The Journey of Child Life Outside of Marriage
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Shawwal month, the initial month of entering the new school year at school, Darul ulum boarding school under the leadership of KH Hasyim Asy'ari.
although the way of learning and teaching is different from schools in general.the diploma obtained after studying here has been recognized by the State.
like my old school, many of its alumni continue abroad or become the Board of the government in Indonesia.
the Darul ulum Islamic education foundation covers a variety of studies.
from RA Raudhatul Athfal the equivalent of Kindergarten or kindergarten
Madrasah Diniyah, MI equivalent SD
Madrasah Tsanawiyah equivalent Junior High
Madrasah Aliyah MA equivalent SMU
university of .
for RA and MI all the students of son and daughter are still one class and building.
it was only when Tsanawi , Aliyah, to university , that the students son and daughter were separated from the building.
the yard is quite large, maybe equivalent to one village.
consists of a mosque in the area of the putra cottage
madrasah building Tsanawi , Aliyah , university, boarding school, ndalem mbah yai and gus guse
all two-story.
still not Tsanawiyah madrasah building, Aliyah, university, Princess boarding school, as well as ndalem guse in charge of princess cottage
the RA and MI buildings.
plus the madrasah, and the wustho (equivalent to Junior High School) which departs at one noon 4 pm, return home at 4 pm and the TPQ building
it is complete all studies in the foundation, all based on religion.
all students are average of the students, from various cities, there are also those from Surabaya, Kalimantan, Sulawesi, to Banten
no wonder that the boarding school is famous abroad.
because there are also many alumni from here who work or continue to study abroad.
and many also participated in the government's parliament.
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I came out of room , wearing a white shirt with an alma mater and class on my right and left arm
plus bet osis nailed right to me.
the white scarf that was embedded with a pentul needle under my chin and a batik sarong as a subordinate.not to forget I opposed some yellow Kitap my lesson schedule today.
I embraced all these books in the chest, in honor of the full book of Arabic script.
slowly I put my feet out
indeed, I had previously registered Ilyas in Madrasah Aliyah princess.class X, and today, the first day I entered school, met new friends and a new place, and, my hope is that my place right now is not what I used to be.
" o Allah ayune, nduk ayaku"
mom hugged me, kissed me repeatedly, I glanced at the tip of my eye
mas Ilyas stood looking at us.
" Mom, Soraya's leaving first"
I kissed the back of my mother's hand before stepping foot out of the house, to study.
mom put 50 grand in my pocket
wonder, of course, what is wrong to enter???
" make a snack later"
" this is mostly Mom"
" no papa, the rest is saved"
I was moved, this is the first time in my life, I was in school carrying pocket money.
never before at all.
better the money for other purposes than I bring it just to buy snacks in the school area.
" Yes, "
the mother instead spoke to Ilyas, after waiting for a heartwarming moment in my opinion
originally I was fascinated by a man named M Ilyas Abdullah, but unfortunately, the cold was not curled up.
so I threw away my admiration and fascination for him.
If only he was more friendly
uh... fall in love with me. actually will not be happy, even happy.
with one lift, a 50 kg grain sack was lifted on his shoulders.
eh handsome mamas, don't you mind???
relax really....
so want to be carried, my weight is not nyampe 50 kg Lo mas hehehehe....
back and forth Ilyas lifted it, in and out of the house, arranged all sacks on a pickup car alone.
whether you want to be taken where, Males also want to ask, at least will be answered, even the heartache that exists
uh....not tired what, handsome mamas????
lift-up sack.
I couldn't believe it, though,
is that bone or gold iron????
" do you not become a school?????
or do you want to help me with the sack, Ilyas,???"
I grinned at the whole row of my teeth, whatever color they thought they were, which was definitely not black and red, "yes Soraya left, assalamualaikum......"
my pamit immediately leaves.
I left just on foot, through the front road of the house east to west
just walk to the east has reached the back of the princess cottage area.
and the road again to the Aliyah madrasah building where I went to school.
