The Struggle for Love Different Countries

The State Different Marriage Document

Guriya Shahzad's younger sister who finds Shahzad on the rooftop is suspicious. Because he accidentally heard a woman's voice before Shahzad finally turned off his video call.

Guriya thought something was hidden by Shahzad. But in Pakistan a younger brother would not dare to ask.

The night of Mehndi arrived. The guests have arrived, everyone is very happy.

The next day, early in the morning all the women's families had gone to the salon to dress up. Make-up, hairstyle, and nail art.

The groom is also ready..

Baraat bands (such as marching bands) are common in Pakistan on wedding days.

While throwing money up and accompanied by the bang music bale ala Punjabi. Many children came to quote the falling banknotes. It is also part of the Punjabi custom.

A wedding car that has been decorated with flower arrangements and red ribbons is waiting. All families are also ready, some are riding private idols, some are using tourist buses that have been provided by temple experts. They also went to the marriage hall that the groom's family had set.

Arriving in front of the hall bang band back in the beginning. The ladies were on the 2nd floor of the marriage thing looking down while covering their faces with scarves.

From above there is Dia, the choice girl of ami ji who should be today also paired with Shahzad. But Shahzad, who remained in the establishment, refused gently the request of his parents.

The bride closed the hall entrance with a shawl. They talk like they are talking. And in the end the groom's family took out a knitting canteen to give to the doorman.

When the scarf opens, they throw flowers at each other. The red roses that have been picked up by the petals are now scattered to give a fragrant aroma at the location of the marriage hall.

The sound of bollywood-style music adds to the fun of the Punjabi family party.

The bride's face was still covered with a red cloth. After Ijab qabul is completed, sign the marriage license. Mareka was juxtaposed then the shawl was opened.

The Pakistani bride was embarrassed to have never met before. Just a photo of when the matchmaking happened.

There is a customary ritual for sister-in-law to give a glass of fresh cow's milk to the brother-in-law. At that time the girl who gave milk was the candidate of choice ami ji for Shahzad. After giving milk, Shahzad's family gave a gift of gold rings.

In Pakistan when a woman gets married, her family will buy furniture and furniture. Such as room contents, sofa, kitchen necessities, refrigerator, AC, whole household. But all that if the groom already has a private house, if not then only the contents of the room.

Ordinary gold jewelry up to a few sets of jiga is almost mandatory provided by the woman's parents. Wedding dress, several pairs of clothes, shoes, make-up equipment, all of which are provided for the bride to move.

But if the woman comes from a family that is not capable, then there is no compulsion. But usually those who cannot be betrothed to ordinary people. Because Pakistani customary women give it all to men. Pakistani men only provide "HAQ MHER" (mahar). Also some gifts like us in Indonesia are "Delivery" as capable as the male family but not in the form of money, just goods only.

Even for the party in the family of the bride also uses the money of the woman's parents. And for Walima's party is the groom's money.

What a cultural difference between Indonesia and Pakistan.

In Indonesia the girls are lamar, given shipping, furniture, jewelry, money for a party, etc.

But in Pakistan all of it is carried by women themselves. It is an honor, for a woman who carries a lot of goods and jewelry, she will be praised. If not, it's not a problem either.

After the Baraat Event ends. The bride was taken home with her husband. This moment is the most moving. All the women's families would cry to accompany and escort the bride until she got in the car. The bride is alternately embraced by her parents and sister's brothers. At times like this the usual music will be played the song "BABA KI RANI HAI" which means his daughter's father.😢

In the house of the groom, the bridal room has been decorated so beautifully.

Tomorrow is walima day. Shahzad's family didn't make the walima show too big. It's just simple.

All the weddings have ended. Shahzad who did not give news to Nazulfa due to confusion where to talk. Afraid everyone knows. Because he also has not been able to state directly on ami ji and abu ji, they are old, already about 80 years.

It has been a week since Shahzad was in Pakistan. Nazulfa in Indonesia who felt ignored began to sulk. It's too bad to pick up a call from Shahzad.

In a few days Shahzad will return to Malaysia..

Shahzad took Guriya to the bazaar and asked Guriya to choose a woman's dress. Guriya felt astonished yet did not dare to ask. They bought two sets of salwar qameez.

