FORCED TO MARRY PARIBAN
Paborhat Boru Part 2
TARA POV
I read Dew sitting down on my left with her body shaking, she was sobbing. Because the rich man or the host invited Nantulang to give his advice.
"Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi. Praise be to chameleon padukkon tu Tuhanta, songoni shalawat salam tu prophet Prophet Allah nadipainte-painte intercessionna in yaumil end on." Say it with a vibrating voice. Also new Mukadimah. But Nantulang was already crying.
"Diama tong dalanna marlugut hita in bagasan bagason. Baen ho rare host. Antong so boti mada host, baen na giot kehe maho rare matobang, manopotkon sitopotonmu. Ho host na danak dope, malo-malo ho mamasukkon self, dohot mambuat roha ni ni namborumu. Hami host mambege naso tupa.
"On pe antong host, tobang rohamu da host. Na lolotan dohot au do ho da host. Tobang rohamu host, malomalo ho mambuat roha ni namborumu dohot koumta sude in your husband's village. On pe malo-malo hamu eda paingotna anso malo society." Nantulang Nur said with a sobbing cry. At that moment, the cry of Dew broke out from earlier held him so as not to make a sound. Hearing her cries, my heart was sad. I know, Dew cried not because she was happy but because she cried because she was forced to marry me.
"Onpe antong bere, malo-malo ho maroban boruku on bere marmasungan dohot maragama. Repeated forget sumbang. Dison tarpayak dijolomu piramanuk na dihobolan, songoni salin-salinmu tu rango, songoni plate handler dohot lage, anso malo ho host manduruk koum.
"On pe antong bere, u pasahat ma di ho on bere. On pe antong bere, goar na do on na madung sikolah but anggo rohana na danakan do on. On pe antong host, adong indon natarpayak dijolo mu on, indahan tukkap, young na dao tondi mu host salama na on, mulak ma tondi tu body. Songoni ma indon adong indon pira manuk si tolu tolu, songoni muse adong indon cyan au dohot bone dohot udamu indahan pasae robu.
"On pe antong host tobang rohamu, rare maho tu kampung ni your husband. Onpe host anggo mukatahon on, tada then my spirit be, baen dison do raja, songoni namoramora, halahi do ma pasahat on tu tondi dohot your body, saima sahat ni hata cyan au. Dohot salam, wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh." Say it with a sobbing cry. Nantulang Mangandung (Wearing words).
Meaning: Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh. Praise our gratitude to Allah SWT. And greetings to the Prophet of Allah which we hope for his intercession in the final Yaumil.
"It is our purpose to gather in this house. Because you're my daughter's having a wedding today. My daughter is good at you entering yourself and taking your in-laws heart. You're still like a kid. Don't we hear your attitude that shames our family. Mature you're my daughter.Maybe you my daughter took the heart of your in-laws and all our brothers in your husband's village.
"So also for my good, cleverly you teach my daughter to be able to socialize...!"
"Your head Bere Tara I put my daughter in. His name is already school, but the thought is still of these children Bere Tara. Cleverly guide him.
My heart trembled at Nantulang's advice. I was scared, anxious and worried. All the words Nantulang said were full of great meaning and responsibility. This marriage is just a covenant.
For a moment I realized, I should not listen to the desire of Dewun who forced want to be with Ardhi. I should have been firm from the beginning that He would only marry me But, if I hadn't followed what he wanted. He's gonna hate me more.
Oh God, I really don't want to play this wedding. Give me a way out, O God.
I rubbed my face that felt crumpled
My mind is full of guilt and fear. Until I was not aware that the advice from the kahanggi was finished and will be continued by the boru child.
Boru Children. This group consists of the host boru and the amang boru of the bride. After salawat and salawat, respect for indigenous figures.
“Hopefully happy marriage munu become sakinah family, mawaddah wa rohmah. Malo-malo ho maen mamasukkon herself in bagas ni koum taan. Unang bonggal in moranta dison tilako daohot ugliness mu da maen. Tubuan lak-lak you nian tubuan sikkoru. Tubuan your son was a waste. Laklak gincat pittu, sikkoru digolom-golom, maranak kamu sappulu pitu, marboru sappulu onom. Young sisuan fur do natubu, baen mai jagar-jagar tu mora. Young sisuan pandan do natubu part nami mai san anak boru.”
