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The music that accompanies the meeting of brides with Javanese customs.usually using Javanese gamelan but now at the request of the family then replaced with the reading of badar solawat and accompaniment berbangangan by banjari group

lala's brother is held by her father and Mia's brother walks a few steps to be reunited with bang lukman. Karina and I carried the Mayang twins walking in front of her.

"Yes Prophet.. sala..m alaika.

yes rosu.l salam alaika.

yes habib sala.m alaika.

solawa.tulloh.....

Bang Lukman flanked by bang Alif and RT sir walked closer to us who were standing still waiting for his arrival. Behind them was Doni and a friend who also brought twins mayang then there was a group of bridesmaids that neighbors kak lala .

Me and Rina then exchanged the Mayang twins with the Mayang twin bearers from the men's side then we mingled with the groomsmen.

After the bang Lukman was close enough to Lala's brother then Lala's brother and bang lukman took turns throwing Gantal. Gantal is made from betel leaves filled with banana flowers, betel lime, gambier and black tobacco.This symbolizes the two brides throwing affection at each other.

The two were then led to get closer. Sister Lala then kissed the hand of bang Lukman and afterwards bang Lukman kissed the hand of father. Seeing that I shed tears but I tried my hardest not to take it out because it would ruin my makeup. Karina is worse than me. He was crying meek-girl. His hand wiped his tears with a tissue and his other hand carried the Mayang twins. Her makeup was broken and her face looked a little spruce.

Lantunan solawat still continues to accompany the procession of the event that is ongoing. kak lala then directed to wash the feet of the Lukman bang three times. This procession is called Wijikan or also known as ranupada. Ranu means water and on means feet.

This ritual is performed by the bride who watered the groom's feet three times. This procession reflects the form of devotion of the wife to the husband, as well as removing obstacles to a happy household.

After that the father wrapped Kak Lala and bang Lukman with Sindur cloth and was taken to pelaminan. Usually it was done by the father of the bride but because Lala's brother was orphaned then the father who replaced him.

Syndicate fabric is usually red and white is expected to provide courage for both brides to live their marriage with passion and passion with a holy heart.

the next procession is kacar kucur, where bang lukman poured pennies and grains to Kak Lala fill him with a rag. this is a symbol that the man will be responsible for supporting his family, the family, it is the responsibility of the wife to manage it.

The cameraman continues to highlight the bride's movements and capture everything in the lens to become an unforgettable beautiful moment.

Bang Lukman then fed Lala's brother and vice versa Lala also fed Lukman bang from the same plate and spoon. The meaning of this procession is that husband and wife will together wade through the household ark by feeling the joy and sorrow together.

All the audience gawked in disbelief because the procession was usually only done once to take pictures but bang lukman without shame instead spent the food on the plate so that the host did not immediately started the show because the groom looked hungry.

"Mas.... ..."kak Lala was seen menoel-noel clothes brother. Me and Lina who had just cried were now embarrassed by themselves. Du.h the brother..kayak has not eaten a week. later it can be.

Finally, the event began after the Lukman bang finished eating on the lap. The opening, recitation of the holy verse of the Quran, the welcome of the bridegroom represented by her RT sir Kak Lala and the welcome of the bride and groom represented by bang Alif.

A moment I always liked. Listening word by word from bang Alif, seemed to listen to the advice of Abi. How to stand up, how to say hello.. Bang Alif is very similar to Abi.

"Marriage is not who is most feared by him who wins or who is more powerful" Because my mind I do not know if bang Alif has entered into the core discussion of marriage.

"Marriage is a race to be better in the eyes of God. As a wife must obey the husband while it is not for makshiat, trying to be a good wife and please the husband. Dress as beautiful as possible when the husband is home.not dress up when going out of the house. Welcoming the husband with joy when he comes home from work and it will eliminate all the fatigue that whack his body. The wife will also be the antidote for the husband due to various trials and views that are haram for her

As a husband, you can't be arbitrary. Cannot be stretched as the head of the household and then act as he pleases. Sayyidina Umar bin Khattab was a hard and strict person but even so when he faced his wife he would be a person who succumbed. When his wife was angry and expressed emotions in a loud voice he patiently listened to her, not at all replying to the words of his wife who was being filled with high emotions.

I am reminding myself that I often forget my obligations and hopefully what I say can be useful for everyone present here.

more or less I apologize profusely

wa billiahi taufik wal hidayah wassalamualaikum warahmatulli wabarakatuh"