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Praise is a test of kindness, because when we are praised, we may feel arrogant and amazed at ourselves, even we forget that all these favors are from Allah Azza wa Jalla, then we feel great and arrogant and forget to be grateful. Being amazed at yourself is a destructive trait...
We need prayer more than praise, because usually praise can deceive us. Therefore, we must learn to be sincere and forbidden to praise excessively. Thus, all the good deeds we do will not result in fatigue but lillah (because of God).
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The days passed so quickly, that without feeling, a month had passed. And now the relationship between Haidar and Fatimah was getting closer and more friendly. Even now Haidar has brought Fatimah back to his Mansion. Moreover due to the demand, Rindhima. He also does not want to be far from her. But since Fatimah Kemabli to the city, Haidar's attitude, became possessive of Fatimah.
In fact he was forbidden to speak to workers who were men, and that included Leo. That sometimes makes Fatimah upset. But she still appreciated the decision of her husband. And that morning Fatimah intended to drive Rindhima, her school. But again, opposed by Haidar on the grounds, because he did not want the incident of his abduction repeated again. Directly protested by Rindhima.
"Iis..what the hell, Dad! All-nothing can! It's kasian Umi! Just stay home alone. Padahalkan if Umi escorts Indhi, Umi can meet with Aunty Yasmin. Umi will definitely not be saturated, Dad!" rindhima protest, when they were in the dining room. Because they are having breakfast together.
"Rindhi, Daddy did this, for your Umi's safety! Did you miss, the time of the incident you two were kidnapped, hm? And do you want Umi to see you hurt again hm?" asked Haidar, reminding Rindhima.
"Remember this! It's Daddy's fault! Sementang Umi jago silat, Daddy jadu just put a driver sir! Try if at that time, Daddy did not pull Indhi's shadow bodyguard! It's never gonna happen, Dad!" reply Rindhima, with the attitude and style of the adult. So that makes Haidar immediately jerked to hear his words.
"Eh! From where, you know, that time Daday pulled your shadow bodyguards?" tanya Haidar looked so curious.
"Yes you know! But it's not important to explain? Anyway it all happened, because of Daddy's fault!" rindhima said with a voice that sounded so loud. Making Fatimah who heard it was immediately shocked.
"Eh! Astaghfirullah Indhi's! You can't say so rudely to Daddy you kid!" reprimand Fatimah, although her voice sounds firm, but there is still tenderness in it.
"Remember Nak. In the letter of Al-Isra verses 23-24 are explained about the prohibition of children to say harshly, Nak. Instead, we are obliged as children to speak noble words to parents. And this is in accordance with the Word of God in the letter of Al-Isra verses 23-24," continued Fatimah again, and then he began chanting the Quran, which he had mentioned earlier. With a voice that sounds so sweet. Making Haidar who heard it, immediately amazed made.
It means: "And your Lord has commanded that you worship none but Him, and that you should do your best to your parents. If either one of them or both of them is old in your care, then never say to them the word "ah" and do not shout at them, and speak to them noble words." (QS: Al-Isra verses 23-24).
"Have you explained, son? So from now on Indhi can not say rude again to your Daddy huh? Because if you say rude again, it means that Indhi has become an ungodly child. Son, a child who is disobedient to his mother or father will not get ridho from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, Loh Nak. And that is exactly what the Hadith says about filial piety to both parents.
"God's attitude depends upon both parents and the wrath of God also depends upon the wrath of both parents." (CHR. Tirmidhi).
"So if Indhi wants to get Ridho from Allah, then indhi should not, against parents. Because we are taught our religion. It is necessary to always obey both parents and must always be respectful, and love both. And the child who is devoted to his parents, then he will get love from God, and also from his parents," explained Fatimah, at length. With a speech that sounds so soft. He made Haidar admire his wife even more.
"Now Indhi has understood Nak?" fatimah asked, stroking Rindhima's head covered by her hijab.
"Umi's understanding," replied Rindhima, sounding soft. But still can be heard by Fatimah and Haidar.
"Alhamdulillah..then now Indhi promise yes can not say rude like earlier, son? Because if a child disobeys both parents and says harshly it is the greatest sin. And it is also made clear in the hadith, Son, the Prophet;
"The greatest sins are: shirk to Allah, murder, disobedience to parents, and lying or perjury." (CHR. Bukhari and Muslim).
So Indhi wants a promise with Umi, not to say rude again Nak?" fatimah said again, because he could still see the annoyance on Rindhima's face, which must have been caused by the Father, who did not allow Fatimah to drive him.
"Yes Umi Indhi promise!" rindhima replied, as she got up from her seat, with a face that looked reddened by holding back her sadness and regret, "Yes, Indhi apologized to Dad, for saying rude," he said again, he left immediately, without waiting for an answer from his father.
"Eh! Apologize like that anyway? And why is that face?" haidar protested, while staring at the departure of his little Princess.
"Iis Mas, Indhi was like that, because Mas did not allow Thiyah to take him. That's why he became like that. That's why let Thiyah drive him? Poor Rindhi Mas, he would have been so hopeful Mas," said Fatimah, hoping that her husband could allow it.
Hearing the words of Pity on his daughter, Haidar's heart finally melted, "Hmm. But remember, don't talk to men! Do you understand, darling?"