I'm spreading my eyes around looking for class X
quite spacious is also this two-story building
in front of the Tsanawiyah madrasah building is also two floors.
not like the boys cottage area
the princess cottage is very closed, especially the Princess boarding school building surrounded by earth fences.
in front of there the high gate so towering.
the princess santri are not allowed out of the cottage area because here it is equipped with various things
starting from copration, minimarket, clothing store, and library.
let alone to go out , go home without an invitation is not allowed. pick him up must be his mahram, can show from the family member card as proof
ribet and quite Strict, in accordance with the knowledge obtained, if the person really in studying.
not only that the santri was not allowed to meet face to face with not the mahramnya.
except for the ustadz who teach at the school in the boarding school, even then everything has been udzur, aka the old fathers with distended stomachs.
no one is tempted except their wives.
only when the badhalanlah (the teaching ustadz cannot be present)
santri's eyes wash
because the ustadz who replaced teaching were the administrators or the kang-kang sons who had graduated from school and were still in the lodge.
that's not all, only the chosen people can become badhalan.
in addition to being good at religious sciences they must be cool aka cold like ice cubes like Ilyas mas.
so be safe, they won't spread charm, they're not,
but not the name of the woman if not hysterical to see the opposite sex, let alone handsome and sweet, like yayang Hanan that I like, the person is dashing and high 11 12 is the same mas Ilyas
the difference is she hitem sweet so sweet, cheap smile again, sometimes
I walked into class X had many of my classmates come, they were busy chatting and gossiping.
don't imagine my classes are like normal classes.
since there was no table chair, there was only a long bench of two people, and it sat on the floor, he said,
each class there is only one table and a chair to sit the instructor.
from Tsanawiyah building, Aliyah to university,
unlike the afternoon madrasah classes, MI and RA, each student is given their own bench.
until the class I was just silent, because there was nothing I knew, I was also not used to being friendly with others
maybe I've been used to it since I was a child, because my villagers thought I was inferior.
the lesson hour began, all the students were absorbed in interpreting each yellow book before each.
the ustadz is quite friendly and quite humorous, so the students are not too tense.
they are tense only when memorizing nadhoman, both imriti, Qowaidul i'rob, almaqsud, to Alfiah.
most excited if the lessons of the Uyun Qurotul and ukutul Ijen, a book that discusses the procedure of marriage and husband and wife relations.
and its madorot.
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the hour of rest reads, the santri there are those who sleep, understand it as santri whose name sleep is the most beautiful thing during santri.
just imagine before dawn already have to wake up for night prayers, morning prayers.
after dawn prayers teach the Quran. led by his neng-neng aka his daughter and son-in-law Mbah yai , because all alhafodhoh 👉 already memorized the Qur'an
for those who come to the moon, please sleep
after the warahan is divided into two rooms, because there are 30 rooms, all rooms contain 20 people, for picket or cleaning the cottage yard and each front room.
unless each room is cleaned by members of the room.
then cook for breakfast, and take a shower to school
school hours are at 7 o'clock, for students who want to memorize the Qur'an are free not to take studies.
because every student is required to go to school
rest at 9, and go home at 12 noon. followed by jama'ah dhuhur together.
after worshipers can rest, or want to memorize nadhoman from the school
exactly at 2 pm ngaos guse book to adzan Ashar, congregation .
once the congregation can cook, each group.
no one is snekos, because every santri is required to be independent, in order to cook.
jamaah magrib. prayer and wiridan together. until adhan isyak, worship .
learn together in each class force. accompanied by their respective managers.
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there are also those who during school breaks back to the lodge, either menggepain
maybe find some food
because according to most santri, the word full as if dispensed.
how not once chatter eat a lot of one boiler will run out.
eating together is very delicious.it seems like the stomach of the santri is made of rubber.
every meal can come in.
perhaps for the layman's view, seeing such a thing, they would say santri is greedy, everything is eaten.
but for the students it was a pleasure.
eating in crowds using hands, lying in sight.
the side dish also tastes chicken
hahaha.....
drink only tap water, do not use a glass, everything can be used, most use a bathroom dipper. curiously years since the past until now no one complains of stomach pain, no one complains of stomach pain, maybe because it can be ridho and prayer mbah yai hut.
