Second Pinang

Meeting a Child Psychiatrist

Dani regretted that stupid question. Though the fingers, heart, and brain he had conditioned not to discuss matchmaking Disa. Uh, mouth forgot to lock so as not to talk carelessly. What if Disa's answer is happy? Is his soul not spoiled? You're Dani ababil!

Is only smiling. Not giving any answer to that question. He focused on Salwa's condition. Tell him to read Istighfar so that the child's heart is calm.

"That's nothing to be afraid of, son. There is a God who always looks after you. Say His name, and help will always come." Disa encouraged Salwa to slowly rise from the slump.

"Yes, Ust. Thanks, Ust. Salwa dear ..., same Ust Disa." Salwa said it with a slight smile. He asked to come down from Dani's lap. Ask Aidha to play for a while.

Disa was pleased with Dani. End that video call connection. However, the widower still did not want to end the call. There is always a longing that creeps in the recesses of their hearts.

"My competition is heavy, huh?" ask Dani.

"Huh? Meanin?" Disa turned around to ask because she did not understand what Dani said.

"That proposes to you, an ustaz. Son of kyai. Compared to me, this self is nothing, Sa." Dani revealed that had disturbed his heart and mind. Until it makes the widower run aground.

"What makes him and you different, sir?" ask Disa.

"His religious beliefs are higher than mine. Almost comparable to you. I'm even ashamed to express this feeling to you" Dani explained.

Can smile and explain how the position of man before Allah SWT. "Our position is the same before God, only faith and piety are different. Not necessarily an ustaz measure of faith and piety is high. Only the creator can know that. Make it a spirit trigger, sir. To make us better than others."

"MasyaAllah .., how cold is the flush of qolbu today. So, are you happy or not getting a proposal from ustaz Aji?" ask Dani again.

Disa sighed. I started to get uncomfortable with that conversation.

"Close it yourself, sir," said Disa with an annoyed face and a manyun lips.

How could the widower deduce if Disa's response was just a smile? Is he happy, so give him a smile?

"Love the clues, let me conclude for myself," said Dani had begun to despair.

"Thank God, I asked him to wait two weeks. I must communicate with Allah SWT, who is the true owner of this self."

The head of the widower immediately ached hearing it. Two weeks of pretty tenuous time for Aji to get Disa's heart. Why not be rejected right away? What if the woman changes? Unwilling to wait for him, and instead receive a proposal from Aji?

Disa frankly does not want to discuss the application issue from Aji. Dani apologized for being too impudent and teased Disa like that. However, he really wanted to know the answer from the woman. Hope not the pleasure that comes to the heart of the woman with the title of ustazah.

"I'm sorry, Sa. All right, I'll conclude for myself. May I ask you a favor?" ask again.

"What?"

"Please change your call to me. Not dad, dong! Sounds old. Mas or what's up."

Disa just fell silent not answering. All right, Dani needs to know himself. This woman is someone of class. It won't be that easy to say a statement. He needs to be patient again in this.

The widower asked Disa to help him report to the police. Maybe later Rida will pick him up, considering there are other men who are waiting for the answer to the sermon. Dani ended the video call with a greeting.

A clear Saturday starts the day with a sumringah. Salwa didn't go to school because she had a fever last night. Mamah Yuli, Dani, and Sita are afraid that trauma dominates the child. Rida, who had just been in contact with a child psychiatrist, gave it to her sister.

Dinta, the psychiatrist's name is there. Specialized in child psychology. At nine o'clock, Dani drove Salwa to meet the psychiatrist. Hope that her son will be happy again.

Dinta briefly interviewed Salwa's parents. Ask for the full story experienced by the little girl, in order to determine the therapeutic steps that must be used. He also asked anyone closest to him, as the youngest was really fragile for now.

"The closest for the time being is ustazah and his brother. But they are teaching and school. It used to be close to me, Mom." Dani explained what was asked of Dinta.

"Okay, I'll try asking. Maybe the first meeting was just an introduction, and if he could go straight to the story, I'd take him. You just need to accompany me without answering anything I will ask. Understand, sir?" ask Dinta.

Dani nodded in understanding. Salwa who had been guarded by Mamah Yuli in the car, was immediately brought in by Dani. Dinta smiled and greeted Salwa cheerfully. He sat side by side with the child, and held his hand.

When touched by Dinta, Salwa's response was very rude. The boy immediately shook the psychiatrist's hand. Makes Dani understand what his son is feeling right now.

Dinta tried again to grab Salwa's hand. Not just touching her, but getting her acquainted.

"I'm Ma'am Dinta, what's your name?" ask Dinta by hand-picking.

Salwa hesitated to welcome that hand. Dinta gave a smile when he saw the body's response. Finally, the youngest dared to shake hands with Dinta.

Dinta tells the story of her family and pet. This was done to attract the attention of Salwa, so that the little girl can provide the feedback needed by the psychiatrist, namely openness. It is very difficult if there are closed clients.

Really, the feedback given by Salwa makes Dinta happy. The boy immediately replied to his story. It tells of his daily life and his closeness to Disa and Aidha. Dani only smiled when she saw her son cheerful.

Dinta has not yet gotten into Salwa's problem. You should slowly approach a traumatized person. Not necessarily the openness that the youngest child is currently showing, will be open forever. Sometimes, he would close without even telling a story.

"Sal, do you like having trouble sleeping?" tanya Dinta is like a friend.

Salwa nodded, "Yes, Salwa is afraid to close her eyes. Horrified to be chased again."

Dani gets an answer to the fever that Salwa had. It turns out that it is true, fear dominates his son. When the doctor examined the body of the youngest, he said that the child was fine.

"Dengerin Mbak Dinta, Salwa must be a brave boy, huh? Not just to protect Mbak Aidha, but also yourself, son. Uh, want to learn martial arts, right? I have a sister whose hobby is taekwondo." Dinta tried to provide new activities for Salwa.

Salwa looked at Dinta doubtfully. The woman did not force him. Just offer. After the consultation session was over, the boy was immediately taken by Dani into the car.

Dinta explained the conditions experienced by Salwa. He falls into the category of severe trauma. But fortunately, the courage side of the boy saved so as not to fall in the black hole. Luckily, the youngest was surrounded by people who cared about him.

Dinta gives sedatives according to the dose. Schedule another consultation visit. Hoping that accompany Salwa is ustazah and his brother. Dani thanked me, and said goodbye.

After delivering her mama and Salwa, Dani tells Rida to pick up Disa. They'll meet at the police station. The widower who had arrived first, immediately made a report. But something is surprising.

"This report came in at eight, sir. The name of Ateng, isn't it?" ask the cop.

"Lhah, right. Who's making the report, sir?" ask Dani.