I got home, Sam asked..

"Aap kya kharid hai?" ask ami ji

(What you buy).

"Yeh do kapray ami ji, amir bhai kharid hai." replied Guriya casually.

Shahzad, who is usually called a family with amir, glared at Guriya, saying that the clothes belonged to him, because it was a woman's clothes.

"Clechins... Yeh larki kapray..?" ask ami ji again

"Mein nahi jantha ami. (i don't know ami)" said Guriya, raising her shoulders, he deliberately showed mi ji so that ami ji asked who the clothes were for.

"Pregnant... Yeh kapray, mere boss ka biwi to liye hai. Boss Order." - Shahzad

(ami. This shirt is my boss's wife, the order boss).

"Oouuu." said ami ji along with Guriya..😅😅😅

It turns out that Si Shahzad pinter too yahhh, his boong, wants to give the lover a reason for the boss.

While his first brother was busy going back and forth to take care of all the marriage documents needed Shahzad, from one office to another, so every day.

What an amazing brother.. Help Shahzad even though ami ji abu ji has not known Shahzad's news with Indonesian girls.

When documents need to sign abu ji Shahzad ask abu ji to sign immediately, citing important documents for work affairs in Malaysia, plus the age of abu ji who is already in his 80s is not too visible.🤭

Not to lie to parents, but his brother who said that the affairs of abu ji and ami ji they talk.

Shahzad has returned to Malaysia. Arriving at KLIA airport, he immediately called Nazulfa. But Nazulfa didn't pick up the phone from her.

Nazulfa, who was disappointed, wanted to give his vengeance to Shahzad. He ignored Shahzad.

Shahzad kept in touch with Nazulfa. Until the taxi was in front of his house, but Nazulfa still did not respond to whatsapp calls from him.

Shahzad masik and clean up. He was a little confused as to why Nazulfa's attitude had changed. In his heart there was not a single feeling of guilt. In fact, he thought that there had been another man who had messed with Nazulfa's heart.

Hearing Shahzad has returned, the CEO of the decor company where he worked came home. Shahzad and the boss are like friends. They told free stories outside of work hours, but while working Shahzad never dared to laugh in jest.

Shahzad brings the Naeem wedding dvd. They watch while eating cut fruit.

At midnight Nazulfa keeps looking at his phone screen. He wanted to call Shahzad back, but his sense of regret had not disappeared.

Nazulfa is the type of person who has difficulty expressing feelings when he is angry he chooses silence.

In contrast to Shahzad, when he has felt close to someone he is not shy about saying what he likes and dislikes, even when angry he will say directly the cause he is angry with. So that it is actually easier to understand than the attitude of Nazulfa who is silent.

Though for his daily life Nazulfa is the jolly and talkative.

The boss said goodbye because it was late at night. After locking the door, Shahzad immediately took his phone and contacted Nazulfa again.

"tuuuttt. tuuuttt.. tuuut.." the call.

Eventually the fortress of Nazulfa collapsed, he raised a video call from Shahzad.

"Hello.. Asslamualikum.. Nazulfa.." call Shahzad.

"Waalaikumsalam.." replied Nazulfa briefly with a bete face.

"From that moment I called you unanswered, which one of you..?" ask Nazulfa.

"Neither de pigi, there is a house je, the house of the mother in the village." replied Nazulfa.

"Since when you balek village house.us used to know there was a town house onty.." asked Shahzad astonished.

"Since you left Pakistan, you've been very busy, no news.. I remember you were married to Kat Sane." replied Nazulfa.

Shahzad laughed out loud at Nazulfa's chant of piety..

"I promised you I'd marry you. Why don't you believe me..?" shahzad.

"I said wait.wait for me balek. take care of yourself.." said Shahzad.

"Hmmm... Sorry.." said Nazulfa quietly.

"All the documents we need to get married are ready.., just how can I get a visa to come to Indonesia" said Shahzad.

Nazulfa also felt happy to hear the documents for the terms of their marriage were all ready. Just think about visa. In disbelief, she will actually marry a foreign man who loves her and fights for her.

..."IT IS THE GREAT GOD WHO CREATES LOVE BETWEEN TWO MEN"...