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"If you feel in your chest unrest, in your soul hardship, and in your heart restlessness. So, read more:
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Because it's actually a useful medicine and covers the whole thing"
Al - Imam Habib Abdullah Bin Alwi Al - Haddad
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The days had passed, their Honeymoon had also ended. And now they have also returned to the land of the Water. After the honeymoon, Fadhil immediately took his wife to the parents' house. At first, Billa's parents wanted them to stay at her house.
Billa was also an only child to her parents. Herman was so heavy that he allowed Fadhil to take his daughter. But after he had gained enlightenment from his Friend, who happened to be visiting during Fadhil, asked for permission to take Billa.
"Herman, When a woman has decided to marry, she has obligations to her new family especially husband. Even the obligation exceeds the parents themselves." explained Herman's friend, Denis.
"It is the duty of a wife, to follow wherever her husband goes. You can't hold your son Herman. Because she was the responsibility of her husband.
It's just that Islam strictly forbids, for husbands to put their wives in a very uncomfortable place, with the intention to wrong their wives. Just as Islam also forbids the husband not to give a living to his wife because he wants to wrong his wife.
Allah says,
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βPut them (wives) where you live according to your ability and do not trouble them to constrict (heart) them.β (QS. at - Thalaq: 6)
In question, βdo not trouble themβ is trouble wife in matters of residence and living. Because the husband wants to mendzalimi his wife" explained Dhenis again.
"But Dhenis, Isn't it, Islam teaches that heaven is under the soles of the mother's feet. So, what about women who have become wives, is the wife's paradise in the mother or husband?" asked Herman clearly, he still has not mengikhlaskan only child.
" Hermans? The command of a wife to obey her husband is conveyed by the Prophet β β β β β β β β β β β β β β in some hadith narrations. Even if it were not for Allah to be worshipped, the Prophet ordered his wives to bow down to their husbands.
This is explained in the hadith of the Prophet:
βIf I could order someone to bow down to someone else, I would surely order a wife to bow down to her husband.β (CHR. Tirmidhi)
The narration of the hadith can be concluded that the first and main obedience of a wife is to her husband. A husband is the priest and leader of the family he builds.
Therefore, a husband must understand religion so that he can be a good husband and can guide his wife to avoid the fire of hell. The sin of the wife is the sin of the husband, when the wife is not directed to the right path by her husband. But that does not mean a husband must curb his wife to always stay at home and follow all his orders. Especially if the wife has parents who must also be considered.
A good husband will always give the wife the freedom to serve her parents. On the contrary, a wife will not keep her husband away from her family.
As the saying goes that
"the wife's heaven is upon her husband, the husband's heaven is upon his mother."
The adage is supported by the hadith narrated by Imam Tirmidhi, that the Prophet β β β β β β β β β β β β bersabda, βWhich wife who died in the state of her husband ridha to him will undoubtedly enter heaven.β (CHR. Tirmidhi)
So, it can be concluded that the wife's heaven is on the husband. The rights of a husband are greater than the rights of his parents. In addition, the wife who is obedient to the husband gets the privilege of God can choose the door of heaven from anywhere.
βWhen a woman prays five times, fasts for a month, keeps her honor, and obeys her husband, it says to her, βentrance you into heaven from whichever door you like.β (CHR. Ahmed)
"A wife should always obey the orders of her husband, as long as it does not violate religion. The main thing if Billa wants to get permission to enter the door of heaven anywhere then Billa..
"Should always guard her husband's property. Decorate only for her husband. Always close the aurat.
Ask permission from your husband when going out of the house. Performing the Sunnah fast with the permission of the husband.
Try to fulfill the husband's invitation to have fun. Honoring husband. Respect for the husband's family. Always loyal to husband. They can educate children well.
Good at taking care of the household. Can keep the husband's disgrace. Good at managing finances and grateful for the living given by the husband."
After hearing the explanation from Dhenis, both Herman, Fadhil, and Billa, finally got a very valuable lesson. Especially Herman, whom she finally gave up her daughter, to follow her husband.
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Now Fadhil, and Billa are already in the house left by his parents Fadhil, who looks quite large, if only stay alone. However, they were not alone, for Fadhil, having a servant, loved him dearly. Because, he was the one who took care of Fadhil, after his mother died. And Fadhil, too, had considered her a mother to him.
"Assalamu'alaikum Mbok Inah" Fadhil said as he entered his home.
"Wa'alaikumus greetings Den Adhil, Ma shaa Allah, this is Aden's wife huh?" reply an old woman, called Mbok Inah, with a face that looks happy when Fadhil brought his new wife Salsabillah.
"Iya Mbok, meet dong, He Mbok, all of you teach him various things Mbok," said Fadhil as he stepped away from Billa and Mbok Inah, which still looks awkward.
"In shaa Allah, Den," said Inah, before Fadhil moved away. "Assalamu'alaikum Neng, introduce my name Inah, call Mbok Inah ya Neng," he continued again to Billa, as he extended his hand, to his new employer.
"Wa'alaikumus hail Mbok, I'm Salsabillah Mbok, call Billa only yes Mbok," replied Billa friendly.
"Yes Neng, Ma shaa Allah, neng is very beautiful huh? Thanks to you Neng already wanted to be Den Adhil's Wife, Mbok was almost desperate. You think Mbok, Den Adhil, will not be able to have Neng's wife," said Inah makes, Billa squealed Dahinya.
"Why then, Mbok?" tanya Billa who looks, already comfortable telling Mbok Inah. She became curious about her husband's life before he married her.
"Yes that Neng, Den Adhilkan is always cold as women. In fact, even glancing at them would not. So Mbok became afraid of Neng, what if Mbok no later, and he did not have a wife. Mbok is always worried about seeing Neng's cold attitude" explained Inah.
"Ooh, so brother Fadhil never dated dong Mbok?" ask Billa, curious.
"Yes never Neng, who is a woman who wants to be the same cold man so Neng,"
"Eh, means I'm the first woman, who wants the same cold guy dong Mbok?"
"Yes Neng. Cower to the first woman, present, in the life of Den Adhil,"
Hearing the words of Mbok Inah Billa smiling with a face that looks met once he was happy to hear the words of Mbok Inah. At the same time, Fadhil's baritone voice suddenly startled him.
"Why are you smiling so much?"
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