Halal Lover
HAPPY (TAMAT)
The long-awaited day finally came. Mr. Adi has prepared a luxurious party for his son and daughter-in-law in a star hotel. In accordance with my request, Mr. Adi asked the WO party to prepare a reception with Javanese customs that are so thick.
Invitational guests have arrived, Me and Mas Gaga and family have been danced with as beautiful as possible. Kinar and his family were also present. Like the promise of Mas Gagah all transportation and accommodation costs on the responsibility of Mas Gagah as a form of thanks because the Kinar family has been very good with his wife.
I use a typical Central Java wedding dress that is identical to the black color that symbolizes wisdom. There is a name Kanigaran, which is a wedding dress worn by the nobles of Central Java in ancient times, with a black velvet character decorated with gold sequins with special carving motifs on the edges.
There is also the name Jawi Jangkep which is specifically worn by men, in the form of an open suit carved black. As for women juxtaposed with a typical kebaya that must use patterned brocade material. As for subordinates both men and women wear rags or batik typical of Central Java.
Me and Mas Dagah were escorted to the reception with gamelan music. Oh God, I'm really overwhelmed by what's in front of my eyes right now. My father-in-law is really preparing a fancy party for my wedding and Mas Perky. I didn't expect it to get like this.
Today and yesterday I and Mas Gagah carried out many traditional Javanese possession which although impressed a bit complicated but the meaning is very deep. And Mas Perky was also very happy because this was the first experience he saw.
Usually his married friends rarely use traditional ceremonies that are so thick like this.
Some of the positions that have been me and Mas Dashing run between them.
Siraman : Self-cleaning ahead of big "event.
Egg Stamp: Curse of hope and symbol of loyalty.
Sikepan Sindur: A tight and inseparable cord of love
Lap: Sharing a fair love.
Kacar Kucur: A symbol of well-being in the household.
Tray: Help each other and get along well.
Sungkeman: Consecrated to parents or elders
Yellow Janur: Hope gets a good light.
Twins mayang: The meaning will be every good hope for the household later.
Tarub: Prosperity and hope.
After completing the customary posei, both the bride and the parents sit at the venue, immediately held entertainment two or three dances that lasted 10 minutes, for example Gambyong dance and Karon Sih dance.
After the dance was finished, a new speech was held from Pak Adi, Father Mas Gaga to express his gratitude and ask for blessings for the marriage of the bride and the family.
Furthermore, guests are welcome to dine together with both the bride and her family.
When eating food, the two brides and both parents stand and walk to the invited guests.
I walked towards Kinar, while Mas Dashing gathered with his friends.
I hugged Kinar, "Hopefully nular to you, baby"
Nulars?like diseases alone😆😆.
Kinar smiled, "Aamiin, today my best friend is beautiful, you know Nay, there are so many women whose hearts are dirty today" Ledeknya.
"Taste the hell"
"Yes, there were some women who were angry and disappointed that your husband had married you Nay"
"Yes, surely the woman who likes to chat Mas Gagah, since I returned to the village yesterday Kin, mobile Mas Dashing like a female dormitory, full of female chat, so I currently want to be published, so I currently want to be published, moreover, Daddy Mas Dashing has already approved" said me with a smile.
"Congratulations, dear, may you always be happy"
"Ehm"
Me and Kinar looked towards the source of the sound, it turned out to be Mas Guntur.
"Thunder Mask again hunting yah?" Ledek Clinic.
Guntur is indeed the most clever fight.
"Why come here, there's sexsoy-sexsoy mas" I said.
" Ah, the sexsoy is ordinary, she wants to be as amazing as the one next to you Brother-in-law" she said with a smile.
"Beuh, pinter just glued it"
"Yuk, ah eat Kin" Mas Guntur took Kinar's hand to take a meal.
I stared at them leave. I pray for Kinar that Kinar may also find the best man. If only Mas Guntur though, hopefully Mas Guntur able to make him happy.
"Dear"
Dashing around my back.
"Eh yes, my"
"What dream?"
" That" I pointed towards Kinar and Thunder.
"Are they going to be really serious?"
" Let's see, may Thunder really change, just let them currently be friends and get to know each other"
" Aamin I hope"
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Thankfully, the show finally went well. It is now 12 pm, me and Mas Gaga pray Isya first before going to bed.
We all stayed at the reception hotel.
Finish praying we both fall on the bed. I fell asleep while hugging Mas Gagah.
" Thank you, for all this"
Mas Dashing stroked my hair, "Mas should thank you Adek, Adek has accepted Mas again, has forgiven Dad"
"Yes, Thank God, God always helps us"
I hugged Mas Gagah more tightly, as well as Mas Dagang. Mas Dashing who seemed to be exhausted his eyes began to shut. While I was, my mind suddenly floated, recalling my journey of love with the Dashing Mas.
In this life, God often gives us lessons in the form of tests/trials. And indeed it is the prerogative of God that if we examine all it is actually a spark of the love of God.
The trials and trials of sickness, loss of property or loss, suffering and misfortune or whatever we receive in this life, still come from the ocean of God's love, not His wrath.
The road to hope will be passed with patience, such is the character of the believer. They believe that the path that passes is part of the Divine scenario. His end in the hope that not a few will meet with the test that will be increasingly suspending. Before Allah gives victory, before Allah gives glory, which is not given except to the noble people whom Allah has chosen, for being tested, and honest in his jihad.
We may not realize that we are on the road to glory. God has prepared a special room of heaven for His servants who pass the test. Perhaps we have had a difficult time when we were humming our efforts in kindness? On the contrary it becomes strange, when we lightly feet so easily when in contact with ugliness.
As Muslims, of course, we believe in the truth of the promise of Allah Ta'ala in the Qur'an which states, "Verily after hardship there must be ease". He stated that until it was repeated in QS 94:5-6. Repetition is not because God cannot keep his promise, but precisely in the way God wants to encourage people when they are friends with difficulties and difficulties.
Many of us who when tested even murmured, why should I be God, why not Him, him or him. We should be grateful that when we are tested, God believes that we are people who are able to pass the test.
The thing we must believe is to be sure that God will provide ease in the difficulties we go through because God will not break with his promise.
The exam can kill me. I who was still busy daydreaming finally began to sleepy as well. I finally fell asleep in the arms of the Dashing Mas, the most comfortable and warmest hug.
"I love you Mas Dashing, sleep soundly My Halal Lover"
