The Struggle of a Husband

Application Event

Now it's time for Selyn to return home after getting her S2 degree. And will continue with the marriage proposal.

The hard days that Selyn went through have now been missed, replaced with happiness that will come in the future with a man who loves it. "Amen."

Selyn had reached home after travelling from London Gatwick Airport. The flight time is about 15 hours 40 minutes. London-Jakarta is about 11,714 km away with one direct airline, which uses aircraft with a bird logo.

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Now Slyn has dressed herself with her hijab. Yes, today the application day will come and 6 days later the wedding will be held.

Selyn sat among the bustling crowd of people who were busy to welcome the arrival of the Amri family.

After 15 minutes of Selyn sitting down, Amri's family came along with the group that Amri had said to Selyn and would hold an engagement.

Amri's family was greeted with cordiality and invited in by the Sellyn family who represented the welcoming.

"Assyn... ?" The extended family of Amri said hello when they arrived at the door of the house of Slyn with the entourage.

"Walaikum Salam Wr. Wg." Replied the uncle of Slyn who represented the welcome.

"Come, let's come in?" The son of Selyn's uncle Zanira invited the extended family of Amri to sit in the room that had been prepared.

"Yes, thank you." Answered Amri's extended family, and they shook hands and sat face to face.

The atmosphere was silent for a moment, then the representative of the Amri family expressed his purpose to Slyn's father to get the approval that had been talked about 1 month ago by Amri and Selyn's father while at home.

"Assalamualaikum wr. wb."

"Honorary father and mother, and the great family of the revered Ananda Slyn. I represent the family of Ananda Amri, I want to make things happen."

"The first intention is to be in touch with the family of Ananda Selyn, in order to get to know her more closely."

"The second, armed with the belief in the destiny of Allah SWT. The purpose and purpose of our life today, nothing else in order to send ananda Amri to submit a proposal to ananda Selyn. Please represent Ananda Selyn to represent us from the conversation we have intended.

After finishing conveying the purpose and purpose, the older brother of Amri's father also allowed the family from the Sellyn to answer.

"Walaikum salam Wr.Wb."

"I reconnect again from the words of the father, with the intention and purpose of wanting to propose ananda Selyn.

Then the representative of the Selyn family who is none other than the uncle's sister from Sellyn's father then asked Amri.

"Assalamualaikum Wr. Wb. "

"Ananda Amri, why did you choose Selyn?" Questions were asked on the part of the bride.

"Greetings of Wr. Wb"

"Having known Selyn for quite some time, I was sure that Sellyn was the right woman to be my life companion. And I am sure, Slyn will bring happiness in the household in the world and the hereafter.

"Selyn. insha Allah I promise, in accordance with the teachings of Islam. To always try with all my ability to take care of you."

"Father and Mother, therefore I ask permission to propose to Slyn. To perfect half of my religion.

"If Father, Mother and Slyn please. Allow me to make Slyn happy in the world as well as in the hereafter. By accepting my application.

Once the breath was resolved by Amri and a clear hue of happiness on Slyn's face. Then Sellyn's uncle asked back

"Is Ananda Amri willing to take care of, support and protect Selyn?"

"With all humility, I am ready. To love, care for, responsibility, take care of and carry forward the trust of his parents." Amri replied loudly and politely.

Then the uncle of Slyn turned to ask Slyn. "Are you ready to accept Ananda Amri's proposal?"

"Bismilbornrahmanirrohim, Papa and Mama the Slyn Saynagi. By asking for the pleasure of Allah SWT, then with the blessing of papa and mama, and the extended family. Selyn was willing to be born and the mind accepted Amri's proposal." Said Sellyn with trembling body holding back the cry of her should, then continued her words.

"I also listened to Amri, for loving me sincerely and sincerely.

Amri can also always motivate me, encourage me, encourage me to be a better person. I pray to Allah that Amri be given health, sustenance, perfecting the priesthood and morals. So that Amri, can be the priest of Selyn and can be the guide of the right path and be a companion of Selyn's life forever."

After saying the last sentence, Selyn's heart was no longer in power. Tears that pooled in the eyes were finally out fell also to his smooth cheeks.

The ring exchange was conducted by both parties. Parents from both sides put the engagement ring on the ring finger of Amri and Slyn.

After the event was finished with prayers and the guests and family and close relatives of Selyn and Amri congratulated.

"Hopefully smooth until the wedding day, lasting until the end of life. And become a sakinah mawadah warohmah family."

Speech continues to be obtained from invited guests and relatives, continue to walk alternately. Then the relatives and family did a photo session together and continued to eat.

Not to forget the family of Amri gives offerings, such as fruit, cakes, clothes, mak-up etc. As well as some money for the reception that will be held at the wedding 6 days from the application. Which will be held grandly but looks simple. Because Amri does not want everyone to show himself or Sellyn on the guarantee.

Amri only wants to carry out Ijab kabul in Surau and continue with family events and even the closest relatives. And there are some office colleagues who have been invited.

Amri only spread out invitations to closest friends and friends at the office.

Although it is said to be quite capable to rent a starry wedding building, but Amri is reluctant to do so. Marriage is not for show but a sacred bond before God.

Amri is typical of people who are full of simplicity even though it is quite capable of being rich. How not rich, once the project is done just get a bonus of up to billions of rupiah. He refused to show off his wealth. He preferred to be seen as a commoner.

Kare religion does not teach how much wealth you have but how much knowledge you get to be a guide during life.

That is about religious sharia and practice the teachings that have been taught by the Apostle.

They are now enjoying eating with him. Likewise with Amri and Selyn who are feeling happiness after getting a setatus.

The extended family of Amri now began to say goodbye to the family of Selyn to beg to resign and go home. Not to be missed with Amri.