Not a Common Widow (Status Only)

Accepts

The deg...!

"No. I really want to take responsibility and because I love your sister. What I'm doing now has nothing to do with my illness." Nicho confesses his feelings.

"Then I could not forget it. There was an unusual feeling I felt when I first saw his face. His shadow seemed to keep spinning, and more and more day after day even until now the feeling was still there. Let me marry her." Nicho was really serious in his words.

Sofi is haunted, the word loving and impotent makes her think and wonder. Felix descends from Reyhan's lap and approaches Sofi, suddenly holding Sofi's face and wiping away her tears.

"Oma, believe me, that man will make you happy, he already regretted everything. Felix could see he was suffering just like Oma. Felix please, forget the bad memories and make good memories with all of us!" Felix turned serious like an adult at a time like this and would return to being a child in general in times of normal circumstances.

"The Felix said it right. Wake up om!" Fira helps Nicho stand up from his pedestal.

"But..." Nicho seemed hypnotized and instead did not continue his speech when Fira looked seriously into Nicho's eyes and he obeyed Fira.

"Sit, Om! Pah, I beg you!" Fira looked at the two alternately. And strangely the gaze of Fira was able to make both of them obey every word Syafira.

Everyone sat down and Fira resumed her words.

"Everything that happened forget it! Forget does not mean not remember it but forget the resentment, disappointment, hurt, and anger that is in us. What happened is a lesson for us to grow up. Adult in taking action, adult in mindset, mature in solving problems, and mature in everything."

"What Om Nicho did was wrong. But that doesn't mean we don't forgive our mistakes either. Are we not just ordinary people who have never escaped sin and wrong? then why don't we give them a chance to right their wrongs?"

"I know what Mama Sofi's up against isn't as easy as we talk. It takes struggle, it takes strength, it takes mental strength in dealing with everything that happened to him to where Mama Sofi can be like now. It's not all that easy."

"But, here, we are all grown up, already ingesting the sour, the sweet, the bitter of life. Therefore, I hope you are able to think mature not just obey the passions and anger alone." Fira noticed everything, she saw the alternating faces of Arman, Nicho and Sofi.

"I've thought for a long time and have decided that I will marry Sofi" Nicho said seriously.

No one interrupted Nicho and Firapun asked, "What about Mama? did Mama forgive Om Nicho and be willing to accept responsibility from Om Nicho? please answer honestly according to your heart!"

Sofi silently looked down, her mind and heart were at war determining everything. Hearts wanted to give him a chance to right his wrongs, but thoughts kept coming to the fore as Nicho forced him.

He slowly took a breath and threw it away. "If you can be honest, Mama is still traumatized by what she has done to Mama. But that doesn't mean you don't forgive him. Mama's been forgiving him ever since you were present in Mama's life. And for her accountability for what happened, Mama doesn't think it's necessary!"

Fira and Felix looked seriously at Sofi, both of whom said, "It's not necessary, but rather the trauma of the coercion Om Nicho did so that Mama was afraid to accept her." Say both compact and it was a success to make everyone gawk.

"Unbelievably, they can read people's minds," Amel's mind was amazed at the two.

Arman breathed out roughly, he leaned his back against the chair. Arman can't prevent it if Sofi herself has forgiven him.

"The point of Mama's nod is, he wants to accept responsibility from Om Nicho but still afraid of what used to happen. Mama's traumatized by the abuse Nicho did to her." Fira said taking the contents of what Sofi felt.

Reyhan was moved and certainly proud to get a wife like his wife. He could not say so fascinated by the actions of his wife who was so mature and wise. Not one happy tear dripping on his cheek was grateful for everything because he did not choose the wrong partner.

Rey immediately removed it so that no one would know if she was crying. Rey's guess is wrong, Felix saw it because he happened to be watching every face of the people around him.

"Ck, Daddy lebay. It's old, crybaby." Ledek Felix melts the atmosphere.

Rey stares, "Ehhh, who says Daddy's crying? Dad's eyes are flashing with dust." Reyhan dodged and blinked his eyes

"Dad, Mother and I cannot be lied to!" Felix was serious again. Rey grinned, scratching her non-itchy nape.

"What is his decision?" karin asked, while Nicho watched the little boy who stole his attention. It was like seeing little Nicho inside Felix.

"Well," said Fira asked her mother who replied.

"Alright, I'll accept him. Maybe with him my trauma will slowly heal." Sofi decides to start a new life and hopes to eliminate the trauma.

Trauma is one of the events when a person experiences an event that makes it difficult to forget. Traumatizing events can be very distressing, frightening or even threatening to security. One of them is sexual abuse trauma.

Victims of sexual harassment often blame themselves when the incident occurs. Whether it's blaming yourself for wearing a mini skirt or a shirt with a low cleavage.

Because actually, there are other victims who experience similar treatment even though they are wearing very closed clothes. So stop blaming yourself. Remember that what happened is not entirely your fault and you are not the cause of why others cannot control themselves.

In this case, it is the perpetrators of sexual harassment who are actually wrong because they cannot control themselves by harassing you regardless of the reason.

Everyone has their own ways and thoughts to overcome the trauma that has been in nature as well as what Sofi did. Maybe accepting Nicho can help eliminate the trauma that is in him.

Seriate....