
Lita again listened to the recording of her conversation with Bella. Every now and then the woman looked at the notebook in her hand. So far Lita can describe the figure of Bella as a realistic-minded girl. The reason behind the crime he committed was perfectly acceptable to common sense.
Humans instinctively have the nature of wanting to compete with other humans, from the start since the human process is formed. Biologically it is well known that thousands of ***** vie to reach the egg. Only one can survive and succeed. From the process of natural selection, it can be said that all humans born on this earth are winners.
And Bella, that girl is well versed with all the stigma and standards of living in society. This standard of living is formed because of the many humans who justify it. Of the three cases that Lita has examined, Lita, he was able to draw the conclusion that the reason behind Bella doing things that are contrary to the law is because of the unwritten standard of living in the surrounding environment.
As an example of the first case. Bella takes the life of an old woman who makes a living as a scavenger. From the results of the interview with the girl, it is implied that indirectly, the old woman felt disappointed. Disappointed in educating their children. The woman considers what she did first to her children is something that her children will have to do to her. Balas.
The old woman thought, because she had taken care of and financed her child, it should be her son to repay his services.
It is undeniable, in the community there are also many parents who think like this. For them, the child is a guaranteed investment of old age. Many parents say that after they spend their youth to support their children, they should receive the same from their children in old age.
Many stories of parents who are too involved in the household of their children, one of them because of this. Because of the understanding that a boy forever belongs to his mother. Boys will forever be responsible to their mothers, often mistakenly treated by some parents. They still demand attention or even material because of this understanding in society. Without thinking, that their child already has another life. What these parents want must be fulfilled, if not the frills of ungodly children they do not hesitate to embed.
Entering the world of marriage, a boy will assume the responsibility of being the head of the family. His main obligation is to provide proper support to outsiders who have the status of his wife. This is often overlooked by humans who have the title of family head. They argue with the understanding that the boy who has become the head of the family is still a child owned by his mother.
As a result, many real stories about wives are neglected because their husbands are more concerned with parents.
This understanding that glorifies women as mothers actually sets aside other women - wives - because it is wrongly addressed by some mothers and also their sons.
It's a link that must be broken so that not all women think like this. A child is a child's real care. They can be a gift or even a disaster. It all depends on the parents' upbringing. Managing, educating, financing are obligations that parents must do. When parents understand the meaning of the word obligation, they should not demand a reply later. It is sufficient that God has entrusted them as avenging parents. Children are children of life, they will have their own destiny, their own way of life and their own life. In this phase the task of the parents only accompany without further interference. A child's responsibility to his or her parents is first, but, a child's responsibility for his or her own life is paramount.
This is what happened when Bella committed her first murder.