The Struggle for Love Different Countries

Customary Regulation

The Alama Iqbal International Airport..

After arriving in the city of Lahore, the nazulfa rushed to the toilet in search of a baby room. He changed his anak² shirt and a little touch up natural make up on his face.

This time he came in early winter, before the children came out and he himself was already wearing a coat. Currently twins wear a red coat with a subordinate soft jeans joger model. Nazulfa himself wears an all-black with a brown LV handbag. Shahzad is very cool wearing white tshirts, jeans and coat by zara.

Seen as the Pakistani family was already at the door of arrival, Guriya ran up to the twins and hugged alternately. Ami ji and the others also walked over and hugged them one by one. The grown-up pondering pushes their luggage. Guriya held Ibrahim. And ami ji holding Yusouf.

Walk with a face towards the parking lot. They returned to the house of the shahzad brothers who were in the city. A few days in Lahore before returning to the village.

This time shahzad could not linger in Pakistan. Although his youngest brother is getting married, he still has to return to Malaysia later when the event he came again.

Ami ji asks shahzad to bring nazulfa shopping every nazulfa needs and children to party later. Ami ji said if not bought from now on fear that no one will want to sew their party clothes. After a week in Pakistan, he had to return to Malaysia. And will be back in March before his sister's wedding..

Finally, all the needs of nazulfa and twins are complete, they return to the village of shahzad's birth.

Nazulfa had never before lived alone in his in-laws' house. Don't know what to do when she has to be away from her husband for 2 months longer. Living in a country that has a culture far different from Indonesia and malaysia. In fact, deep in the heart of Nazulfa was afraid. Fear of not being able to adjust.

in fact for the sake of convenience nazulfa has made requirements with her husband while still in Malaysia..

"Every month the allowance of nazulfa and twins must be given to nazulfa, and nazulfa free mw buy what and for what" reads the request na,ulfa that has been approved by shahzad.

However, it is different from nazulfa who has filed requirements with her husband. The family must accept and understand. That in the nazulfa culture the wife is entitled to full monthly money and buy her own needs without asking and telling the husband's family to give it. For Indonesians very embarrassed if they have to beg, let alone ask parents to buy.

Before Shahzad returned to Malaysia, he had equipped the nazulfa with money that had been converted into pakistani rupees.

Grateful that almost all members of the shahzad family can speak English, making it easier for the nazulfa to communicate with them. So far they have all been very kind and have always helped grant any nazulfa wishes.

In Pakistan living in a village is certainly very much a rule. There are many things that women should not do. All this began to feel because now nazulfa settled there without her husband. There are many different ways of life. Even down to the little things. Nazulfa had to adjust. If you don't try to adjust, this can cause problems.

It's been a month in the village that makes it like a prison, not only can't go family shopping freely. Even going out to the neighbors house is not allowed. Every exit must cover the face using a veil. You can't laugh too much, let alone talk too much. Even the way to sit and the daily attitude in the house all have rules.

Nazulfa who wanted a little space asked her husband to go to the city of Lahore. He misses the atmosphere of the city that can give him a little space to be free to be himself.

Her husband confirmed her request, she was getting ready to be delivered by brother-in-law to lahore. He brought his influences who at that time happened to be on college vacation. The usual spark became one of her twins. They were also on the way to the city of Lahore with enthusiasm.

In Lahore nazulfa free to go mall to bazaar eating outdoors etc. Lahore is like the city of Medan. Nazulfa can also travel by taxi online such as uber if no one is driving. Shahzad never stood in his way because shahzad also understood his wife who was brave and ordinary with the outside world. Nazulfa was an independent woman.

In this city day without feeling traversed, there is nothing boring here nazulfa really be yourself. Without many rules.