Heart Voice

Chapter.38

Aisyah also gave encouragement to Syakir how to be assertive.

"Sayakir, did Syakir not want to get married?" Ask Aisyah.

"Yes, but later. Not anytime soon!" Answer Syakir.

"So gini loh Syakir, not for Syakir aja. Create a brother who likes PHP too!!. So the man must be firm. Firm does not mean fierce, but not plan and firm in defending its dignity and firmly in delivering advice and kindness. Because a man is a priest to his wife and children, so it takes decisiveness, but still have a soft heart, polite he said, it is not easy to hurt others, and noble heart." Aisha's Advice.

"Sure that tonight should follow Abi, you see how your future wife and new family will be, if not. Say no, because you are a man who has the right to choose. If so, say yes and do not do anything like your brother" said Aisyah.

"Kok from earlier Abang mulu anyway, yes Abang wrong yesterday. But now we have improved the relationship between Brother and Fatimnya, dah ah Akbar just want to go to the kitchen, find food to be full" said Akbar went to the kitchen with a mouth that can be in pigtails 12.

"Keep, how shall I behave?" Ask Syakir.

"You'll know for sure later, the spirit! Married worship too" said Aisyah.

Meanwhile, Akbar really enjoyed Aisyah's cooking. For a long time did not taste his brother's cooking. It has become a habit of Akbar and Syakir, if stopping by Aisyah's house just for nitip to eat. From anywhere or want to go anywhere, surely Syakir also took the time to stop by Aisyah's house, even if it was just eating a side dish.

After playing with Airy, Raihan and Naira. Akbar and Syakir say goodbye to going home. Because, ba'da isyak Syakir must be ready to join Ruchan met with a soul mate who wants to be introduced to Syakir.

Isya' time has come, finished worshipers in the mosque. Everyone at home, Leah, Ruchan, Akbar, and Syakir, were ready to leave. This time Ceasy will not come, because he has a promise of memorization with Ilham in the boarding school.

"Let Akbar drive," said Akbar asking for the car keys from Ruchan.

Everyone got in the car and was ready to leave.

"It's more stressful during Ma's thesis. Why not today, why not tomorrow. Can take Kak Ais" Syakir said.

"These two kaliam yes, nothing Sister Ais, Sister Ais continues. Have pity Your brother is already busy with his own family, do not depend. There is still Abi with Mama. And most importantly, there is God too" Leah explained.

"Bismil was bornohmanirrohim, I hope Syakir is not nervous" Syakir said.

"Amin, but Kir. This time you will not be disappointed. Yes, all also the will of God, if you are a match, you will definitely be united, otherwise you may not be a match" said Ruchan.

"Bi, if you wish later, Syakir does not match how? According to Syakir himself but?" Ask Syakir.

"Gak papa dong, Abi and Abi's friends just want to introduce you, about the fit or not kaliam himself who decided. It's just that Abi, according to Abi yes, he suits you" replied Ruchan.

"We will not mean you, Syakir, this is just an introduction, who knows you are suitable. So don't be nervous either" Leah said excitedly.

Marriage is not something that must be avoided, our parents have their own choices for our future, because they know how the right match for their children will be.

But many parents also do not understand the wishes of children.in looking for a mate, which is good for us, not necessarily suitable for parents. And vice versa, which according to the elderly is suitable for him, not necessarily suitable in our hearts. But it all depends on the individual, arranged marriage does not have to be and married.

This is a form of friendship, which if suitable will meet, apply and get married. If it is not suitable, it can be to add brother se faith. Not all pesantren must have an arranged marriage, but indeed most santri themselves are asking in finding the right match to the Ajengan or Kyai.

The man has the right to choose, he has the right to choose any woman he wants to marry, even if it is Kyai's child. Unlike the female santri, there are times when they make their own choices and tell the adjengan to bring the man together, so that they are in a match. There is also a resigned marriage with the choice of Kyai and his parents.

Like I'm married because of matchmaking😇 And enjoy dating after marriage, it feels more bitter, although initially without taste. Long time also comes the taste.