if you want to eat noodles, the way is unique
noodles are not boiled, but soaked in tap water, do not fantasize low using a bowl
because of the immersion of noodles only use plastic wrapping.
but the pleasure is amazing.
the bath was crowded, every shower wearing a sarong as a wet so as not to be naked.
while chatting , joking ria, sometimes laughing out loud.forget the word graceful or keep the image.
the bathroom is only small and contains***** or a closet.
each room contains up to 20 santri, sleep lined up like a sete ready to be baked.
do not think of sleeping comfortably with a soft case, just wear a mat as a base.
it is sad for people who are used to living spoiled
Alhamdulillah all santri at home and kerasan stay in the boarding school.
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I looked at the other santri who were busy chatting, dudukupun quite far.
I don't know maybe still clumsy and used to the past.
don't ask what's being talked about
especially if it is not the opposite sex.
when gathered like this, seeing the kang-kang son was like seeing a pearl.
they get excited sometimes hysterically.
they are often reprimanded, but they are very stubborn.
but if only three or both, when they see the kang-kang they will look down embarrassed, displaying the elegance of each so that the kang-kang son memorable
according to those whose names kang-kang santri putra , no matter how ugly they are , if you have been wearing a sarong and peci will look handsome, hahaha.... maybe their eyes have cataracts because they have never been allowed to see the opposite sex, so they cannot distinguish which is really handsome or pretend to be handsome because of money.
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already one month I went to school, many have started to memorize the names of first-class friends.
there is one classmate of mine, he is indeed quiet, when when gathered he is always a loyal listener without wanting to chim in every chat they have.
if there are funny things to laugh, if creepy also tense, when told kang-kang son also happy.
weird right???.
his name was Faridhotul Muniroh
anak kiyai masjid , in the market area.
his parents have a fairly large grocery store, Ningsih's mother often shop for the needs of the store there
he's just like me.
alias does not mondok, come to school every morning and go home in the afternoon.
But he passed the east road and continued, passing the new MI and RA building to the West.
he said closer to the market when passing through it, the arrival was just a bike ride, even though his parents had many motorcycles of various brands.
understand the rich.
although the child of the person is he is never arrogant, or proud of his parents' possessions, I know the story of him also from other mbak-mbak, not from his own mouth
Faridhotul Muniroh who is often called Farid, the last of three children in addition to quiet he is also shy
the reason never passed in front of Ningsih's mother's house, because on the road , often back and forth the santri kang-kang passed, milling about not knowing the time.
if I am used to it. because they also often seek attention.whether it is just passing by or shopping at the mother's shop, even though in the cottage the son also provides a fairly complete minimarket,.
I don't know if I think the only person I deserve to get attention from is Hanan.
once one day when I was sweeping the courtyard of the house, I saw Ilyas and Hanan kang walking in tandem from the cottage.
the front road of the mother's house that leads to the north.
they chatter sometimes punctuated by laughter, of course I was fascinated.
I put my smile as sweet as I could
uh saw me face mas Ilyas back flat
only kang Hanan was still commenting on my friendly smile.
stupid is very mas Ilyas Abdullah.I have no interest in seeking attention.
Ilyas and kang Hanan are good friends.
they are also the same age.
mom memorized it, right?????
more to my amazement he said both his parents live in Cairo, open a halal restaurant in the country.
the place is not far from the famous university Lo Al Azhar, if not wrong.
his sister became a santri in the city of Banten.
and the pakleknya has quite famous pesantren cottage in the city of Pekalongan.
the reason he was stranded here, still gerogi if it should be trusted to participate in managing the paklek pesantren cottage.
because his students are quite a lot, and all his children are small.
pakelek and his bulek I have been wrong to deal with the growing santri of sons and daughters.
so they asked Hanan kang to his parents in Cairo to take care of the boarding school.
of course both his parents were happy, and happy, because the abah of the Hanan kang had never mondok before.
he was able to marry his mother kang Hanan is a most beautiful gift.
for him who is a layman of religion gets a beautiful wife Sholehah and is good at religious sciences, therefore he educates his two children to become a santri , demanding religious knowledge to return to the afterlife.
