My husband is not my first love
Love in a Far Country
The aura of the land of people is certainly different, although there are many similarities.
Set foot here I am grateful, this city of 800 people known as the university city is not serious New delhi. The majority of Muslim residents make it easy to buy food. New moments arrive like this there is no time to mix food, plus I am not too eager to eat my own cuisine. The short word is I'm not good at cooking.
Even though the lecture has not yet begun I still come to the place that will be my days in the future. Just cycling around the neighborhood, going to the crowded market, tasting sweets that I often see on television, trying to habituate the tongue and new circumstances. Funny to hear some residents when explaining in English, his name is also not his own mother tongue. It was like when the Sumatran spoke Javanese, the accent was foreign.
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After the surrounding environment I contacted an acquaintance, curious to explore the breadth of the campus area. We went by bike, like most of the students.
Don't imagine the study room of the building berAc comfortable, not even a fan, very different from the local magister nun far there. The country is Iqbal, old campuses with study chairs that are not luxurious elongated. Some of the announcements that were taped were handwritten, I liked what kind of nuance there was like this.
On a campus that has a sacred sentence from the sky kalam this is truly magical, although once read about it did not expect really real simplicity. The leafy yard is lined with bicycles, motorcycles and luxury cars here. It is common to meet great teachers using bicycles.
Each place has its own story, which is why the almighty recommends that we get to know each other with many people. Down the corner of His vast earth, so at least our chest becomes more spacious. Our minds are not narrow with proclamation, let alone selfish with a handful of understanding.
“Although it looks minimal with simple buildings, the practice facilities are quite complete even the law and medical department is one of the best. Sadness along with the motivation of its founder who does not want to highlight luxury, because knowledgeable people he said earthy.” I listened to the explanation with interest.
“Scientists are unpretentious. I like that phrase.” I smiled at the soft-colored veiled girl at the side, Riri. Satisfaction reminds me of the thin shirt guy with a sincere smile.
“It was worn the man his name is sharwani being the female kurti ” I again nodded with his explanation.
“Indonesia funny time yes if students pacing pack kebaya or other traditional clothes.”
“heehee ..” The friendly girl responded to my chatter.
Among all the admirable, I was most enamored with the main library, Maulana azad library. The seven-story library holds the record for largest in Asia. Ancient manuscripts and manuscripts are collected here, I even see clearly the legacy of the glory of Islamic civilization in the past, Mughal. An internationally certified digital library. This will be a great place to spend a lot of time.
My new friend did not forget another important place, taking to the pride Mosque, Sir syed hall or Jama Masjid AMU. Here I am now, one of the cheapest and best Salman khan public universities.
Look at the plot of God's destiny brought me here one of the oldest campuses in south Asia. Looking at the buildings that became the dream of wise men who became the color of the variety of these religious predecessors in spreading the way he fought.
Aligarh distance not too far with the KBRI is the right decision to settle while here. We can visit New Delhi in four hours drive, we can choose Train or Bus when traveling between cities.
Satuhal that makes enamored with the character of one of the residents here is when we buy food. When we returned he refused and said he was not a beggar but a seller. For me personally what is shown is quite gentling to impress.
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When I started the fight with the thick literature of the language of the country people I learned one thing, however the facilities that look outside do not underestimate the nuances of learning here. The process I was running was quite heavy, high standards and strict material. Old cycling professor do not think the class will be that simple, there is a target of how many books to read in a month and a week. A task that makes you not eat. The months that really contain.
Various friends from different countries do not leave the identity of this basic campus, modern and traditional elements are developed in a balanced way. The campus which initially only had religious faculty began to accept all circles both religious, ethnic, and cross-cultural.
Do not imagine as beautiful as the film, being away from home is never easy. The most thing that will make students habitually living a luxurious life will be difficult is to turn off the lights periodically, must really be able to heat up the habit if you want to run smoothly. The lecturers will not tolerate the task that has not been printed because of the lights off, it is an unattractive reason, and certainly will not be accepted. Luckily the student union from Indonesia is very familiar and kinship, so it really helps.