"Onpe, salumpat saindege ma hamu, sahata saoloaan, Songon siala rap sampagul tuginjang rap tu toru, young malamun saulak ago, young madabu rap margulu. Baen dison dope mora-ni mora songoni Hatobangon dohot King, halaima na pasahat on tu tondi dohot munu body, botima.”
It means: Congratulations and become a family of sakinah, mawaddah wa rohmah, cleverly insert yourself into the family of your husband there. Do not let the news sound bad to hear because of your ugliness there. May you quickly get many offspring. 17 Men and 16 women. If born later we will match the boy with bone strength. If a girl is born, she will be the soul mate of her daughter. Therefore you must be seia seia seata, like siala sampagul, compact and united, both in getting happiness and in distress. Thus my message may be added mora-ni mora, hatobangon and kings.) End with greetings.
The advice from this young boy tickled my heart a little. We are praying to have many children. Eeemmm... How to have a lot of children, touched just can not.
Yes, fate, having a wife can not be in anything.
Now is the time for His Majesty's bones to give advice.
I took a deep breath and breathed it heavy. Began to feel guilty and burdened with the advice that His Majesty's Bones will say, because I feel I will not be able to fulfill it.
My lyrics are His Bone which still holds the microphone. From his face was happiness, even though his eyes were glazed.
"Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi. Parjolo hita pudjikon praise dohot thankfulness to Allah. Maradu tu hatobangon, harajaon, songoni alim ulama na ro in bagasan on. Ima di manyogot ni ari on ima di haroro munu, hamu sude sarongan, hami welcome do dohot sajegesna. Then hamu antong in son, hamed hamu in hami imana siobanon munu, silua.
"Mangiut rasoki ni hatobangon do do not harajaon. Adong pe in potang ni ari on, ma dipajuguk do hamu in the first. Indigenous ni ompunta sian na jolo, baen ho na giot langkama, manaccording custom angkon dipatobang ma sude pangalaho. On pe host, madung adong na tarpayak in jolo munu ima rasoki, mambutongi hamu manganese. Tarimo tondi dohot munu on host. On ma da host, ni godang ni roha sign. Dungi antong host, na giot kehe ma hamu rare matobang tu kampung marancar mandapotkon namborumu.
"Dungi bere, na tarpayak in jolo munu on, ditarimo tondi dohot munu on body, hopefully blessed God namu on marriage, marrasoki-rasoki hamu on dung then hamu in pangarantoan. Dungi host, chop your spirit, boto maho this commandment of God. Boto maho sanga aha hukanna sanga aha, nangge songon bujing-bujing be ho, howong your spirit tu your name. Tu babere nagiot oban on mu ma boru nami on, howlong your spirit tu boru nami on. Especially na giot oban on mu tu pangarantoan. Rap marsiholongholongan.
"Dison tarpayak in jolomu, pira manuk na dihobolan, anso hobol tondi dohot your body na marjuang mambina your household. Songoni abit salin-salinmu tu pango, dohot dish, anso malo ho host marusaho, dohot manduruk and koum sisolkot. Dungi host, repeat ho forgot sude in hata ni koum ta i. Tarsaima hata sian. Dohot salam, wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh." Said Bones, He also wiped his face with his handkerchief on the rogoh from his pants pocket.
All the advice given is almost the same. Only, Bones Baginda prayed that we would be given abundant SUSTENANCE overseas.
I know, Bones deliberately said that because indeed, after marriage we will not live in the village.
Dew still wept in a lowered state, not even a little He turned to the right or left. I feel guilty for him. Even his cries grew even more sober as His Bone gave his advice.
After Bones Baginda gave advice, continued again by Kahanggi, Boru, Mora, all his advice is almost the same point, which is asking us to be more mature, because it is married, diligent worship, he said, good at taking the hearts of relatives, good at getting along in society and diligently trying to make a living.
Until the advice from Ompung came, I saw there was a quick movement from Dewun. He lifted his face to look at our Old Ompung crying while giving advice.
I feel more guilty for the Dew. I shouldn't have accepted this match. Her face was red from crying for too long. His eyes are swollen.
If we were a couple who loved each other maybe I'd hold her hand, give her a beautiful sweet smile. So that He would stop crying. But that I can't do.
