Sexual Violence

Although completely uncertain, having a bad experience of sexual violence can be the cause of someone suffering from masochism. In addition to sexual violence, the experience that triggers it can also be due to physical violence to deep sadness.

Environmental Factors

These sexual disorders can be caused by environmental conditions that affect mindset, behavior, sexual tendencies and lifestyle. This environmental factor can be obtained because of family problems, violence, or other problems that trigger a person to become masochistic.

How Common is Masochistic Disorder?

The prevalence of masochistic disorders is generally unknown. However, an Australian study estimated that about 2.2% of men and 1.3% of women have been engaged in slavery and discipline (BDSM), for at least 12 months.

Those with masochism are at an average age of 19.3 years, although it may also occur at an earlier age. Until now not much is known about this sexual disorder, but over time it is possible that the disorder varies with age and it may decrease with age.

How a Masochist Gets Sexual Satisfaction

Masochistic activities are a preferred or specific way to produce sexual pleasure. Usually, people with this disorder will get sexual satisfaction in the following ways:

Binding yourselfPiercing skinApplying electric shocksBurning yourself

In addition, a masochist will look for a partner who may be sexually sadistic, in the following ways:

Tied UpHolestedEyedclosedShamed with pissing or defecationSimulated rape

How to Overcome Masochism

Treatment of this mental disorder usually involves psychotherapy and medication. The goal is to uncover through the causes of the behaviors that cause stress.

Here are some ways to overcome masochism:

Medicines

Testosterone lowering drugs will be useful to reduce the frequency of erections. In addition, antidepressant drugs can also be given to reduce sexual desire. However, the provision of these medical drugs must be based on the consideration of the doctor.

Psychotherapies

How to overcome the next masochist with psychotherapy that aims to uncover and overcome the causes of masochistic deviant behavior. Psychotherapy is generally in the form of cognitive therapy that includes improvements in mindset disorders and empathy exercises.

Improvement of the mindset disorder in question is therapy to improve patient beliefs that can trigger actions and thoughts that are negative or harmful.

While empathy training is an exercise to help sufferers take the point of view of the victims. This is so that sufferers can understand the potential dangers that can occur.

Masochistic Prevention

Prevention of deviant behavior can begin with children, teaching them to recognize inappropriate adult behavior, how to resist persuasion and dare to report reprehensible behavior to parents.

It is also important to teach children to be assertive to say ‘not’ if any adult is talking or touching it–so it makes them feel uncomfortable.

While the intervention for adults at the breaking point is on exposure to memory of the trauma through discussion of a safe and supportive therapeutic atmosphere"

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