My Love is Not as Beautiful as a Novel

DOWNLOAD MANTU

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"Haizzz baby, you're 'clock-clock-clock-clock, it's 'uda at 9 p.m., powder gih."

"Haaahhhhh, mas time? it was still 7."

"Udah ah ..." Then Tiyan carried the Princess to the bed.

Not a thing that happened as the viewers imagined, but indeed they both rest because they were tired. Understandably their wedding event is quite dense creep.

The grand wedding party at the Princess residence was held because considering the Princess was the last child in her extended family, while Tiyan was the first child in her family.

A big party because after this the Princess family will not hold a wedding party again. On the other hand, the Tiyan family did not have a daughter, so they could only celebrate the ghost download event.

Performed using customs according to the customs of each region.

⚘The next day.

At the place of the Princess, in the morning the Princess and Tiyan had performed congregational dawn prayers. Then they mingle with other family members, because the condition is still morning. They also have prepared the items they will take away later in the afternoon.

Nisa's father and mother were also getting ready to take the Princess to the groom's residence. Princess' sister there are 2 people who take her. There is a small family of Kaj Gina and Kak Vira.

...⚘Beheading Putri⚘ big family story...

Kak Gina is the father's first daughter, while Kak Vira is the second child. They both have their own families. But the closest to the Princess is only Sister Vira. Because her daughter is very close to the Princess, even said to be sticky like stamps. Even if they walk together, not like his nephew and aunt, but brothers.

As for his name, he was one weton with the Princess. Weton is a day in the market/count java. The Javanese tribe is one of the tribes in Indonesia that is still thick with customs and traditions. Including one of them related to the matter of the count of days starting from the day and the market is often called weton.

In the Javanese calendar, a week consists of seven days adopted from the Islamic calendar and five Javanese market days. Weton, is a combination of the two that indicates the day of one's birth.

Usually Javanese people in determining the day and date often consider this Java weton in the hope of being launched and according to the calculation of the meaning of Java weton. Included in marriage, even between the two couples sometimes calculated using weton java based on the date and the market of the winner which has different meanings.

Usually if girls in one family lineage have the same weton day, they will be sticky to each other. They never fight, but they get along with each other. And the nature of them loving each other, it can even be said that they rarely fight.

Sisil is a warm person, even though she is still a child, she has grown into a beautiful girl, only her body stature is mini, aka short as Shelly's best friend Princess during SMK.

He also insisted on taking the Princess to the groom's residence later. His mother did not mind if Sisil came along. His younger brother Fadhli also joined. Sisil and Fadhil though brothers but they never get along. If you meet like a cat and a dog.

Their age is too far away. Class 8, Fadhil is still class 3 SD. Sisil is chatty, Fadhli is quiet. Sisil is more dominant in his mother's genes, so it is exactly like Kak Vira. While Fadhil dominant genes his father is quiet. Although the two of them never get along, but the Princess is very fond of her nephew.

Brother Rega and his small family can not take the Princess, because sister Rega's wife is not strong to travel far, he experienced a very severe hangover. Even just from the home of the parents of Putri to his home, he can get drunk if invited to take a bus or car, therefore Kak Rega only use a motorcycle. And it's fortunately not down on their daughters.

The bridesmaids have arrived in K since the early hours of the morning. Most of the people have returned to their homes. They immediately rested for a while before tomorrow morning they will blend in to welcome the Princess's large family entourage. Yes Saturday morning, the Princess family will arrive in the city of K, to follow the traditional download of ghosts at the residence Tiyan.

Ngunduh Mantu is a term in the perspective of Javanese culture that refers to the series of Javanese traditional marriage ceremonies. The event was held after the completion of the wedding reception in the neighborhood where the bride lived.

Ngunduh mantu is a term derived from the Javanese language, ngunduh means harvest or harvest while the word ghost means son-in-law. Long story short, the event ngunduh mantu is done when the parents marry their son, then the wife is brought to live with the husband and not directly the family will get additional personnel.

It was still done and preserved in Tiyan's residence.

⚘Dwelling of the Princess

Exactly at seven o'clock in the evening, the Princess family and the two brides headed to the city of K. There are 2 groups that use two large buses. The bride and the extended family are escorted in 4 private cars.

Their journey is 7 hours. On the way they rest 2 times, at nine o'clock and at dawn. Arriving in the city of K, they arrived at six in the morning. The group immediately cleaned themselves, while the bride changed clothes again. Similarly with Putri, return to use Javanese customs.

After the group finished breakfast and everything was ready, the bridal convoy entered Tiyan's house.

The two brides came with the pangombyong (accompanion) from the bride's house. These escorts usually consist of a large family, close neighbors and close relatives of the bride who is behind the bride.

The group present at the besan house (the parents of the groom), accompanied by Gendhing Boyong Bride.

The parents of the groom welcome the presence of besan (the parents of the bride) with both brides.

Sindur Binayang, namely the father of the groom attaches a sindur cloth, or Sidomukti motif cloth or the like to the shoulders of the two brides and leads the bride and groom to the guarantee chair. Father is at the front, the bride is in the middle and the groom's mother is at the back accompanying the bride while holding the shoulders of the two brides. In this procession is usually accompanied by gendhing Ketawang Boyong Basuki, Pelog Barang.

Then the two brides were accompanied by both parents to the pelaminan. Before the bride and groom sit in the guarantee, first do the sungkem to both parents.

The bride and groom sit in the pelaminan, flanked by both parents. Both parents of the groom as the stakeholders sit on the right of the bride. While both parents of the bride sit to the left of the bride and groom.

The series of events also arrived at the session "Imbal Speech" which is the dialogue of the bride's handover from the bride's family to the groom's extended family.

The two brides are given two cups of holy tirta which are minimized by the groom's parents in turn.

After that welcome and thank you from the family representatives of the groom, at that time the two brides and their parents stood in line in front of the guarantee.

Then the event was closed with a series of banquets for invited guests.

Unique, different, and fun, are probably the three most fitting words to describe Javanese cultural traditions in the form of events ngunduh mantu.

And as part of a good Indonesian citizen and ethnic Javanese, the author also wants to provide education for loyal readers of the novel author, so that we maintain and participate in preserving the culture of our nation.