
arriving at ATTOYYIBIN pesantren ustdz Zafir directly to Ndalem pak kyai, he was asked to immediately face him if he had returned to the pesantren
"tok..tok..tok...assalamu aleikum" knock the door from ustdz Zafir who just came from home without stopping by maktab (room) first.
the door is opened by khaddam who is already a worker in Ndalem kiyai "wa Alaikum salam,eh ustdz Zafir anyway, Monggo please ustdz, already in the same waiting sir yai."sapnya friendly, he said,
Ustdz Zafir nodded and went into Ndalem pak kyai, he sat on the carpet that was available there. a moment later pak kiyai came out from the inside and immediately shone his hand by ustdz Zafir,
"Yo opo fir..., wes in Tah Karo Abah lan ummi mu...?"(how fir..., has been told Tah same Abah and ummi mu..?)
"enggeh sampun pak kiyai.
"Yo opo your response, son..?lek Awakmu ora mantep lan ora seneng,ojok di jatno fir..., I iki Yo ora mekso you mek just nudukanno wae."(how do you respond son..?if you are not steady and do not like it, do not continue fir.., I am not forcing you, just show it ).
"enggeh Kulo ngerthos pak yai.ngapunten lingkang agung, menawi Kulo boten sam'an wa tho'atan teng genengan"(yes I understand pak kyai,apologies as much as I do not listen and do not to'at on sampiyan") replied ustdz Zafir while looking down his head, he was very afraid if pak kiyai felt rejected.
"looh Yo gak po po po son, I Iki ndudukanno crewmu Nang arek ik patterne jare konco koncone Yo tingkae slick, smopan lan teko klamga seng duwe, sopo weroh bek mnowo dadi johmu nak " (loo yes it's okay son, I'm showing you the child because said friends his behavior is good, polite and from family are, who knows maybe your soul mate son ") ustdz Zafir simply lowered his gaze looking at the red carpet that lay beneath him then he said
"wonten pak kyai,Kulo wonten angkang badhe in tangletaken teng genengan" (sorry sir kiyai I have something to ask to sampiyan)
"Yo..age opo iku kiddo..,?(yeah, well, what's that, son...,?)
then ustdz Zafir tells about a dream that came to him 3x with the same dream.
"iku gawe pitudhuh Nang your crew nak.lek your crew iku konkon meneng ge' Kono. wintaie kok ORA talking lek Awakmu dream ngono.."(that's a clue for you son, ' 'waina. kok ORA talk about the dream of you. '"(it's a clue for you son ,if you were told to stay there, kemaren² kok not say klo you dream like that..") asked mr. kyai
ustadz Zafir relates that he first dreamed, thinking that it might be just a sleeping flower but because 3x had the same dream so he started Yaqin that it was a hint of Allah. especially when dreaming it must be after doing istikhoroh prayers.
"continue Yo opo saiki..your jaw Kate ta'aruf opo ORA Karo arek iku.??"(how now.you want to know if not the same child) asked Pak kiyai again.
"agge pak kiyai insyaallah."
"Yo gak po opo mek ta'arufan wae,lek fit Yo dariusno,lek ORA Yo gak po'opo.(ya ga papa only ta'arufan only, klo fit yes continued, klo not suitable yes not papa)"said pak kiyai again who was embraced by ustadz Zafir."enggeh pak kyai"
after meeting with Pak kiyai and already revealed what he wanted to say, finally ustdz Zafir say goodbye to his maktab.
**
to the next day Mr. Kiai called and told Fitri's parents that ustdz Zafir wanted to share with Fitri this afternoon, so they also prepared their daughter.
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ustadz Zafir also arrived on time as promised, he had been told klo pak kyai could not accompany because there were other activities.
looking at the house in question, ustdz Zafir knocked on his door, he was alone without taking any friends
"assalamualaikum," he said
"wa Alaikum salam"the simultaneous answer from inside the house that may have been waiting for him, although he was not late but they were prepared first."please enter nak ustdz"said a man who was not young anymore, maybe he was around the age of 55 years. ustadz Zafir did not know ready this man , ustdz Zafir smiled and nodded then he entered the house
"please sit nak ustdz" the man who just invited me again.
"squeals"
a while later he was treated to drinks and snacks.after which Fitri girl who had called him at that time, still clearly remembered in his mind ustdz Zafir, who was still, the girl walked to the seat in front of him and cupped her hands and said"assalamualaikum aki"
"wa Alaikum salam ukhti,"ustdz Zafir lowered his face and his gaze, karna he knew the girl in front of him was not his muhrim
after making small talk asking each news is now right on the core event that will make attachment between them.
"sorry before ukhti, what antum (you) already understand if Ana(me) is a widower..and does not have a permanent job...?"ask ustdz Zafir directly without having to cover up
"Ana understand aki, and Ana can accept the lack of antum." said Fitri steady
"then what about parents and brothers² ukhti others..?"ustdz Zafir asked this because he already knew that the Fitri family did not agree with their match
"not that will be the wife of aki and who will undergo the household heresy Ana aki...?"fitri's speech was so eloquent and admirable, he was also very convincing.
"a household is built very sturdy ukhti.if not , then it will falter.so even if it only relies on the ability of both of us,without any backrest in the form of parental ridho it will not be strong to withstand the burden of the household pillar itself ukhti. "answered Zafir ethereal
"yes, that is an important part to be considered, but if indeed they will never agree, while we have made a choice on the right person, whether to give up aki...?"ask Fitri again who really made ustdz Zafir shake his head.
"mashallah, a son of his rhino lies with his parents, let alone a boy. Ana can only continue this bonding effort if your parents approve of the relationship we're going to have."
"is a child not allowed to choose a spouse who is Sholih..?"
"that should be right," replied ustdz Zafir began to sound soft
"that's the important thing we can both choose for ourselves, not the pair we want..?"
"sorry, but Ana can't, without their parents' blessing."
without them both realizing that all the Fitri family heard what has been fitri said, they are actually not too surprised by what Fitri does considering Fitri is like that.very stubborn if it has been this way, for fitri, it must be this way.