How is it that perfect youth can survive here, yes, I smile considering that figure, someone who will not come out without neatly ironed clothes, someone who will make the best papers from all class residents. He can also do that here. In a place where many other ambitious humans gathered.
Being on campus with someone I should be avoiding at a time like this is difficult, but it helps because we are just as busy.
He and I were in different faculties, adapted to our own dreams. He who wants to become a Muslim historian majored in history while I who want to build a pesantren choose to explore Arabic and and take other related science courses. We, precisely I for a moment ignored the love debaran that occurred in the college.
It seems like everything will be fine, as we also understand the limits that are in place. I don't want to disappoint those who are behind sincerely supportive. However, inevitably several times we were met, it was amazing in the vastness of AMU several times had to cross paths with shirt lovers and hair that was always neat. Meetings that occur more often are at the event of fellow students from the country.
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In the midst of the tight semester exam that was on the doorstep, I slept a lot late at night, unmitigated busyness made me turn over and sometimes even forgot to sleep well, he said, but it is certainly not as crazy as what the Father said. That according to him, the scholars sleep with coconut fruit in order to continue to wake up to learn. I smiled remembering the man who inspired that many stories. There will be no chance to hear his story. Calm down, Father and Mother there.
Lying down I grabbed a flat object from the nightstand. Five missed calls. I didn't get to check on HP for the last few hours. The achy waist I leaned on the pillow was quite a relief. Then look back at the screen.
Your husband, as the name says, the man was very funny and even changed his name like that on people's phones. We did exchange standard news, the busyness sometimes made me forget that I had a bond that the sky made with someone far away, a middle-haired man who had many ways of making a smile. Thinking of that I tapped the screen contacting him.
His face was still like yesterday, filled with smiles. His favorite black koko with a home glove, hem. Eleven o'clock in the evening faster Indonesian time about one and a half hours, why still dressed in prayer isya, why not sleep whisik I in heart.
“Why silence, I still remain handsome just like the last we found?”
I just responded with a smile, getting used to it.
“Why are eyes like pandas? Don't force yourself.” His hand touched the screen.
“Where is it, not at home?” The instincts of women who are kepo appear how it is possible that this late has not been in the room.
“Owh, this is a new cottage, I'm here often now. Calm down, often miss a wife who is far away."
“Sorry.” I don't know what I mean, just a word that's spoken.
“Heee .. sorry to be accepted, don't be weak, however your longing is nothing compared to my larger miss.”
Want to be uprooted by the funny sentence but undo yourself, it will seem impolite.
“You know I'll prepare everything while you're there. Still want to have a boarding school that santrinya mandirkan?”
“Have eaten?” I just want to divert the discussion, my heart is hurt to see his sincerity that has not been able to tear me down. Wanted to curse myself, but what could I do. Love is one of the very strange things if there is some strangeness in this world. Sometimes we love someone, someone loves someone else. Other people love us, we love that person too but not all Romeo finds Juliet. However, I refuse to have a love story like them, because as a former santri I still miss a more heroic death like martyr for example.
“It's too late to eat now?”
“Si Nia how are you?” I asked the origin.
That's a head shake. “Ya already, sleep there tomorrow enter?”
Then long silent to each other with the screen that still plastered our faces. I don't know what else to talk about, and someone there who usually never runs out of funny looks waiting doesn't intend to talk about anything.
“I'll sleep.” I smiled at him before tapping the screen. Feeling the trembling hands holding hp made me think it might be too serious to make me forget to eat, why it feels so hungry to be so weak. Even every time I go up the stairs on campus I mind tightening my knees, it's so heavy. What is this age effect? Not thirty yet.
The days are crowded make me not have time to think about a lot of things about love, I just want to finish as soon as possible and return to the family, that's the best. Until there is information from the campus about my approved research. Before focusing on working on a thesis, it's good for me to take a short break in the country, I have a few days to enjoy life. The round-trip ticket that was accommodated by the students I had never used, after all how are the coffee peyuka and catfish breeders.