"Songoni namboru niba sarupo dohot umak niba do i. The rest is differentiated between the dohot bones of niba's father, between the dohot niba niba namboru. Angkon disamaon do i, rap niba do i ate. Hopefully pangidoan tu Allah, copat mardangka abara munu, have offspring. Hopefully nian si suan feather ma adong jagar-jagar munu. Moreover, re-hamu paraded mangolu, disarak tumbang ma. I mean, disarak tumbilang ma, na tar undurkon, samenit pe inda tar aha. So ompung sude na hatahata, ma i guidance. Amalkon hamu ma i.
"Na pade do sude. Hami pe sure and believe tu bayo i. Songoni pe tu pahompuku, repeat hamu mangirim na smelly ompung. Inda humayak dohot umakmu na maila i. Sude do on, hona mai, hatobangon, harajaon, alim ulama, the rich let alone ompu i sian bagas godang. On pe sai ma da ompung. Dohot salam. Wassalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh." He said in tears, Wiping his tears with his white shawl, after removing his glasses.
The situation continued, until the advice of Harajaon, whose advice content was almost the same as the other advice. But Harajaon said: Horas! Horace! Horace!
I took a breath, and exhaled slowly. To soothe my broken heart. I'm not supposed to do this show wedding. Which finally obviously made my heart hurt. But, I'd love to be close to Dew.
Hufftts.... I don't know....!
I raised my butt a little, because it started to feel hot later sitting cross-legged. Moreover, my feet are numb. Moving the shoulders to stretch my muscles that feel heavy and hot. Too much thinking makes my body stale.
I began to think about the advice given, which made me want to keep the Dew. But, will I succeed?
Feeling like it's not going to work, makes me even more depressed.
Hufftts....
No.......! I can't expect much.
It's been two hours of Makkobar's event taking place, it'll finally be over as well. Finally, the groom answers all the advice or messages from the bride.
This Makkobar event has been summarized, it should take 3-4 hours.
It is our turn to answer all the advice given to us. What is said with Mangalusi. And the first turn to answer is the bride.
I saw Dew's hand shaking with the microphone. His voice stammered as he spoke while crying. Dewun answered all the messages and advice using good and correct Indonesian. Starting with greetings, preamble.
"May we accept all the advice given to us." That's the only word that Dew said. From the greeting and the face, He has wept.
It was my turn to answer. I just said what Dew said. I became a nervouse and died a flea. Even though I am a champion in speaking in front of the public.
After that, we were asked to taste the salt and eggs in front of us. They were then asked to return for food bribes.
The dew that accompanied me Idak loved me it seemed so hard to feed me. So that the audience in the room, encouraging the Dew.
"Come on, don't be shy about the Dew." The voice sounded boisterous, so even Dew tried to smile to bribe me.
After the manganese pangupa event. Now is the time to say goodbye to Bones, Nantulang and all Dewun families.
Dew began to crawl towards Nantulang for parting.
He immediately fell down in front of Nantulang, crying loudly in the arms of Nantulang. While talking to ask for the blessing prayer to Nantulang.
He cried for a long time in the arms of Nantulang, which he called Mangandung. Until the party of the Bones family, memapah Dew to greet His Majesty's Bone.
"A. yahh-- Pray that your daughter is Dad to be happy... Ooohhh Father........ Dad. .....!" father's words repeatedly Dew said. I know Dew is disappointed with His Bone.
"Oh, no, don't be so sad. The journey to your husband's house is still a long way off. Don't you faint, will you?" say the people in the room.
After the Dew finished touching the Bones, I also greet him. The bones hold me tight. "Happy Dew" He said firmly in my ears and hugged me tightly again.
After finishing greeting everyone in the room. When I'm going to bring Dew to my house, along with the rest of the bridal party.
Soon the Maghreb arrived. Nantulang gave me a sheath cloth that folded lengthwise and placed it on my shoulder. I am now in the doorway. Get ready to welcome the Dew and bring it home.
The puffy, pale face of the Dew standing in the doorway, made me pity and sad to see it. There was not the slightest smile on her beautiful face. His face is so alarming.
Now he is holding a hen that has never laid eggs, on his head there is a basket that has been decorated. His right hand holds a teapot, while his left hand holds a container whose name I do not know.
Hhufff .....
Still an event at the Dewun house, the event has been crowded like this. Not to mention the traditional events at home. That said Mama will make a party Gondang for one week.
I don't know.
Think of this as a Dew that will come out of the house and be carried to the house of Tara.
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